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9 years ago
Reminds me of my first OTC encounter. This is how I suspect it'll play out
-go to hotel and fuck
-upon departure or a couple days later she's asking you for money for some need
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9 years ago
ATACdawg, she'll get that money once she's shopped until the CC is declined.
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9 years ago
Its pretty much customary to tip a bartender anywhere. At the SC I always tip at least a dollar for each drink, even the free glass of ice water. Its your choice, but their hospitality towards you may change.
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9 years ago
I'll agree with 11bravo88 this has been quite the funny thread. The most awkward I saw was a guy probably in his 60s who came in the club and was trying to smack strippers walking by on the butt with a $1 bill and he was flashing it at some as if to beckon them to him.
I guess an old man has to do what he has to do. I hope I'm not too far from my current me as far as behavior in the strip club if I'm still going by 70. I'm separated, soon to be divorced at 30 and hopefully by 70 I have a wife that's there to the end.
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9 years ago
Let Stripperweb tell it, strippers dislike being asked if they have another job. I know it can be learned if a stripper has another job just through enough casual conversation. Anyway, since I've stopped asking that question myself, one worked at a museum and another was licensed to do hair/nails and some other professional type shit, but she preferred to dance.
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9 years ago
A stripper in Vegas expected me to buy her some tennis shoes and pay for whatever else we did in city while still paying for a BJ in my motel with no sex. I had already dropped like $1000 on her the night before just at the full nude club with no FS.
To sharkhunter, I probably would have jumped on that take me to Vegas request. I'm always looking for a reason to go. However, being it a stripper some terms would have to be agreed upon prior to just up and going.
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9 years ago
There was a recent tuscl discussion about stripperweb if you come across it might be a nice read for you. The only thing I found helpful about that site was a thread about girls posting their bad, normal, good day/night profits. Made me figure hell, a stripper in my state has a good night when I visit and choose just one.
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9 years ago
Id pay $40 if I was ballin out of control. In Tucson, AZ at the only full nude club I know of, in VIP full nude is $30 and topless is $20. Similar to what you said its really no privacy, each spot is like a round booth. $20 seems standard for VIP lap dances here as its that price at two other clubs Ive been to.
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9 years ago
I meant to say fairly new...
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9 years ago
72_OS
I'm rarely new to the SC scene and have been browsing here on tuscl often, but I have yet to hear of a recommended gratuity for strippers. I just give what I can or what I feel is decent. So lets say I had one $20 LD and we made out and it was some good 2 way contact I'd give at least $5 but no higher.
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9 years ago
Are you making out there on the main floor, VIP, or some other designated area of the club? My makeout session with a stripper was the first night I met her and it was in the VIP area. So I tipped her a little over what a LD cost.
I'll add to what JohnSmith69 said. I know now to be cognizant of making out with strippers as I'm surely not the only one or that special guy.
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9 years ago
I'll share. My best night with a stripper was when she finally didn't flake out and let me pick her up after work and go to hotel. Prior to me even picking her up I had been stood up by her 2 or 3 times where she was supposed to hit me up after she got off work. Another stand up was while I was waiting for her to be done with eating breakfast and explain leaving with a friend to her colleagues. So at the moment she gets in my ride I'm like I can't believe this is happening. So as mentioned earlier we head to the hotel and have sex. I will say she was totally different in bed than any civilian girl I've been with.
So this was my best night with a stripper, but the next morning sure was the beginning of the worst of meeting a stripper. These jokers sure know how to entangle you into the drama in their lives.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I posted in a little detail over in the spend something thread, but wanted to say I'm glad I now have learned there are clubs that have a tip walk. A drink minimum (non alcoholic) at a full nude was sort of a stretch for me. I hope I never come across a tip walk club. Just doesn't seem right...not all dancers who get on stage even do a decent stage dance.
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9 years ago
In other ATF news there's been a recent discussion thread started titled, "Definition of ATF"
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9 years ago
Rain wouldn't keep me in. I have to drive at least 90 minutes to get a SC so by the time I get to the next city the weather is different.
I think for those who go often despite how long the drive may be, not going because of rain we're probably just trying to talk ourselves out of it to save money.
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9 years ago
Its nice to know others have had multiple ATFs/CFs at the same club. IMO Im still fairly new to the strip club world.
Thanks for really breaking it down Subraman. I'll use that approach next time I see either.
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9 years ago
Georgmicro,
Did you ever find yourself explaining yourself or reasoning to them?
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9 years ago
I think it helps to treat the girl like you would a non stripper. Pretty much don't be a jerk. Maybe she saw alot OTC but I had a stripper in FL offer OTC and it was my first visit and I was on business travel in her city. Question for posters, do you give the strippers your real cell or some type of number that rings your cell?
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9 years ago
Not to hijack original poster, but has any had OTC free, not counting what's spent ITC?
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9 years ago
I usually go to the casino before the strip club. I've always liked to gamble on poker and blackjack, but now its to win more money to go to the strip club. Sometimes I'm disciplined enough to pocket some after the casino and strip club.
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9 years ago
Well, Ive broken a lot of the rules posted by shailynn. Newbie learning quick though I'll say that.
The drama I'm facing is that this stripper wants to say she's late on her monthly, but when I'm like let me know your appointment via text since we just spoke on phone. Since that text its been two days and nothing from her.
The other drama is after our first OTC she asks for $300 on some she need some help shit and I agree under the terms she pay me back, but that's yet to happen and she didn't even hit me up on the first arrangement where she would pay me some of the money. Unfortunately me thinking with my smaller head hit her up and some OTC went down again.
As it stands I guess you could say the OTC wa free, but she got me for $300, the second OTC Im thinking is her trying to cop some "supposedly" abortion money.
I've chalked the $300 up to a loss and her too if I never hear from her again cause I'm surely not hitting her up again.
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7 years ago
Good article. There have been a few times I've been in the SC and heard a song I like. I usually try to catch the hook and I'll either look it up then or text myself. I always knew there was an app, but maybe now I'll download it since I've read it in regards to strippers and strip club lol.
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8 years ago
Good one shadowcat!
This was an okay read, but as someone else mentioned, not really geared towards going alone. This would be good for someone starting on the SC scene looking to make it a hobby.
Some good points and to each his own. Leave cards...good one, but only if you don't have discipline. Nice to staff... totally agree, but tip here and there especially if you visit often. Spreading your money out...good one. Makes for a good visit and variety if you're not there specifically for a favorite(s). No drunk driving and watching for a ROB, definitely solid advice.
Some points I disagree on...how many times per year. I myself go anywhere from 2-6 times in a month and enjoy it each time. And as someone mentioned, it usually works in your favor being a "regular"; the girl has become comfortable being/dancing on you. Another point I disagree with is somebody else paying them. I'm not saying be a sucker nor will some other guy not pay her, but know some of these girls despite how hot they are, unless it's a lucky day/night they aren't bringing it in as outsider's looking in think (varies depending on club/location or even what girl is known for).
Some other minor disagreements are how you handle your money as far as small large bills. I myself fold mine and keep in front pocket with smaller bills on outside. I'd say as long as you're not drunk as fuck or crumbled up bills, you should be okay. The last minor is no touching... this depends/varies on location.
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9 years ago
@seawa
That's great you scored your first OTC. I'm sure that it lifts the feeling of is this really possible.
Do it again...I would! Should you have sex with her? I'd say no since you're married and unless you and your wife have an open relationship. Remember your wife is more than likely to be there for you for years to come and not to mention the convenience of sex if you guys are active.
As far as an STD I do agree certain lifestyles have a higher risk than others, but unless you meet a total square female, civilian women are fucking as much or more than some strippers while still engaging in high risk activities. Just wear protection.