Comments by Call.Me.Ishmael (page 6)

Honestly, if this site switched out political discussions for financial discussions it would be simultaneously more interesting, more useful, and more relevant.

Possibly? Definitely a Latina based on her accent (plus name and look). But I'm not knowledgeable enough about Hispanic accents to know more than that.

If you can't locate her at Desire or any local club, then it's time to find another dancer. And ask for her contact details so that you can stay in touch. Guys here generally don't share dancer whereabouts or schedules (particularly in the more open discussions). We have no idea what you're all about. Meaning, you could be a good/generous strip club customer... or a terrifying stalker and/or ex partner.

Looks broken to me. I messaged founder.

I'm always amazed that anyone takes this troll seriously. Even for a moment.

No.

Send to founder.

"And why is it that 95-99% of everything they say is a lie? It’s so frustrating." Show me a strip club that provides complete honesty and I'll show you a strip club with an empty parking lot.

The Rover (2014) https://imdb.com/title/tt2345737/ The Drop (2014) https://imdb.com/title/tt1600196/

The problem with the "My phone died" family of excuses is that they will be believable for a while... and then they aren't.

The reality is that this isn't considered a weird or intrusive thing in many marriages these days. I know guys who do this with their wives and it's both a benefit and sometimes a critical safety measure. Stipulating, of course, that no one is doing secretive naughty things... If you Google this tech in conjunction with marriage, you'll see that a lot of the questions and articles target guys who think their wives are cheating on them just as much as the reverse scenario. There's also a lot of content on the legality of using this collected GPS data in divorce proceedings. The reality is that it's getting harder to get away with stuff, particularly in a marriage. There are still some short-term means to get around this sort of digital accountability, but if a spouse wants any sort of habitual extra-marital fun then they should prepare for eventual failure.

It's soaking up a lot more bandwidth than it deserves. I think it's great to see a woman bluntly treating sex like something that is simultaneously messy and fun... because it is. The only reason why it's getting this much attention is because she's a woman, and on some level we still expect "good girls" to be demure (particularly about sex). But a guy acting similarly wouldn't get noticed. Personally, I think it's refreshing to see a woman being so honest about sex (even if it is fueled by booze). Manuel said "just not marrying material" While that might be true, I wouldn't say that based on her 10 seconds on a microphone.

I'd never do this except perhaps with a dancer I've known for a while and we're relatively familiar with each other. Setting aside possible nightmare scenarios, there's the simpler reality that she could ruin the trip in more mundane ways that could only come out once you've spent an entire day with her. So, given your circumstances I wouldn't do this, but you're obviously a bit more daring with your vacation time. I hope it works out.

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Bmathers90 said "A friend alerted me to this review and I couldn't help but add what I know about this person." Yes. We understand, Fake Vanheusen81, you have an axe to grind with this dancer. Consider your axe ground. As to the scenario you laid out, creating a sock puppet to keep the thread alive doesn't make it more believable.

My thoughts... Never pay a dancer to leave. You're surrounded by sales people in a club. Just like in any other sales environment, some are more aggressive and cutthroat than others. So, yes, it's on you to know how to deal with the more aggressive dancers. That dancer who made you feel like a "bad guy" forgot you existed moments after you parted ways. It's okay for you to think of her the same way.

I think a bunch of you guys lost this: https://tuscl.net/forum/5

Customers make snap judgments about dancers all the time. Makes sense that they do the same thing. Lack of eye contact. Sullen, dismissive, or passive aggressive attitude. Struggle to keep a light conversation going. No flirtatious or light touching. Some combination of these things will cause me to cut a dancer loose regardless of how hot she is. There are other dancers and I won't waste my time or money on resentful, mechanical dancers.

I almost never drink booze at strip clubs. Particularly day shifts.

Dancers are my top priority.

Uncle said "Most Hoe's appreciate the free advertisement." That's not true at all. But, you can prove me wrong. Next time you get extras, tell the dancer that you're going to post a review here and identify what she did and her stage name. Let us know how she "thanks" you.

I've noticed more people claiming to be on the spectrum in general, but many simply because they read a "You might be autistic if..." article on some click-bait website and not via a medical diagnosis, test, or even a doctor's educated opinion. And I think that's happening because for some people it's easier to claim autism (which allows you to abdicate responsibility for your behavior) versus saying "I'm weird and a little broken." And that's unfortunate, because autism is a real thing and a real struggle for a lot of people. It doesn't do them any favors when a population of people start waving the "autism" flag as an excuse for being sometimes a dick. On another note, I'd like to commend nicespice on starting a topic about autism when the last time she did that it ballooned into a multi-year post that got bumped over 500 times. I feel like we're saying Beetlejuice's name three times...

A message to founder might generate an answer.

Don't connect dancers by name to extras or OTC in reviews or posts, even if it's a club where "everyone knows" (which might be true for the club, but not for individual dancers). TUSCLers with access to these reviews can include club managers, staff, and other dancers, who can use that information against a dancer. It's also not impossible for local reporters to access these reviews to find incriminating quotes for their expose piece.

Asian characters... many more mistakes were made pre Google Translate (or the internet in general). These days it's pretty easy to get it right.