Jerking Off instead of Grinding
LDJunkie
Enjoying lap dances for 15 years and counting...
Sometimes, when the lap dance is not very good, i just grab my boner and start jerking off (as discreetly as i can), just when i know that the dance itself will not make me LDK. It's sort of like saying "fuck it i need to unload anyway".
Some dancers do notice, and some have no problem with it, others might be offended and/or disgusted.
Have you been in this situation?
Some dancers do notice, and some have no problem with it, others might be offended and/or disgusted.
Have you been in this situation?
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SJG
The private booths are toll gates, and once you have agreed, you pretty much have to do it her way.
It is intended for taking money off of chumps.
SJG
Lap Dancing used to mean lap sitting, very conducive to makeout sessions.
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Rolan Bolan - Children of the Revolution (OFFICIAL VIDEO)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xx1UZg0P…
If that's what you want to do, go for it.I'm not hating, just not my thing.
I’ve never just whipped it out and started stroking to completion in a club. I’ve moved it inside my pants - when it wasn’t positioned to properly grind.
This reminds me of the Louis CK allegations - about him having women watch him jerk off. Maybe it’s worth a try? It was enough to get him in trouble - so it might be fun...
The Golden Dragon in Portland has this as a real option if you take a stripper to the VIP rooms. On the way there she will grab a small bottle of lube and a towel and a PL has the option to whip it out and jerk off if he wants. But the downside is that all contact stops once a PL goes this route. I don't understand the appeal and have always done high mileage LDs and told the stripper not to bother with the lube and towel, but apparently some PLs like it because it seems routine to the strippers that work there.
Mutual masturbating in VIP with baby stripper > Terrible lap dance from baby stripper
Seen something like this once in SF, the place which would become Pink Diamonds. Heard about this in Portland, the most extreme of their dives. Seen it a bit like this at a local place. And of course it looks to be like this in Tijuana.
:) :) :)
SJG
From reviews on here, here are, I think, 3 clubs in south Philly where guys can jerk off while watching a stripper play with herself in front of you in a VIP room, but touching the girl is not allowed once you start attending to yourself.
Let's say you can get your 30min VIP for a total (room+dancer) of $200. Songs are at least 3min long, so that's 10 songs or $20/song, which is what "contact" dances cost in most other clubs around the country (based on what others say in here; I haven't clubbed out of Atlanta in years).
When I was doing VIP there more often, I would always unzip and take joc6.5 out early in the session. Only encountered one dancer that said "you can't do that". Some would automatically take over, some would let me finger them while I jack off, some would do a tit fuck, some would sit on my lap and let me cum on their stomach, some would stay off to the side and say "aim the other direction". But pretty much the "default" action in VIP for me there was DIY ejaculation services (LDK not going to happen for me). Yeah, I can jack off on my own, but sometimes after you've been drooling over a hot chick at the bar for an hour, it's nice to take her in private and jack off while you're playing with and sucking on her tits and have two fingers 3 knuckles deep in her.
While there are stories of BJs and FS in VIP at Oasis, I've never encountered a dancer there who would for normal VIP prices, and the ones who quoted a price were too damn high (like $500 for a 30min VIP with FS) and still might be ROBs.