Sitting at someone else's tip at the stage

Law of the SC jungle.

Perhaps the PL likes that particular seat and he shouldn't have to avoid bc someone left a tip there

i.e. I wouldn't be phased by it nor would it bother me

It's terribly tacky.
Some mongers have no couth.

If I tip I sit at the stage or I hand it directly.

Never seen it but if it happened I would get a good laugh.

I saw it happen just last week. A guy that was sitting nowhere near the stage would go to the stage every so often but since he didn't have money in front of him he wouldn't get any attention. A time or two when a girl would come close to him he would say.......go over there and make some money. Not once but twice I saw him go sit at a chair that had tip money in front of it and act like it was his top.

I've seen plenty of guys pick up tips that have fallen from a garter without the girl realizing it and re-tip them as if they are their own dollars. I've also seen them end up with a big bouncer hand on their shoulder guiding them out the door.

It seems kinda crappy for a pl to try and get a tease out of another dudes tip. However, if it’s a couple of singles - I wouldn’t let it annoy me - as it’s a cheap sleaze ball trying to get a free tease.

Someone like rickdugan or papi who has clubbed all over the USA should make an article about different tipping styles/etiquette.

wtf....put it in her strap or hand it to her....I'm not tipping anyway if she's not giving me her direct attention

Extremely lame

I've had a fucking retard once pretend the money on the stage was his tip when it was somebody else. I fucking hate that shit. Sorry pieces of shit like that deserve to be "accidentally" kicked hard by a 6 inch heel. Us strippers can be so clumsy :)))

It doesn't matter to me if I've left the tip there. If I wanted the the dancer to know it was me, I would have left it while she was looking or could see me in a mirror. Sometimes I leave a tip just so other dancers can see I brought money to spend.

Why let something so trivial bother you?

Just shake your head and move on. I put guys like that in a box with the guys that pee and then give the half-hearted attempt to pretend to wash their hands before leaving the men's room.

I seldom tip at the stage, but if I did I wouldn't just leave it there. Having said that I find cheap people fucking hysterical, as if they put in the same effort earning money they wouldn't have to be cheap lol.

That level of cheapness and the guy being a liar on top of it just disgusts me.

Is that a pppl? Pathetic Poor Pretending Loser?

If the intention is to be cheap (proven if the PL doesn't ever add to the tip while sitting there), I totally agree blahblahblah23. It's tacky as fuck. It's simple. Don't sit at the stage unless you have the cash to tip. And if you can't tip a few of your own dollars, even just one, then yes you are a cheap bastard.

@Uprightcitizen to me pppl = san_jose_guy specifically. I am thinking of something along the lines of 'stage leech'.

LDK you are giving pppl's a bad name by associating them with the added characteristic of a delusional creepy guy.

LOL @Upright. My bad. Consider SJG = pppdcg.

Damn I think we have a new glossary term!

@SirLapdancealot - it's a good idea to make sure dancer knows who tipped her. Hang by the stage for a few more seconds - it won't hurt. She will turn around or come down the pole shortly enough. And then you can walk away.
Unless you truly want to remain anonymous - in which case no need to even write about it.

Most fly-by tippers I have seen, have a bit of arrogance - hood-style. Some fly-by's even toss the money. While some simply want to make a "special statement". Only a minority are the shy types simply seeking low-key solitude. You probs are one of that minority since you wrote about it.

I always slip tips inside garter or side of panty. Thank her for a nice stage show and if interested, invite her to my table when she is free. Verbal gratitude is equally appreciated by hard working dancers.

A few years ago I was in California Girls. A shaggy haired customer with thick glasses does a fly-by and drops a thick stack of One's - possibly $100 - exactly when the dancer turned back and was adjusting her corset. Doesn't even wait for a second. I'm going - I hope the dancer knows it's him !

Right after him another customer walks up and is standing by the stage. Dancer turns around and man - showers all the love, hugs, kisses, legs wrap around, booty hump ... on this guy. He did not overtly claim that stack being his tip. Simply enjoyed the attention.

That shaggy customer was turning red. Dude - lesson learned - get another stack and go make it rain.

@rogertex I'm usually a sit at the stage tipper but when I fly-by yes I now take my time and make sure she sees me as I set it down. If I am in the mood I will wait until she comes over and get my tease but if not I just sort of give her a nod and smile and walk off.

It's definitely not to be arrogant. It's just to show appreciation for her looks or effort. Also I think a stripper on stage with no tips or PLs sitting there is sad so if she is completely alone up there and putting in effort I usually make an effort to go over and drop a dollar. LOL if I had enough to drop a stack it would be used towards private dances. I think making it rain is just a waste.

It's a dick move, but not something to do the slow simmer over. Most of the time, I make sure to get the stripper's attention when I drop the tip, even going so far as to time my walk up for when she's turning to look in my direction. Whether or not a PL is sitting there, I want "credit" for my tip :)

@OP, Thank you for providing my tip.

@flagooner if that was you the other day I feel sorry cause you looked pathetic and lonely. Next time I'll give you the dollar and not bother to leave my ATF DS's ass cheeks. I'll also tell the stripper to give you a charity tease without tip every now and then.

I’ve seen a few guys pull this one. Seems like a douche move to me.

TY SirLap

Anytime flagooner. Cheap bastard.

:-)

I think it's an unspoken rule, but it's rare I see a PL tip and walk away without concern that the dancer sees. I think a PL who gets stage action based on another PL's tip is comparable to the PL I've seen get stage action and not tip.

I've never seen it and I'm one of those guys who is prone to leaving tips and walking away. Sounds like something juice would do in one of his back country NC clubs.