Going to the club with no intention of getting private dance
Question for fellow mongers on this site: do you ever go to a SC with no intention of buying a private dance, but rather with the intention to simply enjoy the club atmosphere and watch the dancers? Do you ever go with the explicit self-control to not buy dances?
I can’t say that i’ve ever done this, but I can imagine I would if there was a club closer to me.
I can’t say that i’ve ever done this, but I can imagine I would if there was a club closer to me.
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Yes. But there are plenty of times I end up getting dances anyway.
"Do you ever go with the explicit self-control to not buy dances?"
Yes. But there are plenty of times I end up getting dances anyway.
With all of that said, I'll do unmonitored private VIP rooms if the price and services are right, but sadly I only visit those types of clubs a couple times per year.
You tell em buddy, buying dances are a chump's game... ;)
@rick unmonitored VIP is the only way to go for a private room, LDK is NOT possible for me takes more than a little rub from a GORGEOUS girl to get one out. Standards have been set pretty high from last experiences.
@guy79, Exactly there is too much fish for sale to just keep getting dances. Mongers need to evolve they can't stay stagnant.
Dance fee just a way to talk to the girl, or to ingratiate yourself with her. Paid the full per song dance fee just for front room sit and talk time.
Underground Mexican Bar circuit much more fun. And we have AMPs.
In San Francisco prices very high, but in the real clip joint sorts, no front room makeout sessions, back room action hence compromised. So rather than LDK, I go for DATYing them. Very responsive, always has big visible effect on girl, really softened up, well prepped for OTC. Best that can be done, and still at high cost, when no front room makeout and back room FS too pricey.
SJG
These days if I don't feel like SCing or not spending $$$ I usually will not go b/c I'll probably end-up spending $$$ anyway and getting dances.
I won't go to a black-club to hang b/c no-way I can turn down the chocolate all night long (especially w/ the dances just being $5 and $10) - if I plan to just hang and not buy dances I usually go to a large mixed-club (e.g. Tootsies, etc) where I can kinda blend into the woodwork.
I used to frequent a club where I may have been the only customer tipping at stage and buying dances during the time I was there. This was a club that draws a big college crowd, and a lot of college students can’t afford to pay for much more than the cover charge and drink minimum.
As mentioned previously - if it’s a bachelor party - I might buy the bachelor dances from a girl (to embarrass him).
Or, if I’m going out with business clients, and they think it might be fun to hit a club. I’ll usually tip the dancers to be polite, but I won’t explore the real club offerings.
That said, it doesn’t always work out that way. This past weekend was a case in point. Slow week, girls doing other things, and nobody really appealed to me. So, blue balls and plenty left in my wallet.
Have never gotten a floor dance, never will, mileage too low and not interested in other PLs observing the activity.
many times.
usually that doesn’t work when my preferred sexy type is there.
now, going with the intention of not getting dances, and ACTUALLY not getting dances depends on who is there.