Strangers Buying you a Lap Dance

goldmongerATL
The Square Above Charlie Weaver
Had an odd experience many years back. I tried to flag down a dancer that struck my fancy, but she and another girl were glued to a table of several regulars on the other side of the club. She did tell me she would try and come back later. I thought little more of it and got dances from some other girls. I was ready to leave when the first girl finally came by. She said her regular want her to dance for me. then the shocker. "He's paying"

Very confused as she did not wait for an answer and gave me an awesome grind. She asked if she should keep going and I said since I got a free one I would buy some more. She said, no, he's paying. As many as you want. He gets off watching me dance. After 4-5 songs she said she was going to ask him if she could take me to VIP. She came back and said he wanted to go to VIP with her right now. She said she had to go since he was going to spend about $2,000 that night. They would be in VIP until closing. I offered her a tip and she said he would not allow her to take it.

I wonder if this is some sort of voyeur thing or dom/sub thing or even some sort of humiliation thing where he pays but someone else benefits. Dancers out there, how common or rare is weird shit like this? I ask the dancers because unless you are the one buying or getting the freebie, a customer would have no idea this was going on.

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  • jackslash
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    9 years ago
    Back in the heyday of the Windsor, Canada, strip clubs, a customer insisted on buying me a dance from a hot nude stripper. It was kind of weird. I tried to buy him a dance in return, but he would not hear of it.
  • Dur_Flush
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    9 years ago
    Being financially blessed as I am. Being the benefactor to another patron is a beautiful way to show humanity from the abundance of my riches
  • shadowcat
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    9 years ago
    I have had it happen to me twice at Follies and in both cases the dancers were not my type but I accepted the freebie graciously but did not buy any additional dances. Now I have had a couple of my buddies buy me dances because it was my birthday or something and I have done the same.
  • vincemichaels
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    9 years ago
    Well, next time we club, shadowcat, I'll gladly offer to buy you a lap dance. The master deserves obeisance. :)
  • 4got2wipe
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    9 years ago
    "Being financially blessed as I am. Being the benefactor to another patron is a beautiful way to show humanity from the abundance of my riches"

    Brilliant!

    goldmongerATL just met Dur_Flush!
  • goldmongerATL
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    9 years ago
    Ldk - if he was watching it was from across the room. Never even figured out which guy it was because the whole group (3 guys and by then there were 3 girls) went off to the VIP after she was done with me. Hell, she said he was spending a couple of grand. Maybe he was buying VIP for his friends.
  • rockstar666
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    9 years ago
    One of my ATF's 80+ regulars bought me 5 dances once. I'm not sure why but it was a nice surprise!
  • Lone_Wolf
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    9 years ago
    I would probably decline tactfully. I can buy my own dances and wouldn't want some dude thinking I owed him something .
  • Eagle1191
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    9 years ago
    I have had another patron buy me a dance, it was not to long ago and the irony is that the guy bought me a dance with someone I often get a dance from. We both got a good laugh out of it cause she told me that the guy bought me a dance due to me looking so innocent. I had been planning on getting a dance with her anyway but found it really amusing to have someone else pay for our fun.
  • rickthevulture
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    9 years ago
    I'll occasionally buy a dance for a good ape. You apes need fun too. That's the ticket! Squawk!
  • MrDeuce
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    9 years ago
    At Jimmy's in Chicago Heights two weeks ago a nice old drunken regular named "The Colonel" bought me a beer as soon as I sat down, followed a few minutes later by a $20 lapper with a hot young ebony named Perfect. I seldom turn down free anything.

    At Pulse in Peoria last year a dancer bought me a beer.

    I mention these two events because they're both unprecedented: No one else has ever bought me a lap dance and no dancer has ever bought me a drink.
  • Dur_Flush
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    9 years ago
    Benevolence is a thing of beauty
  • Cashman1234
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    9 years ago
    I would not want that at all. I'd decline immediately. There's somethings I'd rather pay for - than allowing another guy pay for.
  • lopaw
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    9 years ago
    I occasionally will get a guy (or a group of guys) buying me dances. With only one exception the reason is so that they could watch, of course. The one exception was a very long time ago when a very cute but timid looking dancer approached me out of nowhere and said that the guy she was sitting with told her to go dance for me. I suspect that he was trying to embarrass either me or her. Of course the joke was on him since he couldn't have found a way to embarrass me if he tried. I sensed that the guy was an asshole so I took her to VIP for some privacy so that he couldn't even watch. Win!
  • JamesSD
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    9 years ago
    I once befriended a middle aged, chatty drunk guy in the bathroom. He was there with a group and throwing cash around, giving the younger guys in his group cash for tips and buying them dances. Basically he wanted to seem alpha male by throwing around cash. They were out of towners

    He paid a dancer to give me a couple dances in the back. They were fine, nothing special. Still it was nice enough
  • rogertex
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    9 years ago
    The guy probably just gave dancer money and told her go dance for somebody.
    In turn, the dancer picked you from the crowd and simply said - "that guy is paying me to dance for you".

    I've done this a few times during early years. Don't know exactly why. Just felt drunk, jolly and happy and wallet opened up during early trysts. Not anymore. Learned from hardcore masters of TUSCL.
  • GoVikings
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    9 years ago
    Why hasn't this happened to me yet? :-(
  • flagooner
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    9 years ago
    A few years ago I bought a LD for the bathroom attendant. He was a nice old guy. He had the biggest smile on his face. It turned out to be a brilliant $10 investment. All the girls showed me a lot of attention that evening and quite a few freebies.
  • goldmongerATL
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    9 years ago
    I bought a lapper FROM a kid being deployed.

    At a pretty seedy club (the old Rooster's if you know Atlanta). Some sort of tech specialist and knew her stuff, so not SS. She was on some sort of pass before going overseas somewhere. Had a friend that stripped there and wanted to earn extra money. I came to realize the value of money in the strip club world and the true world of people that don't have or make much money. Took her to VIP and when she realized how much money that meant , she freaked out with joy. She practically raped me in VIP. Could also be because she did not get any in a LONG time in the Army.
  • goldmongerATL
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    9 years ago
    @Rech - Over 30 years of clubbing, I have had my share of (to quote Will Smith in MIB) weird-shit-o-meter stuff happen.
  • Estafador
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    9 years ago
    I have yet to hear from a dancer.
  • rentz2
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    9 years ago
    I had it happen once at Follies. Guy sat at the table next to me and we started talking to each other and he asked which girl I liked that was near us. I pointed out one girl I was into and he had someone get her and she started dancing on me. He did that with a few girls and even bought a couple rounds of drinks. He didn't want any dances and refused me getting a round or him a dance or two. I wish it would happen more often.
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