Comments by SteveSutton (page 7)

I added some detailed comments to another SA thread. Mixed bag so far. But better than escorts where I'm 0/4 with none matching pics. At least for my SA girls, 7/8 matched the pics and description. If I can't find a nice local SA girl soon, I'm giving up on this and going back to strippers OTC which has never been an issue, and is cheaper.

Good feedback. I have met 8 SA girls now I believe since Jan 1 this year. All but two during business travel; one is local; one is 2 hours driving away. First one was awesome, young, good sex, but she texted me a couple of weeks later that she found a vanilla partner. Second was a MILF local and we've had 3 dates (1 concert; 2 casino), but then she started texting me very weird messages, and wanted to be FB friends (I never told her my real name) so I've cut her off. Third was an Instagram model knock-out in LA, and we are still in touch. Have plans to fly her up to Vegas this summer for a weekend. Fourth and Fifth were in Dallas. Four was great, super hot, but when we got to her place and I paid the PPM, she became cold and didn't want to have sex. My mistake of course, should have paid after the deed. Just didn't see it coming ... at all. Texted her a few times after, but no reply. Fifth was basically an escort, just quick in and out, not memorable. Sixth was pretty decent again ... dinner, movie, followed by FS at my hotel. She did quickly want to leave after one pop though, won't repeat if I'm back in town. Seven was the first one where she really didn't match the pictures that well. She was a bit older, and definitely not as fit as she made it seem in her pics and profile. Did go back to her place and had some fun, but also not memorable and won't repeat. Which brings me to my eight and current one where I am super conflicted. She lives in a town 2 hours away (so 4 hours driving roundtrip), which I do not visit for business, so it's been very difficult finding excuses to get out and see her. So far, we've had 4 lunch dates for a couple of hours where I've basically skipped out of work (I work from home so it's doable), and they have been fun. One time we went shopping at the mall, bought her some Victoria Secret stuff. One time we went to the casino and a nice walk along the river. We also text via KIK pretty much daily. But she's one of those "I want to take it slow" girls, so other than some light kissing there has been no more action for about a month. In the meantime, I've probably spent over $1200 on this girl, including helping to pay for a lawyer for a domestic case, lunches, gambling money and in gasoline. I really care for her - which is probably my first mistake here - and she's young and very pretty, but I can't escape the feeling I'm being rinsed. I know you're all thinking I'm a fool and am being rinsed. As I'm writing down these thoughts, it's becoming more clear. So far, she has not held up her end of the bargain - at all. We may have lunch tomorrow, and if so, I am going to just be straight with her, and it will probably end. There are just too many fish in the SA sea to try to make something difficult work. So it's been a mixed bag. But I do think my perspective on SA has changed. Originally, I wanted to find girls during business travel, and I've had success doing that. It's super easy. Most SA girls will also see somebody for a night if the price is right. But it's just as easy to find an escort or take a stripper back to hotel, and that is cheaper. Now, I kind of want to find a local girl I can see regularly on the side, have lunches where I don't need to drive 4 hours roundtrip, and have an amazing sexual experience. After all, that's why we do this, right???? 8 girls and really only one where the intimacy was very good (not amazing), and that is a low success ratio based on what I read on sugar forums online. I need to find one of these real sexual girls I keep hearing so much about!!!

21. I went 1 for 2 that night. Ended up being my only time with this chick. Yes, I was a late bloomer, that's what growing up in Utah will do for ya ....

21. I remember it well, as it was only my second time (so my first time was a "one and done") and this girl cried after. We did date another 8 months!

This is very region/city dependent. In Atlanta to Follies, I may bring $400 and be totally happy for the evening. Vegas I won't go with less than $1000, and it's such low mileage I wonder why I even bother. But normal average probably around $500 bucks.

Is this for real??? I was lost after 2 run-on sentences.... If it is, my advice is for you to call Dr. Laura.

Correction: I had Tennessee - Cincinnati, with Cincy winning that game. I had Cincy all the way to final 4, so that will hurt for a bit.

ESPN bracket, 93% tile, which is probably like number one million or so LOL, 410 points. The good news is I have a chance to get 7 in the Elite 8, depending on the sweet 16 games, so looking not too bad. The only game I have no shot is Loyola - Nevada. I had UVA - Cincinnati. Damn Cincinnati, how could you possible lose that game??? Also, I have Michigan to win it all. After the big 10 tournament I thought they would continue their run. They barely squeeked by the last 2 games, so my confidence that I have the winner right is low right now. But ... you never know, only 4 more wins.

I can say no here, but of course, in the heat of the moment, probably yes. So far, I've only done on girl bareback which was a SA hottie, on our first date, and we were both stupidly unprepared. "You have protection?" "Nope, you" "Nope" .... "Well I'm clean are you" "Yes I am too", and that was all it took. I am not always prepared because I'm not doing that again, it is a step beyond my risk tolerance.

JS69, you are correct sir with your last comment. Now if we only could see pics. of those 2 Russian hookers peeing on him in his hotel in Russia, my bet is they're going to be a lot better looking. Oh, allegedly at his hotel of course ....

Nope, but for a different reason than she's "washed up" or "has been" or "too expensive" or anything like that. She is still pretty good looking to be honest for a MILF type. The reason is what could I possible give her that 100's if not 1000's of guys haven't already? With no emotional connection at all, my very average member would barely register, and if she's not getting off, it'll just be a finish you as quick as I can type of deal ... for $1000+ Hence my no.

Louisville sucks, but you can drive to Lexington which is good. Agree with Cincinnati, nothing going on there. I wouldn't say Vegas is worst for clubbing (hot girls everywhere), but as has been said, absolutely horrible for value.

Agree with Palomino's. SA would work well, but likely expensive in Vegas? And as has been mentioned, any strip hotel bar after midnight and you can find anything you want. Quality (and price) goes up as hotel quality goes up (ie. Wynn, Encore, Bellagio, Cosmopolitan). The chandelier bar at the Cosmopolitan is my favorite. Also had decent picks and inexpensive for Vegas terms at MGM grand and Caesar's.

Cincinnati would also have been my pick, though you have "clubs" right across the river in Northern Kentucky. But nothing in Cincinnati proper.

Depending on where you are in LA, you may want to consider TJ's Showgirls in Stanton. Nice girls and extras can be had with the right ones. But if you want a "sure thing", then as has been said, go to COI or Tropical Lei. I also really like Bare Elegance by the airport. Beautiful girls, all nude, but expensive. Here also - with the right girl - extra's are on the table. Still the only place where a girl told me "I've never fucked a pilot", and then said she would for $1000 dollars. Euhh ... how about a "no"?

As has already been said, the answer is "yes" you need a premium membership. I let mine expire just to see what happens and could no longer see my active conversations. What many do is get on for a month, find as many girls as possible, and collect phone numbers. Then continue conversations and make arrangements via text. I have yet to find a girl that didn't want to move to texting vs. using the site, and it's free for them. They just love to text!

This seems largely dependent on where you are seeking your arrangements. I tend to find these dates in bigger cities and have been paying between $400-500 per meet. Plus dinner (and man, these girls have expensive taste), so it's not cheap. I have met 6 girls in the last 2 months - all in different cities - and ended up in bed with 5 of them, so it's worth it. And these were all girls I was attracted to from their pictures, and they ended up looking like the pics, and they were all super nice as well. A couple were models. All of them want to see me again, but I'm not sure about a few. Two of them I cannot wait to meet again ;-)

Rustic Frog in New Albany, IN (10 minutes from Louisville), or the 1 hour drive to Lexington to Cowboys or Diva's.

Yeah, true, but the HIV RNA test can be conclusive after about 10 days. It's a bit more expensive as it actually determines if the virus is present vs. the antibody test which is standard, but it can take up to 3 months to develop antibodies. So I guess not quite immediate, but I waited about 12 days for this one event. Totally agree retesting at 3 months is necessary just to be totally safe though.

Couple of times a year, or immediately if a high risk event. High risk = no protection vaginal or anal intercourse; has only happened once. Other than that, everything else is relatively low risk. I think if you're married, this just seems like the right thing to do, no?

Papi - I've been pretty lucky actually in these cities. I only contacted about 4 in the first city, and had setup dates with two. Well, three actually so I had to let one go as she was a backup. Contacted 3 in the other city, and had the date with the one setup in advance, and no backup because I was 99% certain she'd show up. But I know I got pretty lucky with those numbers. There are other cities where I've contacted more girls with less success. Note that these 2 cities are big, and literally thousands of SB's are on the site in each. So yeah, it can take up hours of your time if you let it ...

Great advice thank you!

Nope. I like the natural "girl next door" look ... and this is the total opposite of that. So my personal rating is a 6.

*lost me at Fergie

They kist me at Fergie ... who the hell thought that was a good idea????? She should fire her whole team.