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6 years ago
Technically, any touching is considered an extra. Or at least here, where the law is supposed to be to maintain three feet minimum of distance between entertainers and customers.
Otherwise, I agree with Ishmael. LDK and HJ.
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6 years ago
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6 years ago
Not everyone is nocturnal and some have better things to do than troll this discussion board all day and night. Those with lives have shit to do or school/jobs to be at in tje morning. It has nothing to do with age. It's called being responsible.
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6 years ago
That time of the month sucks. Especially when working at a nude club.
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6 years ago
With your erections combined, you form...? Megarection? I tried.
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6 years ago
She rents a space below another shop for the dungeon.
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6 years ago
I'm friends with one here near Detroit. She charges hh or hourly and makes you sign a waiver. The first meeting goes over what you want, expect, safe words, and legalities. The second meeting is when you are dominated. She has an actual dungeon, too. She's totally professional (in terms of being as professional as possible in sex work) and discreet.
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6 years ago
Speaking in terms of physical looks and not intellect - Detroit. All of the hotter dancers travel from the suburbs. But Detroit itself - eww. It is literally like a third world country. This isn't a race thing either (someone is going to think it, I'm sure). Black, white, brown, rainbow - nope. And anyone who is attractive is probably attending Wayne State and not from Detroit.
Second runner up is Pontiac, MI. White trash central.
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6 years ago
Thank you, DC9428.
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6 years ago
This past Saturday night, close to closing, I went to get a final shot at the bar. The only open space was around the other side of the horseshoe shaped bar near a wall and dimly lit corner. I went over and there was a customer with his back to me facing the wall. A dancer was in front of him giving him a HJ. The bartender's POS system blocked her view of the dancer, so nobody saw her except me.
Still waiting on my shot, she finished him off and swallowed. I felt really awkward standing there and pretended like I saw nothing in my peripheral vision.
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6 years ago
If this is the same girl you followed to her car, I seriously am afraid for her safety around you.
She's trying to run a business and you're being creepy af and annoying. You sound like a whiney little incel piece of shit and I hope ypu either get help or get your ass beat by a girl.
She's avoiding you, dude. I wouldn't text you back either if I was in her shoes. For her safety, leave her alone.
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6 years ago
I hate rap and I'm a rock music girl at heart. I have danced to KISS at my club and it cleared the tip rail. Because of the "culture" of my club being mostly booty popping/twerking, I had to adjust and change my music. I don't dance to rap on stage often - mostly dancey top 40 stuff now. It's what makes the customers tip.
I don't twerk because there's not enough fat on my ass lol. I'm a professional pole competitor, so I just try to put on a cool stage show with a lot of pole tricks.
But fuck rap.
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6 years ago
I'll ignore a customer if he's a stage lurker/stalker (staring up close w/o tipping or following stage to stage like a creep), hanging out with or huddled up with his friend(s), or if he comes up near me off stage and just stares at me appearing like too much of a pussy to talk to me first.
I walk away from customers who talk about their material possessions, how much money they have or "plan to" spend, or have extremely high egos in general.
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6 years ago
One or two Lions players came into my club last night with Lil Jon and his entourage. He had the largest booth on the 2nd floor overlooking the stage and made it pour on most girls. I have a lot of respect for him now for showing more love to the girls on stage than to the few who were hanging out at his booth all over him and his friends.
The Lions win was great for us, but I'm sure the Patriots just let the Lions have a pity victory.
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6 years ago
This club has a flat rate tip out schedule. The tip out depends on when an entertainer arrives and checks in and if they have a schedule or not.
When I worked here, my freelance tip out was $125 (house/room fee, mom, dj) and that was on time. However, dances were still $25/song at the time.
Once an entertainer is able to pay their tip out, any dance money earned is theirs to keep. FC does NOT take out a percentage of each dance unlike, for example, Deja Vu (who takes $7 or $9 out of every $20 dance).
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6 years ago
Only one club in my area (that I know of) fi es girls for being on their phones. It's almost encouraged at one club I work at with girls recording each other for stupid Instagram/Snapchat videos and such.
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6 years ago
I second everything PinkSugarDoll said. Therr are a plethora of reasons why someone is on their phone. If it really bothers you to the point of bitching in an online forum - go ask them why they're on their phones.
As for why show up to work anyway? Sometimes they may be trafficked and not a choice. Maybe they're on schedule and would rather work for stage money than talk to people and show up to not pay a no-show/no-call fine. Ask them instead of whining on a forum about it.
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6 years ago
It was awesome of you to defend her. We're all glad you're out and back on the forum.
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6 years ago
@jackslash I'm definitely done with IT. I don't want another IT job again. Stripping full time was supposed to be a temporary thing (2 years max is what I told myself). However, a lot stuff happened that kept pushing me back further (I had to have spinal surgery, dated a guy who put me in 10k of debt and then I repoed a car that I bought from him after he backed it into me, then moved from downtown to a suburb, and a host of several medical issues came up from an autoimmune disease I waa diagnosed with). Honestly, I have too many medical appointments during the week to hold a full time job right now.
I'm independently studying for a personal training cert, but I'm nowhere near ready to register for my exam in 88 days. I've considered EMT academy at OCC near us, but again - I have too many medical things going on with myself to focus on two full time semesters of school.
I bartended last year for a few months and I could probably get back into it, but the job felt unfulfilling.
My biggest dilemma is the 5 yr gap and my last resort will probably end up making up a job position and finding someone who will let me use their # as the business # for the fake job and hope they play along.
I have an agent who usually has references for these situations, but I feel he'd be unwilling to help since I'm looking to leave dancing ultimately and he gets paid by the club everytime I work.
If you or anyone else has any ideas or solutions for my dilemma, I'm all ears.
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6 years ago
I feel it's a mix of both depending on the dancer's background. The latter is more probable in my experience - especially with those I follow on Instagram. There are a lot of stripper meme profiles and the stripping causing underlying issues thing is a topic that is definitely memed about and discussed often.
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6 years ago
I haven't read the study yet, however I will say that I am about 5 1/2 years into this profession and left a corporate IT job that I hated to do this full time. I was always dancing on the weekends, but I just hated working in IT Support.
Anyway, so much shit has happened to me personally in the past 5 years in my personal life and at the club I used to work with Nina at, that I honestly really do feel just... dead.
I have two college degrees and have held two previous professional corporate jobs. And lately I've been thinking about getting out of dancing, but I'm stuck with the gap on my resume for the last 5 years.
Starting out as a baby stripper, the job is great. But after sometime, it can definitely kill you (figuratively speaking). Especially if it's all one does for income. Even after taking a week or two off and returning feeling refreshed, it still comes back and repeats an endless cycle of feeling almost nothing and caring very little or literally not at all about anything. Or at least, for me.
...Now I'll go read that study.
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6 years ago
Hopefully everything turns out for the best for you and your ex-wife. Very cool of you to defend her.
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6 years ago
Omg. Lmfaoooo
On that same page, there could also be a joke about Belgian waffles. O_O
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6 years ago
Perhaps it's just from tradition. I've worked at clubs where platformless kitten heels are allowed though. I don't consider those to be sexy or real heels though.