Advice Needed
jackslash
Detroit strip clubs
I met a new dancer named Chastity at a Detroit show club on Monday. She stood out because she was so young and innocent. It turned out that she was only 18 and this was her first night working in a strip club. With her honey-blonde hair and natural C-cups, she was very popular, and customers kept taking her upstairs to the VIP booths.
Being desperate to get some dances from her, I tipped her $50 the next time she came on stage. That caught her attention. However, when we went to VIP I found I had to teach her how to do a lap dance. She sat tentatively on my knees, and she pushed away my hands when they began to roam. When I offered her $300 to feel her tits, she burst into tears. She told me she wasn’t that kind of girl and did not like me making her feel like a prostitute. I felt bad about being so insensitive.
I invited her out to dinner at a fancy restaurant. She was very reluctant, but finally agreed when I said I would pay her $500 for a dinner date.
So last night she met me at Red Lobster. We had a nice conversation over our meal. Chastity told me she liked older men. Young guys, she said, are immature and do not treat girls considerately and respectfully like I did.
Chastity explained to me why she had started dancing. She had graduated from high school and hoped to go on to college, but she had little money. Then her mother had been diagnosed with cancer. Although she was very hesitant, she decided to try dancing in a show club just long enough to pay for her mother’s operation. The operation cost $6000, and she told me that if I could give her $3000 toward the operation, she would be eternally grateful to me.
So I need some advice. Do you think I should give her $3000? Or should I give her the full $6000 to make sure she will like me and become my girlfriend?
Being desperate to get some dances from her, I tipped her $50 the next time she came on stage. That caught her attention. However, when we went to VIP I found I had to teach her how to do a lap dance. She sat tentatively on my knees, and she pushed away my hands when they began to roam. When I offered her $300 to feel her tits, she burst into tears. She told me she wasn’t that kind of girl and did not like me making her feel like a prostitute. I felt bad about being so insensitive.
I invited her out to dinner at a fancy restaurant. She was very reluctant, but finally agreed when I said I would pay her $500 for a dinner date.
So last night she met me at Red Lobster. We had a nice conversation over our meal. Chastity told me she liked older men. Young guys, she said, are immature and do not treat girls considerately and respectfully like I did.
Chastity explained to me why she had started dancing. She had graduated from high school and hoped to go on to college, but she had little money. Then her mother had been diagnosed with cancer. Although she was very hesitant, she decided to try dancing in a show club just long enough to pay for her mother’s operation. The operation cost $6000, and she told me that if I could give her $3000 toward the operation, she would be eternally grateful to me.
So I need some advice. Do you think I should give her $3000? Or should I give her the full $6000 to make sure she will like me and become my girlfriend?
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Realistically, she's trying to play you hard. She doesn't like old men, she probably has people pay premium prices just for roaming and she's probably been on more than one date with a "mature" man before (who incidentally are even less mature than young men because they're own ego is through the roof). You do realize they make payment plans for these sorts of things right? She can also get a loan and pay it off if she really wanted to help her mama on her own. I'm sure she's heard of that.
BUT if you really feel like helping her mother, make sure YOU do it and don't give the money in her hand. If she really needs help she'll allow it otherwise she's, what we call in the urban community, "finessing" you.
Duh!
If you had gone to a dive club, the operation would have only cost $3000
Strange. I've heard similar stories.
Although the ones I heard were with their car needing a new transmission.
And a boyfriend who killed himself so she needed money for the funeral (no joke I was actually told that).
It definitely is. Jack usually doesn't have this much self control, he'd just front her the entire 6 large