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2 years ago
https://app.tuscl.net/photo/13270
That is my most recent work photo out there that was taken a couple of weeks ago. I’m one of the bigger girls at my club without being a deliberate BBL type, and that club is one of the more lenient places to work. That’s what blah is referring to by skinny standards.
But yeah, extras in Texas should be no big deal. Nor in Florida. I remember one club around Tampa had a manager outright point out the room I can do extras at if I wanted to.
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2 years ago
Blah wasn’t calling you fat. Denver is just especially about being skinny. And Denver sucks for traveling anyways because most clubs have picky standards and manager ego standards. And you need to have either a Colorado ID or a utility bill that proves you live there in most of the clubs.
And if you want to go to the travel friendly clubs, then you will be at a club where the possibility of getting date raped by one of the club owner’s friends on night shift is a real possibility…and be gaslighted by both staff and other girls if you complain, specifically because it’s a club that has more lenient body standards and managers who (despite allowing the owner’s friends to do their thing) otherwise will actually be respectful. OR you can be at a dive club full of Cubanas and management who will charge you whatever house fee they feel like despite what it says on paper. Or decide to fire you for any reason but for $50, you can work there again. It’s fine if you want to travel to Denver because you just want to be in Colorado and have fun and make some extra money, but I wouldn’t come here specifically for working.
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2 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
I agree. I do like that the club listings aren’t based off of county anymore.
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2 years ago
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SpecialjBorn in NYC, conceived at Woodstock.
Just to try it out, I tried to type out a club review just to see what happens. The page refreshed on me and somehow I accidentally ended up on the general club listings for Iowa. Tried to hit backwards on the page to where I was and the text wasn’t saved on there. I don’t think I fat fingered any buttons there to get out of where I was 🤔
But anyways, for people like me who type reviews directly in the text box instead of using a separate word documents, probably best to not do that right now. Since I didn’t have the chance to click the submit button, I have no clue whether it would have gone through or not. Oh well, the club that hasn’t gotten a review since 2017 can wait a little longer I guess.
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2 years ago
—>“So how do you feel about Chik-Fil-A waffle fries?”
Chik-fil-a, overall, tastes kinda bland to me. Not just the fries but also their chicken. BUT when the surrounding options nearby suck (like most of the food options on a college campus, which happened to be where/when I used to eat their stuff semi-regularly), then suddenly I am more appreciative of a place that always has a ton of people constantly opting for their good grab-and-go options so the food was generally consistent and had decent freshness and convenient fast moving lines. Outside of a college campus, I’ll look at the lines outside of one of those places and get scared off, despite that the lines tend to move fast enough that it’s not the biggest deal…or so I’m told that’s how they are
I’d rank the waffle fries on par with steak fries/wedges. It’s better than some of them but there’s others that are nicer too.
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2 years ago
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drewcareypnwnot the real drew carey, but I play him at strip clubs...
Eeh, if I wanted to just look at girls arch and bend in a slow and graceful way, then I can just go to a yoga class. So I will vote for popping that pussy way more than I would for practicing my pranayama.
If it’s getting a lapdance, I don’t mind one bit and I think it makes for a better experience. Something visual to remember. I don’t do much of that personally though when actually dancing though, just because I don’t like the thought of turning around and not being able to keep tabs on customer hands from my peripheral vision. That kind of thing is better on the floor if the customer is throwing money. (And alas, I haven’t worked in a setting with that kind of thing in a while)
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2 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
I know what you mean about that feeling. I wanted to also mention the relentless advertising to apply for new credit cards…and for the existing credit cards I already had, please go apply for a credit limit increase.
And then maybe a month later I started noticing the aggressive advertising, the news headlines made a big deal about “CONSUMERS ARE RACKING UP CREDIT CARD DEBT” Well geez, multiply me times however millions of people also got the same aggressive advertising, and duh. 🙄
I can’t remember how long ago was the height of that news media nonsense. But I know it was relatively recently.
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2 years ago
The theme song of this thread:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=OMOGaugKpzs
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2 years ago
I get the impression Austin and DFW are especially rough on black dancers. Idk where in Texas you were eyeing, but I just wanted to comment about those two areas. It seems like a lot of black dancers who have worked in other areas that are high end and picky like Manhattan or Myrtle Beach end up getting the run around a lot and get rejected. Or have to be dayshift only. Dayshifts can be nice, but the principle of it sucks and might be annoying when you’re trying to maximize hours and cover hotel costs and deal with traffic. Maybe you might get lucky but you would be like 2 girls out of a hundred. At least that’s how it was last time I’ve been at those areas, unless anything has changed.
But I think there are more “urban” spots like the XTC chain. But I get the impression those clubs are full of politics for getting access to “sections” and having a lot of social media presence? I hope I’m wrong there. I’d probably get the dancers resource app to help you out there.
Also, I’d probably try to present less alternative when auditioning. Take the piercing out and hide the hairstyle with a wig that make your hair conform to Eurocentric standards. If you wanna see if you can get away with being more alternative at work, wait until you have done a few shifts and had the chance to feel out a particular place. Strip club managers generally don’t like alternative looks (there are exceptions of course) and mostly when they do put up with that it’s a thin white girl. I remember there was this black alternative dancer who auditioned once at an amateur contest we all had to participate in, and she won either 2nd or 1st place. She still didn’t get the contract. It sucks but black dancers often have to have the most “professionalism”. I hate being negative because I personally think the alternative look on black women is awesome, but I’m just being blunt so that you can increase your chances of finding a club more quickly if that’s what you want.
I’d probably try to work in some of the smaller town areas that often get ignored. The way the clubs have been the past year, you’re not missing out by skipping the oversaturated hellholes and money-down cattiness that is a good chunk of clubs in decent sized cities at the moment. There’s less information about any one club but that means less dancer saturation too. Also, it’s kinda cold at the moment but I’m pretty fond of the Midwest region for its selection of club you could probably find. I’d probably just road trip around different places and have a car, so if any particular club is not your vibe, you can move on to the next town.
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2 years ago
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drewcareypnwnot the real drew carey, but I play him at strip clubs...
When it comes to how much men are willing to give, cost of living in an area isn’t the only thing. It’s a lot easier for a man to find cheap options from a very conventionally attractive stripper/sugar baby/escort/whatever in Los Angeles versus anywhere South Dakota, just to give one example. I’ve seen dancers in that state stack so much dances who would have been laughed out of the club if they tried to audition at a club in some other places.
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
https://defector.com/the-abrupt-and-anonymous-end-of-stripperweb
It’s an interesting read. Lots of interesting history mixed in with more speculation about AmberCutie/MFC
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2 years ago
Fun stuff. The only strip club I know of that was recently opened, from scratch, and not just simply a bought out new-ownership space from an existing titty bar is around Lubbock. They started up in late 2020.
I remember expressing amazement with my friend (who grew up around there) about it. Lubbock is a town that has a bunch of Christian churches of every flavor all over the place. Planned Parenthood was chased out of town around 2013 and then they started up again (they had to sue for that right I think?) in either 2020 or 2021. But unlike almost other locations around the nation where one can just simply walk into the building and sit in a lobby, that location requires making an appointment ahead of time, having to be buzzed into the building, presenting ID to a security guard who is behind glass, and then buzzed into the next room for the actual appointment. It’s a town that has that much of an evangelical grip on its people.
She explained to me that the most likely reason that club could get away with existing is the fact that it was built in an area that’s the established “red light” area that was just outside Lubbock county. That area used to have a lot of business activity because alcohol sales used to be banned until 2009. There were vineyards that would grow wine for grapes, but they would ship their grapes off to central Texas (especially Fredericksburg), where the wine would actually get made because Lubbock wouldn’t tolerate that. When alcohol sales finally became legal, that red light area became a lot more quiet, and it’s only the two titty bars there that are the main source of activity now.
That to me indicated how much a municipality tolerates “sin” can easily change depending on who is in power. But a designated red light district can slow down the impact of individual leadership whims. Whether that is a good thing or a bad thing depends on one’s point of view.
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2 years ago
I did a quick search on what disorderly conduct even is (what he was charged with) is
13-2904. Disorderly conduct; classification
A. A person commits disorderly conduct if, with intent to disturb the peace or quiet of a neighborhood, family or person, or with knowledge of doing so, such person:
1. Engages in fighting, violent or seriously disruptive behavior; or
2. Makes unreasonable noise; or
3. Uses abusive or offensive language or gestures to any person present in a manner likely to provoke immediate physical retaliation by such person; or
4. Makes any protracted commotion, utterance or display with the intent to prevent the transaction of the business of a lawful meeting, gathering or procession; or
5. Refuses to obey a lawful order to disperse issued to maintain public safety in dangerous proximity to a fire, a hazard or any other emergency; or
6. Recklessly handles, displays or discharges a deadly weapon or dangerous instrument.
B. Disorderly conduct under subsection A, paragraph 6 is a class 6 felony. Disorderly conduct under subsection A, paragraph 1, 2, 3, 4 or 5 is a class 1 misdemeanor.
Source: https://www.azleg.gov/ars/13/02904.htm
The guy clearly did #2, 3, and 4. #4 is the big one that forced the city to intervene if he was interrupting filming for a news channel. And a town that gets a bunch of revenue from tourism is going to have a tough time letting somebody cause problems in such an attention whoring manner. The fullest charge against him would have been if he faced any jail time for his actions, but presumably that didn’t happen if the news article didn’t say anything.
I’m not saying that should have happened to him, but just to highlight that it’s not like the “snowflake crowd” is running the show. And in the private sector, google reviews has already wiped the recent negative reviews people tried to flood about the guy’s business. And ditto with trip advisor, where they even left a nice note telling people they are temporarily suspending publishing new reviews.
But grumps gotta grump.
—>“the Ortega family in Scottsdale is well known here for a variety of activities including, but not limited to: Drugs, human trafficking, the old man would try to fuck 16, 17, 18 year old girls, harassing business owners and much more - the difference is they finally got caught.”
Are you referring to the business owner or the mayor? The news article pointed out the two men were not related.
Now excuse me, I have a…erm, vibration therapy session to attend to 😊
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2 years ago
If Jordan Peterson is some antiwoke person who thinks some women-led activities are doing things that are destructive, such as how boys are parented or whether or not men deserve harsh consequences for certain sexual comments fine. I might actually agree on some points, depending on what the specific message is. But unless he starts dating dudes, he needs to stay in his lane of identifying what kind of guy is abusive or not, and what is an attractive quality.
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2 years ago
Watched like 2.5 minutes of the first link. Male narratives have so much of tropes like a lot of these tough buff Chads are jerks and get a bunch of ladies and the accountant is the boring guy who kisses women’s butts and women are horrible to him. There are PLENTY of “beta” and “nice guys” who present their abusive side early on. For me personally, it would have been WAY better when I was a teenager to go have a one night stand or just merely cheated on by some chad dudebro, than somebody who is red pill would have dubbed a beta male.
And feel free to describe how anything of what he said is relatable to strippers. I’ll reiterate what I said above. Strippers want to get paid just for showing up and looking cute and maybe twirling around the pole from a song that the DJ accommodated them on playing without being a dick about it. Reality makes it so that most shifts don’t end up that way. Strippers behave accordingly because of the harsh reality they actually have to sell things. Some strippers are better at selling than others. Some may end up personalizing their interactions with some customers or club staff members a little too much, and that usually bites them in the ass. But even when strippers are guilty of that behavior, there’s only so much emotional capacity one can have so it won’t be every customer in front of her. So statistically speaking, no strippers don’t care how “alpha” or “beta” a customer is. Perceived alphas who drop several thousand for himself and his friends are cool. Perceived alpha males who are friends with the club owner and use that to intimidate girls to do services for him are hated. Perceived beta males who come back and keep spending money in the club and doesn’t push a dancer beyond her limits is great. Perceived beta males who start spamming a dancer’s phone and send a bunch of nerve wracking text messages are
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2 years ago
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SalaoLikeSantiagoI know that you're young and inexperienced; but you can trust me to be sensitive and understanding. Now, here, have more tequila.
Huh. I just googled it. There’s no recent news articles about the club and I only saw the notice when I tried to visit the club’s website.
I’ve always avoided that club tho because of its reputation. Paging Wallanon to spill the tea if there’s anything known🍵
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2 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
I bought a juicer from a location I think two years ago? I remember they had cute knick knacks there. But on the other hand, I’m not surprised at what is going on. I could have sworn I have seen home good stores listed on one of the “Millennials killed…” clickbait headlines that were popular a few years ago.
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2 years ago
Eh? It’s fine to like this Jordan Peterson (I guess some red pill type of individual?) all you want, but I think what most strippers want at the club is a lot more basic than what you’re implying.
For myself, one of my favorite customers of all time I met when I was on stage, when just an hour or two earlier I was passed out drunk in the club dressing room, so I was still feeling groggy. Somebody walks up to my stage. He asked where I am from, and I say Texas. He thought that was awesome because he was originally from Texas as well. He gave me $400 in club funny money and walked right out the door. I only interacted with him for like 1 or 2 minutes maybe and never saw him again. I have no idea what kind of man he is and whether or not he’s a simp, but I wish I saw more guys like him 🥰
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2 years ago
I’ve seen quite a few dancers from stripperweb and recognized them somewhere else on social media before. Or I’ll recognize some when a dancer has ventured on this site. The titty bar discussion world is a tiny one.
I liked stripperweb and I still miss it. As far as man hating goes, I remember when most of the worst rhetoric was on tumblr. People on here trashed stripperweb, but it was nothing compared to over there. Heck, I remember even blahblahblah23 made a comment once about how much hateful rhetoric there was. BUT the tumblr strippers were also the first to start jabbing at the “dinosaur” strippers who claimed all they do is air dances and paved the way for it to be okay to talk about doing high mileage and extras. (Especially when Bodak Yellow from Cardi B was released in 2017). And that sentiment moved over to other social media sites and even towards the end, the dinosaur stripperweb community tolerated more posts like that (within reason.) And with both of those things combined…
Congrats! Your blowjob atf might be posting online how much she hates you. (While you, of course, are posting to other people on here what car she drives, etc)
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2 years ago
As I recall, RandomMember had posted on here multiple times his liking for that sub. Especially his regard for the posters over there vs those who post on tuscl.
I don’t remember much about r/sugarlifestyle. I’ve peeked over a few times, but my eyes glaze over and I don’t remember anything. It’s considered an awful place by strippers. There were a some grouches getting mad that one of the stripper subs have male moderators who are active over on there. But alas, stripper groups don’t have much of an ability to look over at something and just simply say “that is a poor use of one’s time and opportunity costs” that could be a useful guide for things. (And avoiding bad deals)
Though I will say that I think a lot of city subreddits are pretty good about local information. (Though a lot of them will definitely be filled with lots of left wing rhetoric). I’ll give a big shout out to r/Denver and r/denverfoods, which have both served me well. And also the guy who posted multiple times on r/Jacksonville his love of the burger at Wacko’s. (Which turned out to be pretty good). And also r/denvercirclejerk for the laughs.
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2 years ago
Plenty of dancers received pandemic unemployment during shut downs, so I’m sure lots do
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2 years ago
Good lord, if you want a particular xyz service, then frame it as your own personal wishes, and not phrase it as any kind of “advice”. Because let’s face it, in reality you care a heck of a lot more about how your nerve endings get stimulated than what her personal bank account deposits say anyways. And better yet (I’m sure some here will disagree with me) don’t request anything because she’s a newbie dancer and probably doesn’t know her boundaries yet anyways. Maybe bring up what you would personally like every once in a while. (Kinda like how Netflix does a “are you still watching” check-in every here and there), but then drop it and don’t bother her about it because ultimately you’re either being entertained or you’re not. Don’t be a Karen
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
It looks like one of the mods is speculating the same thing. Which makes sense since the top of the site is recommending Ambercutie
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?235445-Did-ACT-Purchase-Stripperweb
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
Holy cow, Rick got banned.
And apparently the moderator who is also a strip club DJ is blatantly getting into it with some other mods and long time posters.
This is how the stripperweb ends. Not with a whimper but some flame wars 🍿
But yeah, I’m sad to see stripperweb go just because it’s a cool way to kinda see into the history of the industry. it’s lasted so long after the rise and fall of other stripper platforms as well.
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
Ooh, I wanna make the cold-blooded psycho come back out behind Blah’s sedating meds. 😻