Comments by Dblednmike (page 13)

This is the problem with our society. There obviously wasn’t a good male role model in that boys life to tell him... “Son, I’m proud of you! Now keep your fucking mouth shut and don’t spoil a good thing” “Oh, when was parent teacher conference again? Mom can’t make it, but I’ll be sure to be there”

You can buy condoms in Mexico if you don’t want to bring them across. They have plenty of pharmacies. When you check in they will take a cash deposit. I paid $50 for a master suite a few months ago, but I’ve heard others have paid different amounts. It might be based on the room or day of the week. You’ll get that back, but not till you’re ready to leave. I would really advise against using your plastic. Since you’re flying in you don’t have much choice, but I don’t even take mine with me. Customs and Border Patrol have an app for border wait times. Give yourself plenty of time.

BurlingtonHoFactory - There wasn’t a lot of respect there to begin with. The girls really didn’t like him much. He didn’t attach any significance to it in terms of special treatment beyond the incident they were “paying for”. And yes, I did get some... But not for the same reason. I had a good full time job, this was a part time gig. Most people who work for the club take tips from the dancers. It’s stupid how much they pay out sometimes at the end of the night. All the bouncers I worked with would take tips for walking the girls to their cars. I wouldn’t take tips. I figured I was getting paid by the club to do a job, it wouldn’t be right to take money from them for doing my job. I was a nice guy to the girls. If I did someone a favor, like a ride home or something, I never tried to use it as leverage to get into their pants. As a result more than a few literally threw themselves at me. It was a fun time, but not something I could keep up long term.

I used to bounce in a club and it happened. Girls would blow the manager when they fucked up to get out of trouble. If he came in and was in a shitty mood some of them would take turns and “take one for the team”. First time I heard them talking about it I thought they were joking, A few minutes later one of them went up to his office, came dawn about 15 minutes later, and the rest of the night went smoothly. It wasn’t all the girls, but they were the ones that were more likely to hook up OTC, or go with high mileage dances.

I’m a lot of things, jackass included. But I try not to derail discussions or belittle others just to see my words online.

I asked for a simple reason. I wanted to know if you were just an internet troll, a douche, or an idiot. I have my answer now. Thanks...

Spiked Mohawk and colored. That’s manly.

I have a question SJG. Have you ever been to HK or Tijuana for that matter? Posting YouTube videos from 2011 serve what purpose? Just a question.

I haven’t, but my gardener used to wear a hat from Adelitas Bar in Tijuana. It was cool when he showed up wearing it.

There are lots of smaller regional boards that are better then TER. I’m fortunate to live in a major market so I have access to one that works really well. When I travel I rely on TER or if I have to use BP I follow it up with a google search on thier phone number to find any reviews on them. As others have said, sometimes OTC is a lot more exciting because there is a feeling of working for it (usually spending more money), and just like a real date nothing is a sure thing.

I’ve done both and in my opinion, escorts are much more economical. Of course, there are a lot of factors. The most important is what you’re really looking for. If you’re just looking for a good quality lay, do your research with an escort and you will not have the dead fish experience. If you’re looking for the whole GFE, date experience OTC is probably going to be closer, but a hell of a lot more expensive. If you’re looking for a real relationship with feelings and everything, save yourself a lot of time and just jump off the nearest bridge.

I’ve never waited in a line to get INTO Hong Kong, but I’ve waited in a small line to get out at the Robe Guy. LOL.

If I were counting on one hand, I’d have five fingers left over. If it’s that crowded, I don’t want to be there.

BJ99 hit the nail on the head. That doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing, just don’t read too much into it. In the end, if you enjoy it that’s all that matters. I can’t count how many times I’ve had a talk with a dancer that was just sitting with me telling her it was ok to go work the crowd. It’s a job and I don’t want to be responsible for making her whole night. They often leave thier purse or something else with me when they go try to get other dances. I didn’t know how I felt about that first. I joked with one of them that I felt like she was marking her territory, she laughed and said that was exactly it. She also said that it meant she trusted me, other wise she would have left something worthless, instead of her purse with a lot of $$$ in it.

I don’t use any for translation. If they are good they bring me drinks and give me info on girls. I may tell one what I like and send him off like a heat seeking missile. They are also great at keeping people away when you don’t want to be bothered. The last one that I was happy with was Jorge #24. HK Bar on a Tuesday morning. He did an awsome job.

I always tip them if they are doing a good job. This is a service industry and tips go a long way.

In my early twenties I started talking to this girl from an AOL chat room. I’m in California and she was in New York. She had a really sexy (to me) accent. It reminded me of Rosie Perez. We did some lengthy dirty talk a couple of times and ran up a long distance phone bill. It was fun and all till she emailed me a pic (yikes) and started talking about moving out here.

Queef is no big deal, happened plenty of times. Now a fart is a different story :( Had one fart during a lap dance once that made my eyes water.

I'd have a talk with him and tell him it has to stop, keep his mouth shut about it, especially to his mom, and make sure he was geared up since he's now sexually active. I'd have a talk with her and tell her it has to stop. I'd tell her that she needs to quit hooking up with students because the downside is way worse for her if anyone finds out. If she still needs to sneak around with someone make it an adult who understands discretion, like me. LOL And yes it's different for a son or daughter... If it were my daughter, the fucker would be gone.

I used to bounce at an all nude club as a second job about 17 years ago. That was an interesting time of my life. I was single with a pretty good paying job and the bouncing was primarily because I thought it would be fun to work in a strip club. It was an eye opener to see what most of these girls thought of their customers. It was a great time filled with after parties and lots of hook ups. They definitely look at customers as different then other people. It's almost impossible to break out of being a PL in their eyes. Even when you arrange an OTC relationship, you are still a chump to most of them. On the flip side, working with them gives you an in that you can't get any other way. I've seen them work a dude for big money with the suggestion of some OTC, then go home with a broke, not so good looking DJ or bouncer (LOL). As much fun as it is, it's a hard lifestyle to keep up with. Especially if you have to keep a real job.

I’ve run into people I know on both sides of the rail. LOL When I used to bounce I had a teacher I knew from high school that came by on a regular basis. It was an all nude club so the girls only had to be 18 yo. He never acknowledged that he remembered me, but I knew he was still teaching at the school. I’ve also run into girls that I knew that were dancing at a club. That can be awkward as fuck. Once it was a chick I had a crush on in school and she didn’t recognize me at first. AFTER getting the lap dance we were talking and she says “you look look familiar, have I danced for you before?” I said no, it’s my first time at that club. I picked her because she reminded me of someone from school that I thought was cute though. I figured I’d give her chance to deny and move on. She didn’t... She asked what school and what class? Then confirmed it was her. We talked for a long time and ended up exchanging numbers. We saw each other off and on for the next three years till she moved, but never in the club again.

I blame the decline of strong male role models In society. Obviously this young man didn’t have someone in his life to teach him that he had hit the fucking lottery and just shut the fuck up and enjoy it.

I don't mean to be yet another negative ass, but she has almost no chance of staying clean if she goes back to dancing. That lifestyle is filled with many chances to fuck up. You're a grown man, and you love the wild sex, and are probably loving the fact that she needs you right now. Even if it is just for basic survival. It's up too you to decide what you're willing to give up for this ride you're on. Just don't fool yourself into thinking it ends well.

I'm headed down Friday night. Hope I don't hear about the crazy gringo that got lynched for wearing a Trump mask.