As far as GFE I am truly turned off by all the Rap/Hip-Hop girls that are the mainstay of strip clubs these days. I don't think these type of girls know how to mentally satisfying me.
For me Rap/Hip-Hop equates to thugism, and I hate that since that mentality just isn't me. I want more than just having a dancer shake (or God forbid) clap her ass at me. I want a dancer that can work a pole and can provide some TLC in between dances.
You see, I went to college and have somewhat of a Monty Python sense of humor. And ten years ago I could mention "The Lumberjack Song" and a dancer typically knew what I was talking about.
It pains me to say it. But I prefer the GFE from white girls than from "ethnic" girls because the white girls are closer to my disposition. The ethnic girls seem to be playing more toward the Rap/Hip-Hop guys. And now even most of the white girls seem to be doing the same thing.
I know what you mean. I listen to old Jamaican music. I just tune out the carp that most of the clubs play around here. Not to mention that I have had VERY few intellectual conversations with many dancers. I have taken to wearing nerdy themed t shirts when going to the club so that I can rapidly judge how much I want to struggle to have a conversation with them.
Also it shouldnt pain you to say you prefer white girls over the ethnic ones. Shit I will be the first to say it; My penis is a racist. I like people in all colors and would say 70 percent are decent people when dealt with one on one. But I really dont like black girls in my lap they might as well be a guy sitting in my lap. All they are doing at that point invading my personal space
I've been told time and again the clubs play the music girls want to hear and dance to. If the same thing happened at Starbucks or Macy's, management would hear holy hell about it. They instead play the kind of music that most customers with money either want to hear or facilitates a pleasurable experience in their stores.
For the most part, and I don't mean all, guys with money in the clubs are older and more established. We don't like hip-hop/rap and want something pleasurable to listen to while our while hot girls grind on our dicks. I'll take the girls with the shitty music if I have to, but why more clubs don't play the kind of music the majority of their best patrons want to hear is beyond me. It makes good business sense.
But then again, where strip clubs are concerned, they seem to make money hand over fist by sticking a naked girl on stage, regardless of whatever else they do try to mess it up, so maybe there's not much incentive for them to do otherwise. I obviously haven't stopped going, but I can say the music choice determines to a degree the number of dances I'll get and how long I stay in the club buying drinks.
But I do have to agree with Dougster - Hip-Hop has drilled into many of the dancers' heads that grinding laps and sucking dick is what it's all about. To quote a few lines from Hip-Hop/Rap that any white guy in his 50s has no reason knowing, if it weren't for strip clubs... * "I'm in love with a strippa..." T Pain http://www.youtube.com/watch?v… * "Make it Rain" Travis Porter (Featuring the lyric, as naseum, "You wanna see some ass. I wanna see sum cash...") http://www.youtube.com/watch?v… * "Tits and ass, tits and ass..." Can't find it on the internet, but clearly this song isn't about subtlety. * "Do Sumthin Strange" Ludachris (Featuring the lyric, "She says she need to pay her condo. Yeah, well I need some daddy long stroke..." I guess real rhyming is no longer required.
If one frequents strips clubs and pays *any* attention at all to the music, one can't help but learn a little bit. Two of my last three favorites were white girls, but pretty much danced exclusively to rap/hip-hop.
Over the past 5-6 years, there have been a couple of songs I've actually came to like. (Amazing, from a guy with a Motorhead avatar and proud owner of the complete collection of Led Zeppelin 8-track tapes.)
"Bring it Back" - Travis Porter "Ayo Technology" - 50 Cent and Justin Timberlake "Shake That" - Eminem
Of course, even when AM radio was playing "Rapper's Delight" in like `79, I found it a refreshing change.
What the I go to the club for beautiful women with great asses and limited IQs. Hell I've got two degrees but I have no interest in talking shop on industry practices with a nude twenty year old. I guess my point is if your old, hate hip-hop, nice asses require intellectually stimulating conversations at strip club perhaps your in the wrong place. Truth is most smart college students aren't going to talk market shares with you. Why? Cause it's a strip club it's built for the little head not the big head. If you want GFE pay for that but generally strippers don't excell in English they do math.
I love hip hop, but the music doesn't matter to me in the strip clubs. I will say though most of the young girls are into hip hop, so you probably better get used to it.
It is NOT Rocket Science nickifree. If you don't like the music, try different clubs or shifts. I've experienced less rap music on the day shift at clubs.
Regarding the GFE, if you don't like dancers who just shake & slap their ass, try different clubs or shifts. I have received true GFE at plenty of clubs. A clue - try dancers in their late 20's and older.
My ATF, who's whiter than me, knows all the rappers and all the lyrics to rap songs. Nick Minaj is her current favorite. She says rap music gives her energy when she's dancing on stage.
honestly there is not enough ass clapping/shaking in strip clubs. on the topic of hip hop/rap music i like it better than most other music strip clubs play. i can listen to rap and hip hop and rock. thats about it.
In my various articles on strip club management one of the points I make is that the dancers do not pick the music, the club management does based on the target audience of the club.
Think of it. The dancers are women in their 20's and maybe 30's while the customers are men in their 30's through 60's. If you were programming two radio stations targeting those demographics would their playlists be the same? Of course not!
Besides at any given time there may be a dozen or more girls giving a dance to the same music. Why does the one on stage, the only one NOT interested in getting more dances from the same customer, set the music.
Club management picks the music based on one simple criteria, what makes 30 to 60 year old men feel horny. Like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v…
I hate rap music. If I were to go into a normal business and they were playing rap I would immediately leave. That being said, we all know strip clubs do not operate under a normal business model. Despite my dislike/hate of rap music, I spent about 4 hours in a club today that plays nothing but rap music. I had a wonderful time getting 10 full contact $10 dances from two different spinners. Both were hands on all areas, both ways (mine and hers). So I guess the moral of this story is that the music is a non factor in the overall strip club experience if you are enjoyig the dancers. If you are having fun watching or getting lap dances, you can tune out the rap music. It sort of becomes "white noise" and becomes a non issue. If , on the other hand, I did not find the dancers attractive, I think the rap music would cause me to make a quick exit.
Oh come in! Let's get real. These PLs sit around alone waiting for their ATF to call them in, and then wait in the club while she services three other guys before getting around to him, but it's going to cost anyone money because the old PL wants to hear the Eagles instead of Jay-Z? I don't think so... Jerikson still needs to knock some sense into some of y'all...
First of all, black girls are hot. Asian, too. Nothing wrong with hip hop, and booty smakin', and big long fingernails, and tattoos, and weaves, and big asses, and nasty black girls who jack you off with lotion.
And the combination of black and asian can be incredible. Which is why I'm intrigued by DaddysGirl. She says she's part black, with some Hawaiian and Irish in her. Reminds me of the joke, "do you have any Irish in you?", "...would you like some?"
Okay, that's just inappropriate...
Back to the subject...
Now I need to talk to DaddysGirl alone for a minute, so the rest of you guys take off, okay?
Okay, DaddysGirl, sit down a minute. I want to talk to you. Now, tell, me, honestly, why "DaddysGirl"? Because, I've gotta tell you, that's really hot. I love it when a girl calls me "daddy". Combine that with the fact that you're part black and Hawaiian, and damn girl, I just about get a boner.
Black girls are the ones who like to call guys "daddy" during lap dances, and it makes me nucking futs. Really. So do you like to call guys daddy when you're having sex? Because that's just awesome.
And another point...could you, and all the other dancers here, post some really good photos of yourself? Hell, anyone can figure out who you are anyway, so don't worry, just post some photos. We won't tell anyone. BTW, what ever happened to that hot dancer Christal (?) who posted a bunch of really nice photos of herself? Damn, I had a crush on that girl.
I really liked her. She seemed to have this "I'm a stripper, and a damn good one, and proud of it", and she really seemed to care about the customers. Though never actually saw her in person, just from what little I read from her here.
How was she doing laps and stuff? Was she one of the dirty girls? yeah, baby...
Jerikson, your a straight weirdo you know that lol? But don't see the problem with rap, hip-hop and r&b. Though I'm black so maybe you white people will take my opinion as invalid because of it. Anyway, I have NEVER gotten booty shaking or assclapping in my lapdances so I feel pretty damn unlucky.
I'm not black and I do liston to rap and hip hop. Having said that, I think anybody who says rap and hip hop don't go to great lengths to project an image of thugism is in denial or perhaps delusional.
I hate rap and I'm a rock music girl at heart. I have danced to KISS at my club and it cleared the tip rail. Because of the "culture" of my club being mostly booty popping/twerking, I had to adjust and change my music. I don't dance to rap on stage often - mostly dancey top 40 stuff now. It's what makes the customers tip. I don't twerk because there's not enough fat on my ass lol. I'm a professional pole competitor, so I just try to put on a cool stage show with a lot of pole tricks. But fuck rap.
Hip hop isn't just music. Its a way of life. Its one thing for some suburban kid to hear a song and like it and another when you actually know the places they're rapping about and can identify with the situations. Its the voice of urban poverty. The shit you hear on the radio is more like pop music marketed to white middle class kids in the suburbs, its not hip hop.
they're not real rappers. 6ix9ine especially. Those niggaz would be the first to get shot if they acted like that in the hood. There's a difference between real gangster rap and shit marketed to suburban white boys.
I NEVER met a real OG who glorifies violence or the gang life. Real gangsters are just victims of circumstance and hustle for a better life. They're usually humble about it and don't brag about shit. Thats why they smoke so much weed when they put work in. Its a way to forget.
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last commentAlso it shouldnt pain you to say you prefer white girls over the ethnic ones. Shit I will be the first to say it; My penis is a racist. I like people in all colors and would say 70 percent are decent people when dealt with one on one. But I really dont like black girls in my lap they might as well be a guy sitting in my lap. All they are doing at that point invading my personal space
For the most part, and I don't mean all, guys with money in the clubs are older and more established. We don't like hip-hop/rap and want something pleasurable to listen to while our while hot girls grind on our dicks. I'll take the girls with the shitty music if I have to, but why more clubs don't play the kind of music the majority of their best patrons want to hear is beyond me. It makes good business sense.
But then again, where strip clubs are concerned, they seem to make money hand over fist by sticking a naked girl on stage, regardless of whatever else they do try to mess it up, so maybe there's not much incentive for them to do otherwise. I obviously haven't stopped going, but I can say the music choice determines to a degree the number of dances I'll get and how long I stay in the club buying drinks.
* "I'm in love with a strippa..." T Pain http://www.youtube.com/watch?v…
* "Make it Rain" Travis Porter (Featuring the lyric, as naseum, "You wanna see some ass. I wanna see sum cash...") http://www.youtube.com/watch?v…
* "Tits and ass, tits and ass..." Can't find it on the internet, but clearly this song isn't about subtlety.
* "Do Sumthin Strange" Ludachris (Featuring the lyric, "She says she need to pay her condo. Yeah, well I need some daddy long stroke..." I guess real rhyming is no longer required.
Give me "Kiss" or "Cream" by Prince any day...
LOL!
If that's what you honestly think, then you're either old, or only listen to the radio. Probably both, haha.
As I white guy in his 50's myself - I agree.
If one frequents strips clubs and pays *any* attention at all to the music, one can't help but learn a little bit. Two of my last three favorites were white girls, but pretty much danced exclusively to rap/hip-hop.
Over the past 5-6 years, there have been a couple of songs I've actually came to like. (Amazing, from a guy with a Motorhead avatar and proud owner of the complete collection of Led Zeppelin 8-track tapes.)
"Bring it Back" - Travis Porter
"Ayo Technology" - 50 Cent and Justin Timberlake
"Shake That" - Eminem
Of course, even when AM radio was playing "Rapper's Delight" in like `79, I found it a refreshing change.
Regarding the GFE, if you don't like dancers who just shake & slap their ass, try different clubs or shifts. I have received true GFE at plenty of clubs. A clue - try dancers in their late 20's and older.
Think of it. The dancers are women in their 20's and maybe 30's while the customers are men in their 30's through 60's. If you were programming two radio stations targeting those demographics would their playlists be the same? Of course not!
Besides at any given time there may be a dozen or more girls giving a dance to the same music. Why does the one on stage, the only one NOT interested in getting more dances from the same customer, set the music.
Club management picks the music based on one simple criteria, what makes 30 to 60 year old men feel horny. Like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v…
Despite my dislike/hate of rap music, I spent about 4 hours in a club today that plays nothing but rap music. I had a wonderful time getting 10 full contact $10 dances from two different spinners. Both were hands on all areas, both ways (mine and hers). So I guess the moral of this story is that the music is a non factor in the overall strip club experience if you are enjoyig the dancers. If you are having fun watching or getting lap dances, you can tune out the rap music. It sort of becomes "white noise" and becomes a non issue. If , on the other hand, I did not find the dancers attractive, I think the rap music would cause me to make a quick exit.
And the combination of black and asian can be incredible. Which is why I'm intrigued by DaddysGirl. She says she's part black, with some Hawaiian and Irish in her. Reminds me of the joke, "do you have any Irish in you?", "...would you like some?"
Okay, that's just inappropriate...
Back to the subject...
Now I need to talk to DaddysGirl alone for a minute, so the rest of you guys take off, okay?
Okay, DaddysGirl, sit down a minute. I want to talk to you. Now, tell, me, honestly, why "DaddysGirl"? Because, I've gotta tell you, that's really hot. I love it when a girl calls me "daddy". Combine that with the fact that you're part black and Hawaiian, and damn girl, I just about get a boner.
Black girls are the ones who like to call guys "daddy" during lap dances, and it makes me nucking futs. Really. So do you like to call guys daddy when you're having sex? Because that's just awesome.
And another point...could you, and all the other dancers here, post some really good photos of yourself? Hell, anyone can figure out who you are anyway, so don't worry, just post some photos. We won't tell anyone. BTW, what ever happened to that hot dancer Christal (?) who posted a bunch of really nice photos of herself? Damn, I had a crush on that girl.
http://www.topshelfent.com/fem…
How was she doing laps and stuff? Was she one of the dirty girls? yeah, baby...
Real hip hop is extremely realistic. I can relate to most of the lyrics
I don't twerk because there's not enough fat on my ass lol. I'm a professional pole competitor, so I just try to put on a cool stage show with a lot of pole tricks.
But fuck rap.
I am, nevertheless, very supportive of the policies of my fave club policies, to not play rap at all, or limit it only to approved happy rap
I NEVER met a real OG who glorifies violence or the gang life. Real gangsters are just victims of circumstance and hustle for a better life. They're usually humble about it and don't brag about shit. Thats why they smoke so much weed when they put work in. Its a way to forget.
A lot of what you hear in the media isn't true. You'd have a different view if you were from a hood. Gangs fill a void.
@TrapBaby304. RHGO? You on a winning team?
you seem like a real bad bitch, how well can you twerk that ass?
And bitch I will swerve as long as you stay in your lane.
And I think bridges are your thing, not roads.
Idk who you're talking to like that because I don't have any felonies.
You must be a two_shits stand-in.