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8 years ago
Sounds like this guy is just not man enough to satisfy the young lady, and that older woman is going to get dull real fast I wager once he finds put she is not as sexually active.
If he wanted the young lady to do things with him besides sex he needs to show her other fun stuff to do together after some more loving.
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8 years ago
Can vary from person to person, and often messages go unread for days-weeks for some who do not post often.
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8 years ago
You made a few mistakes for this one, first off you should never ask a dancer over your place as the first OTC she does not know you well enough for that. The first, and second OTC are to build trust so she knows your not some crazy serial killer or what not and yes people do that to dancers.
Second was your price being to low, she needs $380 which means you offter $400 atleast to make it look more viable then staying at the club especially if she is already at the club.
Another thing you could have done is offer her a chance to leave early if she is not making much that night or ask her to meet up another day so you can give her a less stressful but profitable day.
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8 years ago
^I met a dancer who tried doing this and stopped her 1 minute into the dance, fully clothed that can hurt a guy's dick and I go to the club for a good time not for a dancer to try breaking my dick. The dancer was annoyed I did not like it and it was the only time I was very firm in telling her "unless a guy likes it rough that is no way to give a good lap dance", seeing she did not give a damn I just got up and walked out without paying her.
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8 years ago
Perhaps I am a little different but in my book when they can't stick to a plan for OTC multiple times usually I drop them for OTC and ITC as they are just BSing and my money is better spent on a dancer who keeps her word.
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8 years ago
Papi you would be surprised on how many dancers actually hate the customers, I myself have seen dancers have that slight face twitch to keep up that false smile a few times when certain people approach them. Its kinda funny to see the mask come off at times as you can tell who the dancers really can't stand, also nice when you surprise the dancer by standing out in a good way.
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8 years ago
This one is a flake, the dancer who is unreliable to often one who is not worth spending much on OTC, a good dancer sees the value of OTC over ITC as she does not have to pay a portion of what she earns. She also gets "peace of mind" knowing that you will be spending on her and treating her to a more relaxed setting where there's no competition.
This dancer does not seem to want to do OTC with you if she fails to show up most of the time, drop her for OTC and look for someone shows up.
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8 years ago
It really all depends on the dancer, you and the age difference however some dancers prefer not to seek anything from the club other then a paycheck as they do not want to mix business and a relationship. I have asked one of the ladies I have gotten to know what her thoughts on this were once when the club was dead and we were just relaxing.
She told me that dancers do not look at customers for dates(free dates not P2P, or OTC P2P) due to the fact most guys don't actually respect a dancer and are just looking for the fun aspect the club provides. Many guys also start to make demands or want the dancer to "change their ways" as they do not see dancing as acceptable as a job and not wanting other guys to get what he does(wanting her to be exclusive to him). Usually dancers also do not really see customers as dating material cause they are at a strip club to enjoy woman for their body not look for someone to connect with.
Strippers do date people they met at the club but from both sides theres already some "trust" issues due to where you met and how you got together, it is not impossible to seriously date a stripper but it does not happen often.
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8 years ago
Thats the kind of thing that is not funny, also warrents a serious beating.
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8 years ago
Why don't you have both of them ?, if they are both there on the same night double up and enjoy the two at the same time. I did a double dance recently and it was well worth it, you could also just tell cf 1 that tonight you are here for cf 2 and maybe later you will spend time with her.
Act like a king not a bitch, no woman likes a coward.
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8 years ago
She is already asking for extra, unless she is giving you extras then $40 is all you should pay. If the place has a $35 dance price but she asks for $40 that $5 more she charges is her tip.
I hate dancers who try this ROB shit cause they think they are special and can change the price to be what they want instead of what the club says.
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8 years ago
I guess the drugs plus the booze make people do stupid things or with those two combined in your system the ugly dancer looks more attractive.
Can't give any other answer cause I like to have my wits about me when in the club, not looking to lose more money due to not being fully aware.
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8 years ago
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ItsmytimeI’ve had enough and I can’t take it any more
I will never forget an obviously drugged out dancer ask me if I wanted her to suck my dick, I declined as she was the type of dancer you stay the hell away, and she looked to have some serious mileage on her in a bad way.
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8 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
The first two are just way to top heavy in my book but the third one looks very nice.
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Thats a woman who is busty but not too busty to the point of being top heavy.
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8 years ago
Perhaps he went on a holy journey and got lost.
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8 years ago
Eh shes ok but would not be my first choice.
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8 years ago
I think perhaps twentyfive is off his meds, cause his rant is from out of no where.
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8 years ago
Still never said who this little rant was caused by, and I seriously doubt any of the young posters are angry at the older guys here.
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8 years ago
That kid is way to young to be getting this, way to ruin a boy's childhood by having him grow up to fast.
If he were 15 or 16 this would not be an issue but 8 years old is just to damn young for this.
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8 years ago
Since I am looking to be amused, what young posters here are you talking about ?
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8 years ago
That dancer is seriously looking to prevent other girls from getting your money. I do not like dancers who are possesive like that as it can cause stupid trouble in the club which is suppose to be a fun place.
Might want to sit her down and lay down the rules or remind her that you are not her boyfriend or exclusive customer.
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8 years ago
What is this nonsense ?, someone clearly needs a hug.
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8 years ago
I have had another patron buy me a dance, it was not to long ago and the irony is that the guy bought me a dance with someone I often get a dance from. We both got a good laugh out of it cause she told me that the guy bought me a dance due to me looking so innocent. I had been planning on getting a dance with her anyway but found it really amusing to have someone else pay for our fun.
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8 years ago
Oh I think you should pay it all in cash, this girl seems so real about her troubles, surprised she asked for such a low amount of money.
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8 years ago
You fail hard to pass up a good thing, that dancer probably would have shown you a good time. Even when I was a rookie I never made a blunder like this.