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7 years ago
Correction - "I think half price or $5 dances"
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7 years ago
I think half price or $5 is actually too cheap. The difference between the discount price and the regular price is too great. I would rather have $5 off everyday during the slow times of the day.
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7 years ago
I would agree that I definitely pretty much never tip when asked directly.
Only exception to this was once I LDKed 30 seconds into the next song and the dancer suggested a tip instead of paying for the extra song. That is about the only situation where getting asked directly is fine.
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7 years ago
If a girls is a great LDQ and I would consider seeing her regularly I have no problem tipping her a little extra.
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7 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I prefer to go to the higher volume clubs during the day. You get the day shift vibe and service with a good number of hot dancers.
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7 years ago
@crazzybowy33 - One other thing you should know is that although the mileage in DFW is good almost everything happens in the open. Even the VIP areas at most clubs are pretty open. If you have other specific questions feel free to message me. I can recommend dancers who are good LDQs but not much past that. I would also say why are you going for your first OTC away from home? Seems like that would be easier to work out at home. Oh and lastly don't go to the lodge unless you want an air dance.
@rickdugan - I agree with you that there is a lot not to like about BDD. But I don't think this thread is particularly positive for BDD. And I would disagree on one point that the club is a tourist trap, for lunch it is filled with locals who can get lunch, entry, a beer, and tips for $10-15.
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7 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
@Bj99 - Sick as in a cold? Cancer? Mental illness?
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7 years ago
BDD (Baby Dolls Dallas and don't waste your time at the Fort Worth location) is a big high volume club. During the day there is a 7 stage rotation. With girls sometime doing 1 or 2 songs on the main stage that can mean a 45 minute wait from seeing a girl on stage to her getting off the last stage.
I would absolutely avoid the lunch crowd. BDD has a $3 cover including free lunch buffet (terrible looking food BTW) and it brings in a TON of cheap guys just there to eat and leave. So it is really easy for the girls to see you as a non-spender and avoid you. Additionally because a few of the hotter day shift girls bank on stage tips (which is very unusual for non-urban clubs in DFW) they don't even bother with doing dances. A group of them will literally sit in a corner of the club with their backs to the crowd playing on their phones. Then some of the girls who are actively doing dances have regulars during the lunch buffet times.
If you are there on Wednesday you should definitely go for the lunch buffet at the Men's Club. It is absolutely worth it just for the food and it's down the street from BDD.
Overall I think you might be better off hitting up Bucks Cabaret in Fort Worth. I have had consistently the best experiences there.
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7 years ago
At the club I frequent the cuban girls like to double up and run some really aggressive hustles. It's pretty annoying.
The other day I was getting a dance with one of them. In the middle of a song she completely stops and brings her friend over and trys to talk me into a double with both of them.
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7 years ago
I am actually in the camp of guys that prefer gowns. I enjoy the suspense. For me it must be a real cocktail dress or look like one, cheap obvious stripper gowns don't do anything for me.
There can be other advantages to gown clubs. In my area there is a gown club which seems to employ much hotter girls that tend to be highly intelligent and better spoken. The dances tend to be the slower more sensual style I like anyway. Mileage is surprisingly pretty good and the dance prices are the same as everywhere else.
There can be occasions where you could be disappointed when the dress comes off. But that is really unusual as the general nature of the system weeds that out. Guys at gown clubs expect lengthy conversation first so a girl with a weird c-section scar or hidden flabby-ness will never get more than a single dance and end up quitting. At least that's my theory.
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7 years ago
@Pyroxl - Sounds like you are really new at this. If you are only getting single dances and have been able to get close to LDK you might want to see if you can make that work for you. It is a way cheaper addiction. Try to find an LDQ, a dancer that will happily actively try to make you achieve orgasm from a lap dance. Good LDQs will actively stay in the positions you want and stop doing those you don't. I had a lot of trouble at first (look at my old threads) but after gaining some experience one of the girls that was super frustrating to get a dance with turned out to be the best LDQ of all time including stroking the head of my dick OTP will grinding me.
To get the LDK expect to go for at least 4-5 dances so you aren't worried or thinking about the money. Then just relax and enjoy the pleasure and it will probably happen.
Next my advice is to completely forget about DFK. You are new and probably doing a ton of things wrong and dancers can smell it. As you get more experienced maybe it will happen and you will be pleasantly surprised but if you go in expecting it you are just going to be frustrated and that is not good.
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7 years ago
Are you going during day shift or night shift? Are you going to a club that is known for extras? What type of extras are you looking for?
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7 years ago
I can't see messages unless I resize my browser window. And my ignore list (just SJG) is also not functioning.
One suggestion I would have for the great wise founder: What about setting it up that once a member is ignored by 20 people they are automatically ignored by all new members and everyone not logged in. That might curb some discourteous conduct without any active moderation.
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7 years ago
Yes I remember. It was like 2 months ago.
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7 years ago
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LDJunkieEnjoying lap dances for 15 years and counting...
LDK>Masturbating in VIP
Mutual masturbating in VIP with baby stripper > Terrible lap dance from baby stripper
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7 years ago
SJG is a troll and most people have him on their ignore list. Click on his user name and then you should be able to see the ignore button.
His advice will work in a mexican brothel. But so will LITERALLY any other strategy no matter how bad.
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7 years ago
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LDJunkieEnjoying lap dances for 15 years and counting...
If it was a baby stripper and we could both masturbate I could see that being fun to try once.
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7 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
Although I love hardcore porn my favorite girls all happen to be softcore models:
http://www.kindgirls.com/gallery/femjoy/kamilla-j/6794/
http://www.kindgirls.com/gallery/mcn/susann/2437/
http://www.kindgirls.com/gallery/femjoy/vika-a/8249/
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7 years ago
For a while what I was doing was trying to put my phone into airplane mode at a specific spot on the way to the club and then re-enable it at that same place on my way home. That didn't work because of the bluetooth problem and after an orgasm I tend to forget and once left my phone on airplane mode the rest of the day.
I have been thinking about testing temporarily disabling the timeline. But I really don't want to lose the old timeline data.
There is also a way to turn on android developer settings and then force the phone to have a false GPS. I might look sometime and see if there is an app that assist with this because then you could keep the timeline but have a false location.
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7 years ago
If it were me I would ask the club manager to meet me in the lobby or out in front of the club with a tablet with the video. If you owe the money pay it.
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7 years ago
Yes people with android phones have this problem as well. If you go into google maps there is a timeline feature which you can disable. You can also delete an individual day if you want (deleting a specific stop doesn't work).
I have tried turning off GPS/Wifi but as salty.nutz stated even with GPS/Wifi off your phone still can get location data from the car.
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7 years ago
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LiwetIf she walks away smiling, you spent too much.
It might also be better to try and make yourself think of this situation as a disappointment rather than something that makes you angry.
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7 years ago
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LiwetIf she walks away smiling, you spent too much.
Glad I don't live in Vegas.
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7 years ago
@Subraman - I am a super nice guy. I am someone who went directly from living with my parents to living with my wife. Then after 20 years of marriage I decided to try out strip clubs. The problem for me was that the strip club was not at all what I expected. My personality is such that I have real trouble with things (systems) that I don't understand. The strip club is a secret world where the rules (and I would say script) are not written down anywhere. So I spent a ton of time reading the pink forum and watching stripper vlogs on youtube. That gave me a ton of insight but a lot of it was bad.