Ever run into someone you know at the club?
theDirkDiggler
Illinois
Only twice has i ever even seen someone i knew at a strip club. The first time i saw a high school PE teacher/coach (i only recognized him as he was never my teacher). This was after high school of course, although there was a club or two that were 18+, but that wasn't it. We or i specifically didn't make eye contact, but he just seemed oblivious and unconcerned that anyone would recognize him. I mean there were some students that failed so many times that they were still in school by the time they were 21, but if anyone else had seen him, they would probably have some explaining to do themselves. I never saw him again at the club. The next time was many years later i saw a friend whom i knew liked strip clubs and we actually went to a couple clubs together many years before, so i guess that doesn't really count. I guess it would be kind of like seeing a TUSCL member or something. However, he was with another mutual friend (or in my case, a former coworker) that i didn't know was into strip clubs, so that was different. The strange thing was, that he was with a group of 3 of 4 other guys and they all were with their girlfriend/wife, him included, which surprised me. Hope they didn't get into too much trouble.
To be fair, there are no strip clubs very close to me. The nearest one is still about half an hour away. And the better ones are even further away, so it takes a more serious PL/monger to frequent them than just your casual local dude. I know some people go through great lengths to protect their anonymity, but unless you travel great lengths, you probably will run into someone you know. Again, i guess the advantage is that you saw them there too, so if they have half a brain, nothing gets said, but who knows. Sometimes they have nothing to lose (single, no family, or even a female customer you know) and blab on anyway.
To be fair, there are no strip clubs very close to me. The nearest one is still about half an hour away. And the better ones are even further away, so it takes a more serious PL/monger to frequent them than just your casual local dude. I know some people go through great lengths to protect their anonymity, but unless you travel great lengths, you probably will run into someone you know. Again, i guess the advantage is that you saw them there too, so if they have half a brain, nothing gets said, but who knows. Sometimes they have nothing to lose (single, no family, or even a female customer you know) and blab on anyway.
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I seldom even club with friends.
He always made a big show about being a loving husband, but he got mean and nasty when he drank.
My roommate and I went to a club where there was supposed to be a feature dancer. The place was packed - and the crowd was a bit rowdy. There weren’t any seats - but two guys at the bar were turning and getting up to leave. I recognized them - as I worked with them. I waited - and when one said hello - I knew it was ok to chat with them - and we got a good view of the stage.
Another time - at a dive club - I had just gotten in (and I was clubbing with a few friends) - I was looking for a spot at the bar - and the vip door opens - a blonde dancer comes out - and my cousin follows her out! That was wild. He was in a rush - as he was headed to the men’s room - and then he snuck out the back.
I also have another friend who "dated" a stripper he met at a local breastaurant, and we all hung out and drank together occasionally. It's only a matter of time until I run into her at a SC somewhere...
It was a dancer.
Awkward...
When I used to bounce I had a teacher I knew from high school that came by on a regular basis. It was an all nude club so the girls only had to be 18 yo. He never acknowledged that he remembered me, but I knew he was still teaching at the school.
I’ve also run into girls that I knew that were dancing at a club. That can be awkward as fuck. Once it was a chick I had a crush on in school and she didn’t recognize me at first. AFTER getting the lap dance we were talking and she says “you look look familiar, have I danced for you before?”
I said no, it’s my first time at that club. I picked her because she reminded me of someone from school that I thought was cute though. I figured I’d give her chance to deny and move on. She didn’t... She asked what school and what class? Then confirmed it was her. We talked for a long time and ended up exchanging numbers. We saw each other off and on for the next three years till she moved, but never in the club again.
It doesn't just happen locally; I live in S. FL. But, I've seen guys I played football with in school at clubs in Vegas. I ran into my former boss at one of the Airport clubs in Mississauga. I've seen guys from the office in Scores in NYC.
A coworker, who hasn't spoken to me since.
One of my son's former girlfriends.
Even at the club I go to now that I live here, I have ran into the guy at my local convenience store once.
Never ran into anyone I knew other than people I was planning on meeting there.
But my ATF who used to sit with me her whole shift once saw all the guys from the front office of a Ford dealership come into the club once. She had worked with all of them previous to dancing.
Needless to say, she spent the whole shift in the booth with me with her head buried or facing me with her back to the club to avoid running into them. She was pretty embarrassed to say the least. I paid for her to skip going on stage so she didn’t have to get up and we spend a LONG time in VIP that day.
I saw a group of guys in same club one time who were all wearing a shirt with the same logo. Saw one up close in the bathroom - it was the logo of a local high school. Heard him talking to the bathroom valet - the group was the entire football coaching staff out celebrating the end of their "staff planning retreat" before the start of the season. I bet the booster club ended up funding some, or all, of that trip in some way.
Two exceptions. Saw a coworker and a slutty excoworker who was apparently his girlfriend. They said hi and asked for a suggestion as to who to take to VIP so they could both eat her pussy.
Another time I was in the big VIP at Follies getting a BJ. I heard a familiar voice ask me a question. On the next couch was an old acquaintance also getting a BJ.
Har har and sometimes I also see dancers I've met before har har ... j.k. :)
i do see some members of stripper sites that i have previously met either face to face or online.
My company hires a lot of temps. I've seen quite a few that *could* be strippers, based on their looks, but only two that I *know* were. One was an extras girl who'd been nice to me a time or two. The other, if only seen at a club, but never interacted with her.
Several times at the same club I met a guy who was divorced from a friend of my wife. He was always drunk and very gregarious. My ATF said he was usually there 2 or 3 nights a week, was a big spender but was a total asshole. She refused to do dances with him and he was always asking her. He'd see me coming out of the CR and always ask if I got anything. I told him no, just good conversation.