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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
@papi - The few I have gotten to know were super clean dancers. Lower mileage than the club average for sure.
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6 years ago
If I am there I want an LDK.
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
@Lofn - Personally I take comments more seriously if they are from a dancer. I have gotten some invaluable insight from the girls here.
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6 years ago
UPDATE -
So offering my CF a guaranteed minimum has been a mixed bag. The lap dances have actually been better and neither of us are counting the songs. So I got the experience I wanted. However she has asked me for more money to help out with random SS. So you guys were right on that one, lesson learned.
In general the negative side of the experience gave me some perspective on the relationship. I am planning on ending it or making it far less regular. So we'll see how that goes.
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Interesting idea. Sort of like the verified thing that was discussed before but just for dancers.
The question is do dancers want this?
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6 years ago
@twentyfive - Agreed..
@SJG - Sure if I were to go I would prefer to not deal with the meseros and on that point we agree. But you can't always play around the system. Squeaky wheels need to be greased and there may be far more going on behind the curtain than what we can see. However I disagree that "it's better for the girl". That is getting into your normal delusions and twisted worldview. As always SJG best of luck being crazy!
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
@twentyfive - That is true, they do like the same thing we do and are willing to discuss it. My CF did a gig where she worked a bachelor party. Not actually doing any stripping just going along with a group of guys who were a bit nerdy to a different strip club and getting them to open up and have a good time. Personally that is not why I get along with them, I tend to find them much more chill.
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
My CF and previous CF were both gay. I get along really well with lesbian strippers. My previous CF used to say that she thought being gay was a superpower in the SC as she didn't care much about rejection from guys and it showed in her confidence. I think I can see that same kind of confidence in other lesbian strippers and have been able to spot them that way. However when getting to know my CF really well she had a ton of "man hate" judging guys incredibly harshly and would occasionally be a total ROB to someone she hated. After some time passes I might write up some of what I learned in an article.
In talking to my CF she only knew of a handful of other girls who were openly gay. This is in an ultra high volume club with 20-50 working at a time. However I am deep in the bible belt so some of the gay strippers weren't super open about it, as it could have negative consequences with the other girls.
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6 years ago
I know when I write more detailed reviews I try to put info in them that is useful to dancers (customer makeup, fees info, etc). I don't see why this site shouldn't be useful to dancers.
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6 years ago
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Cashman1234He/Him - He’s a filthy pig. That’s him in VIP with another whore.
Yeah BJ said she did and saw her (Nicole's) penis.
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6 years ago
I wouldn't reject a review if it is useful info for dancers and not for us.
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6 years ago
So I really don't enjoy the club environment. I am not really a party guy, I don't drink, and I hate night clubs. I am also not a variety guy when it comes to strippers, I like to find a single favorite dancer at a time. I am either waiting for my CF or looking for a new CF. I also loathe dealing with shitty pushy dancers and I hate having to reject someone.
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6 years ago
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IceyI put your ATF on a winning team
@PhatBoy702 - You seem to have really honed in on on a few of the things that she told you or did. You should keep in mind though that some of what she said and did might not have the same level of meaning to her as it did you you. I am not doubting you guys had a real connection just that you are seeing it in retrospect with the lovelorn eyes. Also like Papi said you absolutely don't know what you are dealing with here. She might have liked you but also liked the money. She might have liked you but decided once you were apart that she hated herself for taking your money. All you can know for sure is that she doesn't feel like talking to you at the moment.
If you truly can't stay away and MUST contact her I would at most send her one last text. Wait as long as you can and then say something like:
"Hey it has been a while since I have heard from you. I hope you are ok, I am sure you must be going through something difficult. If you want to talk or feel ready for a relationship again let me know. Until then I won't keep bothering you but I want you to know I thought you were an amazing person and glad I got to know you. Best of luck, Paul."
If it were me I would write her a letter and then delete it. Maybe try that it might make you feel better.
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6 years ago
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IceyI put your ATF on a winning team
@PhatBoy702 - I agree with the consensus of advice. If you really want to be with her pulling back is the only smart move. But I think one thing that may not have been stressed enough to you in this thread is that some strippers are super unstable and can be good at hiding it. She may be totally bipolar and you have no idea. Maybe she had real feelings for you but there is absolutely no way to know how she feels about you today. You can not apply regular logic here. Past that you need to realize that not replying to a text is standard operating procedure for a stripper who doesn't want to deal with something difficult.
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6 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
Nina- Have you ever been to a brazilian steakhouse. They have a system you (and I think most of us) would like. You have this thing at your table that is red/green that you turn over when you want more steak:
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6 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
The bucks clubs house fee varies at least every hour. I think it's like $7 before 11am and then $30+ around 2pm. At one of the clubs I can see the computer screen which lists who is working, when they signed in, what the cost was for that, and if they have outstanding debt to the club. I'll take a picture of it sometime if I can do it in a sly way.
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6 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
An app that replaces the DJ or at least gives the dancers the ability to see at a glance when they will be up next on stage. Request or buy to get bumped up/back/off.
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6 years ago
Not interested
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6 years ago
Seriously uber don't pay any attention to San Jose Guy. He seems to have some mental issues. Most people on here either ignore him or ridicule him.
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6 years ago
We need more Nina!!!
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6 years ago
The pinaud clubman stuff I mentioned is corn starch not actual talc.
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6 years ago
6 month update:
I have been using powder regularly, it works really well for some extra lubrication and moisture absorbent ability. The best I have found is "pinaud clubman talc powder" which smells like a barber shop cologne and is available at most drug stores.
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6 years ago
Interesting discussion guys!
I think Papi's point about sex being a driving natural need is totally true. But for sure some of us on this forum are sex addicts in an unhealthy way. A lot of guys here spend a vast sum of money and effort and basically their entire lives in the pursuit of paid sexual experience. I remember a few weeks ago there was a guy who was talking about practically starving himself to save up for a trip to Mexico. Some of this is clearly not healthy.
In my case I am a person that if I can identify and understand my weaknesses I can manage them. So I want to be full in touch with my weakness and unfulfilled needs in this arena.
I think to be a really good regular strip club connesiuer it helps to be "blissfully ignorant". It is one thing I have noticed a lot here with many forum members and maybe it applies to this as well.
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6 years ago
Baby dolls dallas has those type of chairs. I don't go there because of that. You can't do cowgirl position.
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6 years ago
@papi @shailyn - I know you guys are right I could get some attention from the older dancers with a little effort. However for now it's best for me not to. When I first started doing this I definitely fell in love a few times. I have excellent self discipline and am good at pulling the plug so it wasn't problematic.