First OTC Experience
seawa
Nevada
It took me about 6 visits to get to the point where OTC was an option with my current favorite. That is about a year in real time though as I only visit this club every few months. I'm okay with that time frame because OTC is something that I wanted to try, not necessarily something that I must have. Of course I wanted to be completely alone with this girl, but I wanted to make sure I took my time to make sure she was a good choice.
It started with private dances of course. During those dances a relationship is built I get her phone number, and I schedule my club visits for when she is there. We talk about a lot of things. Personally, I don't give up any truths to dancers, everything I say is rooted in honesty, but none of the facts are divulged. I went through the normal - "I miss you" "I'm not going to be able to pay rent this month" I didn't give into any of these requests, with help from this site by the way. This lead to the OTC itself.
I visited the club as usual and my only plan was to have dinner with her the next night. Dances as usual and we set up dinner for the next night. The next day, I did my best to not overthink the upcoming evening. I have read on this site many times about all of the methods guys use to make sure they cover their bases. All I can say is that I put in enough time beforehand and I had no real concerns or fears. Perhaps I should have, but that ignorance allowed me to have a great experience. It wasn't until the end of our time together that she brought up the awkwardness of her showing up for a few hours ago and then leaving the hotel without me.
She arrived at my hotel (a fairly large well visited hotel) at least an hour later than I expected, SS of course. She met me in the lobby and we went to dinner in the hotel. She was wearing a long dark coat that covered up a great brown, form fitting dress. Once again, it wasn't until the experience was over that I realized how cliche it was. She stood out but not that much as I was dressed in business attire that matched her look. This was our first interaction in the "real world" together. It's a strange feeling to be nervous around a girl who you've already seen naked before and have been serviced by before. I've have had my fingers inside of her ITC and she has given me hand jobs but I was nervous to be with her at dinner. It wasn't first date nerves, I think it was more the anticipation of wondering if this was really going to happen. Dinner went very well, we ate and got to know each other. After dinner we walked around and sat in the lobby to discuss. As you know this was my first experience but she claims it was hers as well. SS right? Who knows, she did seem nervous and wanted to emphasize that there would be no sex. I was okay with that as that is something that I'm not sure if I am ready for (very concerned about health when it comes to that).
We negotiated a price and services that would be provided. 1 hour and a hand job for sure. I would be able to do everything I wanted except for intercourse. I would give the number I paid, but knowing this site, all I will hear is that it was too much or that I am lying about the deal I got. What is important is that my experience is shared I think.
We went to my room and she went to the bathroom first. I waited for her on my bed. She came back and removed her dress. She was wearing matching blue lingerie that looked great on her body. She said, "I'm not sure how this is going to work". I told her that it would be just like our routine at the club except no interruptions and we had the freedom to touch each other without trying to hide it. She normally has to put her body in certain positions to hide her hands or mine. She joined me on the bed and started taking off my shirt and pants. She took off her bra next. It was so nice getting to see her in real lighting. She was even more attractive when not hidden by the strip club lighting. I was also able to see how sexy she looks when dancing on me. The eyes of a stripper are ultra sexy to me. I sucked on her breasts and felt her body all over. She pulled out my dick and got to work. She knew we had a lot of time together so she teased me well. She would lie on me and work my dick throughout. After about 15 minutes of this she took off her panties. She was completely shaved. She sat up on me so that her crotch was just behind mine. She played with her pussy and rubbed my dick with her other hand. I loved hearing her pussy get wet as my dick got hard. What a great view it was.
I then got to play with her clit. She showed me what she liked and I learned quickly. As she got wet, I was able to slide my fingers inside of her. I fingered her while she continued with my hand job. She rested her body on me next. Her pussy was inches from my dick so I was obviously thinking about fucking her, but my mind didn't let me pursue that. Contracting a disease is a big fear of mine so while I definitely wanted to fuck her, I didn't feel a great need to pursue fucking her. We finished by using our hands on each other. It was an awesome experience. She ended up spending an extra half hour with me. We didn't even look at the clock until she got up to use the bathroom for the last time. She got dressed, I payed her and I walked her to her car. This is when she mentioned she was worried what it would look like. I wasn't worried at all as I didn't put a lot of planning into the night. It's only now looking back that I can pick out times that it was likely very obvious what we were up to while we were in public.
So, overall a great experience, I saved money and had a great time. She made more money and didn't have to deal with the club for a few hours. We have another meet set for 2 months from now. The question now is if I want to pay for sex with this girl. It's very confusing for me. And I am sure for many others. As I mentioned on here before I am married. My wife knows I go to clubs. She likes to hear about what the dancers do for me and what turns me on about them. I haven't told her about this OTC or how intimate we get. I wasn't sure how I would feel after this OTC with my wife. Honestly, the feelings after felt no different from the way I feel after visiting the club. Of course physically I felt a lot better because of the freedom. As far as my conscience though, it felt the same. This girl would likely let me fuck her for money, but as I said I am super fearful of bringing something home to my wife. Beyond that the feeling of cheating on my wife and paying for it.
Who knows what will happen? I'll update in a few months after my next OTC. I really do appreciate most of the feedback I get on this site. There are very few outlets to discuss this world and the feelings that come with it.
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A. Have an STD your and your wife don't already have (a strand of HPV or HSV which you might already have and not even know)
B. Even if she is infected with something else it's still not guaranteed you would catch it based off of one time of unprotected sex.
I've also had a stripper naked on my lap while she's giving me a HJ with her pussy an inch away from my dick. That happened in the champagne room after I had already been a regular of hers for a couple months. I really wanted to ask for FS but decided to wait a couple weeks. Before I could ask her a couple weeks later she had suggested it first the following week I started seeing her OTC at her place.
Statistically, and from what I know of this girl, I probably am safe to try FS with her. I just get really paranoid about STDs. I'd love to get a BJ from her too but i would for sure want that to be uncovered. I think for me just like the OTC, I'll take my time with her now doing OTC. And then in time more will happen.
I'm lucky that this relationship isn't my only avenue for sexual contact with a female. She knows that and appreciates it too. I think she is realistic with her prices because she knows if she charges too much, I'll move on without thinking twice.
That's great you scored your first OTC. I'm sure that it lifts the feeling of is this really possible.
Do it again...I would! Should you have sex with her? I'd say no since you're married and unless you and your wife have an open relationship. Remember your wife is more than likely to be there for you for years to come and not to mention the convenience of sex if you guys are active.
As far as an STD I do agree certain lifestyles have a higher risk than others, but unless you meet a total square female, civilian women are fucking as much or more than some strippers while still engaging in high risk activities. Just wear protection.
All I can say is this: learn where the nearest source of condoms are and never take any left overs home. Just leave them for the house keeping staff.
But I do applaud you on experiencing your first OTC, and getting exactly what you wanted and paid for, from a beautiful stripper. That is a win and no one should be able to criticize you for that.
I'd rather not use something Google has its clutches in for something I'd like to keep private, but to each his or her own. It works for a lot of people including some of the established customers on this forum.
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http://www.burnerapp.com/
jonathantaylor1 ---> "because I don't ever want them to call me" --> end quote jonathantaylor1
Most dancers (or young people in general) won't really ever "call" you. Especially with a dancer, a telephone is really a texting only device for them. So worst case she will text you, pumping you for money in the future. About the only real reason to hand out your personal telephone number to an OTC p4p prospect is so she can screen you / perform a background check on you. But really only professional escorts do that, not dancers.
I've taken a few girls OTC, and fucking was very definitely the main attraction – understood by both.
What's the point of not fucking? Saving it for marriage? Life is too short.
As for the increased chance of an STD from fucking with a condom (as opposed to HJ, clit playing and some fingers in a wet pussy) must be in the same league as getting struck by lightning.
It sounds like he is playing the long game here. And, maybe she was telling the truth too and was her first OTC experience. If so, stds probably aren't as much of a worry. He could have a real gem!
He'll probably fuck her at some point, but probably only when he's comfortable asking her directly about std testing. If she's got any brains she'll be tested regularly if she's fucking customers in the club.
Anyway, good article bro! Would love to hear about your next experience.
The saga continues with this girl and a new article from me should be coming soon.
Then one girl verifies for another girl that the experience was good and you can be trusted. This leads to more OTC experiences. I've had champagne, wine, strawberries, chocolate. A few have allowed photo sessions.
I don't do them these days, as I've found ways to have more fun for even less money. But having it off my bucket list and knowing I can set it up again at anytime is a good feeling.
Also gives me time to understand how far I really want to take it with her.