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Another Hong Kong Question: How much would you tip a mesero for finding you a da

Pizza (hiatus)
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$1.00 seems like the standard tip for most services offered at Hong Kong, but if a mesero went out of his way to find and bring to you a particular girl--or at least a girl who came close to matching your specifications--how much would you tip him? Also, would you tip that amount per girl he found for you, or would you tip him a certain amount upfront for his services for the night?

23 comments

  • Jascoi
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    6 years ago
    i have tipped $5 to the mesero for an outstanding girl in both beauty and performance AFTER the Arriba.
  • Itsmytime
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    6 years ago
    Why not tip $1.85 before and $3.15 after? That way you can count your pennies and be happy.
  • jackslash
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    6 years ago
    I can find my own dancer. If you can't find a whore in a whorehouse, you must be blind.
  • Warrior15
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    6 years ago
    There are plenty of waiters willing to help you. No need to tip more than $1. And I would do it per service. Don't pay him upfront for anything. You may not be able to find him later.
  • rh48hr
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    6 years ago
    A dollar is fine, but like anything if he thinks hell get a bigger tip, he'll make sure he gets the exact.type.you like.
  • tijuana_tim
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    6 years ago
    Amigos, we appreciate any money you filthy rich Americans can give us.

    You guys spend all this money to come down here and then you’re worry about spending an extra two dollars for a guy to track down the girl of your dreams?
  • galiziabob.sabbatical
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    6 years ago
    I find my own girls Everytime. They are all there to make money with sex. Just go up to the one you are interested in and start a conversation. Super easy. Don't waste your time on the meseros, unless that's your thing and you want some old Mexican dude to bring you a girl he thinks you will like. I know that some meseros know who is good upstairs, so that can work in your favor if your looking for something specific but I always do the looking myself and it works out good. Stand at the stairs and you can watch all the girls come down from the upper level. Make rounds walking around the place scoping out the girls standing around or on stage.
  • san_jose_guy
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    6 years ago
    Never been to Tijuana, but I don't really like the idea of a waiter finding me a girl. I think it is best to select and approach the girl myself. I believe that that will work out better. Their custom of tip + feel up would be an excellent way, then followed by a front room make out session. Then eventually TLN and Food. Time to talk to the girl and get to know her through out are very important.

    For those who have asked a waiter to find you girl(s), what did you tell this waiter?

    SJG

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  • Pizza (hiatus)
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    6 years ago
    Thank you everyone for your responses and your figures. Seems like everyone has got their own way and it works for them.
  • Jascoi
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    6 years ago
    inmytime, jackslash, galiziabob... usually i find a high percentage of the girls that i want myself.
    however once in a while a mesero will bring one by usually hopeful that i will like her. usually i pass... but i do tip her a buck. but there is one mesero that knows what i like. afterall he has seen me hundreds of times. the one girl that i tipped him five dollars for was the girl that i wrote about in my review ‘ zero to one hundred in 5 minutes ‘ she was most EXCELLENTE. and i had not seen her that day UNTIL that mesero brought her up and presented her. he saved me the possibility of NOT enjoying her. her beauty, personality and passion would make it difficult to grab her otherwise because some whale would spend hours with her... (as that was the situation the night before when my amigo and i first saw her...)
  • san_jose_guy
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    6 years ago
    If you ask a mesero to bring you girls, what do you tell him, how do you describe the girl type you want?

    I would also be concerned that he would be just repeating what he was told directly to the girl.

    Does seem like if you want a quickie, that could be one girl, but if you want TLN, that would be a different girl.

    Maybe if you have checked into an overnight room, maybe purchased VIP membership for that, used the VIP Room? Not really sure how it all works.

    But about looks and personality type, what to say?

    For me, a lot of which I would go for comes down to how they are dressed. But I would not think it likely constructive to talk about that with a mesero.

    Its also just seeing how the girl handles herself. We all are going to have feelings about people, ways we see them. Not only subject to a formula.

    Also, if you see and approach yourself, then the girl knows you like her. She knows your motives. She will feel it. That is better.

    Its just a really primal thing, it does go back to when hairless apes lived in caves.

    Am I correct in suggesting that DV TJ could be good for early in the day, still too early for TLN? Hotel nearby though? Rules for getting a girl outside?

    SJG

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  • Papi_Chulo
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    6 years ago
    Have not been to TJ but if $1 is standard, then I'd tip $2 if he kinda did more than the standard of just getting me a drink; and tip $5 if I feel he really worked hard to meet my request.
  • san_jose_guy
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    6 years ago
    But what exactly would you tell him, when describing what kind of a girl you wanted him to send you?

    And do you think this would work better than you just picking for yourself from what is visible?

    SJG
  • TrollWarnBot
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    6 years ago
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  • san_jose_guy
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    6 years ago
    ^^^^^^ SPAM!

    SJG
  • twentyfive
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    6 years ago
    I have never been to a strip club in Tijuana however I have traveled through Mexico pretty extensively, one thing remains true all over that country a dollar or two is great anyplace, most better restaurants add the gratuity to the tiketa, over tipping will not get you better service, it can even cause the service to not be as good.
  • san_jose_guy
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    6 years ago
    Twentyfive, would you want the waiter bringing you girls, and what would you tell him, or would you rather select and approach them yourself.

    SJG
  • twentyfive
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    6 years ago
    It depends on a lot of things, more often than not, I would prefer to chose my own girl, but having never been there I’d never rule it out either.
  • san_jose_guy
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    6 years ago
    got it.

    If you select and approach yourself, I feel that it makes it go much better with the girl.

    SJG
  • twentyfive
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    6 years ago
    ^ You see that’s why you continue to make enemies, never having been there you already are prejudging the situation, some of the folks here on this board have been there and basing my opinion on the quality of those remarks would be a lot wiser, than just walking in as if I knew it all.
  • PaulDrake
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    6 years ago
    @twentyfive - Agreed..

    @SJG - Sure if I were to go I would prefer to not deal with the meseros and on that point we agree. But you can't always play around the system. Squeaky wheels need to be greased and there may be far more going on behind the curtain than what we can see. However I disagree that "it's better for the girl". That is getting into your normal delusions and twisted worldview. As always SJG best of luck being crazy!
  • san_jose_guy
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    6 years ago
    TwentyFive, only an idiot would suspend their own common sense when walking into a situation.

    PaulDrake, strip clubs are fine tuned and well oiled machines designed for separating marks from their money. This era's version of the carnival freak show. If you can see that the women are exactly what they appear to be, but that you don't have to take them quite the way they are being offered, you are miles ahead of the other chumps. And there is nothing the least bit delusional about that.

    Go back to sucking on your lemons dickhead!

    SJG
  • san_jose_guy
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    6 years ago
    Thinking about this, if you ask the waiter to bring you girls, you are turning a parallel line up situation into a serial lineup, where you are forced to take what is supplied, or be turning down aggressive girls. Not good, bad vibes.

    So those who have had waiters bring them girls, what did you tell the waiter?

    I suspect that the waiter just repeated to the girl whatever you told him. Not good, makes it sound to the girl too formulaic.

    Now ideal screen the girls would be good. Live in TJ? TLN ready? Unattached? And then how they are dressed. But I don't think it will really work. Might get some to alter their manner of dress, but then if you don't accept them, bad vibes again.

    So I still say approaching then yourself is best.

    For Miami VIP Room, if you enter, do they send in a batch of girls? Or is it again the waiter supplying you with a serial line up? I see why some people would like that, especially coming from other continents into TJ's airport. But still I don't think it is good.

    Need to learn more about this before formulating a real opinion.

    SJG

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