OTC/different dancers/same club/same time
bullzeye
New Hampshire
It might just be beginner’s luck, but just as I was able to line up my first OTC, the opportunity to maybe get OTC from another dancer has arisen. And I’m not sure just how to proceed.
In an effort just to get any OTC, I was advancing along parallel paths with different dancers at the same time. I thought I would be just as unsuccessful as I had in the past. And I still haven’t done my initial OTC as first I, and then she, had to cancel. But either I’ve upped my game (ha) or I’m a lucky bastard. I’ve ended up with both their numbers and there have been texts and pics back and forth. But they both work at the same club. Is this a potential problem or no big deal?
I don’t think it’s a big deal but maybe it is? I haven’t mentioned them to each other because I didn’t think it mattered. I didn’t think they’d care. But now that I think about it a little more, coupled with the knowledge that I have now (which I didn’t have before) that dancers actually talk to one another, maybe this situation could blow up in my face. Or, maybe they’ve already talked to each other and everyone’s cool with the way things are.
Any suggestions/stories you have to share would be welcomed.
In an effort just to get any OTC, I was advancing along parallel paths with different dancers at the same time. I thought I would be just as unsuccessful as I had in the past. And I still haven’t done my initial OTC as first I, and then she, had to cancel. But either I’ve upped my game (ha) or I’m a lucky bastard. I’ve ended up with both their numbers and there have been texts and pics back and forth. But they both work at the same club. Is this a potential problem or no big deal?
I don’t think it’s a big deal but maybe it is? I haven’t mentioned them to each other because I didn’t think it mattered. I didn’t think they’d care. But now that I think about it a little more, coupled with the knowledge that I have now (which I didn’t have before) that dancers actually talk to one another, maybe this situation could blow up in my face. Or, maybe they’ve already talked to each other and everyone’s cool with the way things are.
Any suggestions/stories you have to share would be welcomed.
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But - if one wants to be a fair-PL, then perhaps Subraman's "don't be an asshole" "don't be a little-bitch" theorem may apply:
"don't be an asshole" - e.g. if you already came to terms w/ one of them (not counting you had come to terms but there was a cancellation), then follow thru
"don't be a little bitch" - don't get all sweaty-handed worrying about what the dancers will think or that they'll get mad