Have you ever stepped back and looked at what we've become?
Asor619
California
I was able to go to my local strip club and kick it with a buddy. My buddy is not an OG monger like myself. It's been a while since I've been to club with a friend. I wasn't there to hang with my CF and not to fiend.. Club was not too crazy busy so we were able to scope out the club. As I scanned the room it was a trip checking out all the dudes just sitting there like creepers. Guys just siting in the corners with hoodies on, Guys just gawking with no expressions on their faces, and many with non approachable body language.
I read alot on here how guys get butt hurt that they don't get approached or guys that get the one liners "Are you ready for a dance?" . Now I get it!! Now I understand why gals don't want to sit down and chill for a while or even approach some of us. THey are creeped out or we are not approached. Must be very intimidating for some of the gals.. LOL
Can we act like normal human beings when mongering?
I read alot on here how guys get butt hurt that they don't get approached or guys that get the one liners "Are you ready for a dance?" . Now I get it!! Now I understand why gals don't want to sit down and chill for a while or even approach some of us. THey are creeped out or we are not approached. Must be very intimidating for some of the gals.. LOL
Can we act like normal human beings when mongering?
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Try to get in the same state of mind as the guy who was buttfucking a girl and didn't realize it. That guy is aces!
I generally see more of the behavior GACA is describing than what you're describing. Guys showing out for their buddies, trying to impress strippers with a stack of $200 in singles. Then of course they leave with $175 of them or throw them 10 at a time at as many girls as they can, so they can share in the attention she's getting on stage. Or being visibly obnoxious, trying to grab em by the pussy or jam their finger up their ass at the bar, trying to stare up their assholes on stage for a $1 tip. I have no illusions about why I'm there, but I sometimes have to fight the urge to knock some of those dudes the fuck out, so I kinda get what you're saying.
Generally, I go in with a smile on my face, am friendly and cheery with most of the strippers, waitresses, bartenders, and even occasionally managers. I do occasionally play with my phone & generally look non-approachable, but that's usually cause I don't want to be approached. Often because I'm in a shitty mood & am waiting to see a particular distraction, who has been warned of my condition in advance. I wish more girls would take BJ99's approach and leave me alone when I look like that, or at the very list keep it to a drive by "wanna dance" or "may I join you" instead of trying to force the issue.
BJ can you comment more on what constitutes questions that are too personal?
There's some funny unwritten rules of behavior at strip clubs. If you're alone, you need to have a pokerface at all times. It always cracks me up when a guy is at the tip rail, a gorgeous girl is right in front of him, and he's got one of the two approved single-clubber faces on: either completely blank and stoic, or what I call the "yeah, girl, you want it girl" false confidence face (with smirk accessory). But any hint at a public display that he's genuinely enjoying it is verboten. Exception is guys clubbing in groups -- they are allowed to show they're enjoying it, but it has to be over the top, hooting and hollaring. And of course then you get the rare unicorn, the regular in love who does NOT GIVE A FUCK WHAT YOU THINK, he locks eye contact with the dancer and will not waver to look at her tits or pussy because by gum he's different than the rest of us and is going to seduce her with eye contact.
If I'm at a new club that's crowded, I tend to stay in my lane and stick with one of the approved modes of behavior above. At less crowded clubs and my regular clubs, I tend to let my face light up and show my appreciation when I appreciate her -- that's right, I'm a fucking PL outlaw (BJ, I apologize, you're probably soaked through right now)
Paul, I've been trying to figure out if you're a nice guy, or one of the regulars came up with an alternative account and this is his "nice guy" persona. This may have tipped things a bit -- it is very difficult for me to believe anyone reads what's said over there and believes or is guided by any of it, given that just a skim shows that so little of what they say matches with what happens in strip clubs. Maybe whoever's account this is overplayed things a bit? :) :) :) lol
You gauge the customers perfectly
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that sends the signal that they don’t want to talk to anyone, but are there for some reason, so we will go ask if they want a dance. Often, these are the guys who immediately say “yes,” get their dances, and either leave, or go back to hide at their table. Or they will say, “no, I’m just here waiting for a phone call.” Either way, they don’t seem to want us to hang out w them
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But the large majority are just there for a good time which may or may not include extras.
When I read reviews on this site most names are not familiar, which tells me that most members here don't write on the discussion board.
I’m usually polite about it when someone comes up though. I tell them I’m waiting, and “we’ll see what happens when we’re done.”
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