Next time you visit a club - Put a STOP to unnecessary, courtesy-tipping on top of paying lap dance prices.
Sure pay for extras at the negotiated rate. Sure tip when dancer does something extra for you without even you asking. But say no to "being shamed into tipping" $10 for a $25 normal dance. Just because ...
If a dancer asks "How 'bout a tip?" or "Where's my tip?" .... AND you felt her dances were really good - only then say this:
"sorry I don't tip, if you want extra money - you will have to earn it." "do something that I'll remember or if you're out of ideas - just grind some more"
Report dancer's reaction here.
If she starts off on that "memorable dance" for you, below words are optional: "Look at dat glow on your face - earning every buck working your butt off. You gonna stay young foreva"
Put your good money to good use.


I generally pay them what I feel like, which is more than the dance price and more than what most pay, so they don't complain. I need to start clamping down....Challenge accepted.