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6 years ago
A buddy of mine is married to a woman who is legit crazy, in fact serious mental health issues run in her family. She has a daughter who was institutionalized through much of her childhood. Then when the daughter became an adult was sent back home to live with them. She was unstable and they couldn't trust her to stay home alone so they would drop her off a strip club every day in the morning and pick her up in the evening. Basically adult babysitting.
Sometimes I wonder if dancers like the one you saw JS69 might be in a weird situation like that.
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6 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
@SJG - Why keep coming back for more hate? What happened when you were a kid to make you seek out this negative interaction?
This is like the reverse of internet bullying, where instead of bully picking on the runt, here the run keeps coming back for more:
streamable.com
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6 years ago
Sorry meant to post that on the SJG hate thread.
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6 years ago
@SJG - Why keep coming back for more hate? What happened when you were a kid to make you seek out this negative interaction?
This is like the reverse of internet bullying, where instead of bully picking on the runt, here the run keeps coming back for more:
https://streamable.com/59t0
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6 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
@SJG - Why do you keep coming back to a place where there is so nothing but hate for you? Do you think this is healthy?
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I have seen the same thing.
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6 years ago
Parting out cars
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6 years ago
Yeah I am starting to think phatboy might be a troll. Also I really hope toychaser is a troll as some of what he posts is pretty sick.
I would agree with phatboy that parting out cars is a good way to make side cash.
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6 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
The 2 things I find most intriguing about SJG:
1. He has a weird sense of morality that includes not lying where other people likely would. It would be easy for him to say "yes I have made out with strippers and got them to fuck me for free because of that" but that would be a lie and he doesn't seem to be willing to lie.
2. Why the fuck does he repeatedly visit a web forum where people constantly mock him. It is like when a runt dog only gets abused but keeps coming back for more. I have heard of prisoners in solitary that do this, purposefully get in trouble to fight with the guards because that is the only human contact and touch that they can get. To me this is the saddest insight into the guy, I feel sorry for him.
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6 years ago
@Kirby06 - I think she really likes you as a customer and maybe as a person but she is not into you romantically. I am however not as jaded as some here to think this is a long term con. There are a lot of things she is saying to you that she might say really casually without much thought, however to you they have a big effect:
1) Telling you about her BF - A lot of strippers have terrible BFs and aren't shy about talking about them. Doesn't mean she loves you.
2) Telling you she wants to go golfing - It is perfectly normal in casual conversation to talk about plans that will probably never actually happen.
3) Venting about other customers - Strippers vent to people they are comfortable around.
Basically a lot of what she is saying you are reading deeper meaning into. You want to be in love with her and have her love you. You are already getting physical affection and emotional affirmation from her so it can be easy to read into everything else she is saying.
I really don't think it is an actual con. This is just what strippers do. She is making you feel comfortable, giving you emotional affirmation, connection to another person, and the obvious physical affection.
If you are still having trouble accepting that she is not interested in you romantically think about this, she said she wishes she could give you dances for free right? She totally can do that...
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6 years ago
Pole skills definitely don't make me more interested in a dancer and I would almost consider it a possible negative sign.
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6 years ago
If a guy makes it rain I am way less likely to tip her afterwards. I just feel weird tipping a single buck.
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6 years ago
So the secret ladies only section on SW is pretty interesting...
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6 years ago
I also agree with huntsman.
I think a lot of the bitching on sw is warranted. They deal with some pretty shitty guys. Some of us on this site fit into that category but many of us do not.
And there is some pretty disturbing mysoginistic shit posted here that I find just as disturbing.
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6 years ago
Many of the younger guys who make it rain are not there to buy dances so although they appear to be PL competition they in fact are frequently not.
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6 years ago
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ToyChaserI just make them raise their right-hand and swear they are clean - then its all BBJ's & FS
A lot of strippers hate cops.
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6 years ago
You guys still seem to have not read the stripper web link I posted.
She sold a room but had a panic attack when they got inside it. He stayed and comforted her for the whole VIP time and then left.
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6 years ago
She is a dancer who posted this few times on stripperweb:
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?221765-Mystery-VIP-Guy
@RedRoseRoom - No they don't put your name down anywhere. Sorry but you need to get this guy out of your head.
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6 years ago
Someone like rickdugan or papi who has clubbed all over the USA should make an article about different tipping styles/etiquette.
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6 years ago
Baby powder
Clubman Pinaud powder smells good/masculine and is available most drug stores.
Don't use gold bond as it has stuff in it that is like a topical antiseptic and will decrease sensation.
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6 years ago
I still want it to be nina...
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6 years ago
Straight
However one reason I avoid black girls is I like to touch girls hair and sometimes that is something they don't prefer.
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6 years ago
I think I am in the minority but I love cocktail dresses and sundresses. I enjoy the suspense.
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6 years ago
Well done Nina!
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6 years ago
@SJG - This is actually one thing we agree on. I have also never played and never plan to. I think of it as voluntary taxes and don't really mind if other people want to play.