Positive SA experience

9 comments

• shailynn

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  6 years ago

  if you paid $25 or less for this meeting please let Juice know, he'd like her number as well.
• abqspencer

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  6 years ago

  LOL!
• joc13

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  6 years ago

  It is girls like that which are going to get SA shutdown just like Craigslist or Backpage. It's not supposed to be an escort site (And I wouldn't even call her an escort. Good escorts would be appalled by what she did.) I started using SA over a year ago. My current SB and I have been together 7 months now.
• abqspencer

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  6 years ago

  Agreed to a point joc...right after she mentioned something I told her to text me. Keep the discussion off of there.
• Subraman

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  6 years ago

  abq, good that you had a great experience! Although as per some previous threads, sending me her entire DL would set off alarm bells, and meeting at her place is a complete non-starter. Evidently I have a different risk tolerance than many of you here -- I sometimes wonder if any of you ever read the news LOL I've always been fine with people using SA as an alternative to backpage, but do agree that the risk of shutdown now looms large over this type of behavior. Still, so many people on SA are doing it, there's no use arguing against it. I do wonder though -- if you're fine using SA to get escorts, were you also using backpage to get escorts previous to this? In many cases it's the exact same girls, the girls with escort-like models are not "sugarbabies" in any sense. If you enjoyed this experience and weren't using backpage the past few years, you've been missing out
• TonyT2

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  6 years ago

  I’ve received more ppm offers on SA than inquires about Sugar relationship. The offers for ppm seem like a different lot than those on backpage like sites. I think most Men in SA must expect sex on the first date and the women are just meeting expectations. However, I’m still a newbie and that is just my hypothesis. I’m not interested in PPM (anymore), but if I was at a strip club all night and had that offer I’d likely have made the same decision you did.
• joc13

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  6 years ago

  The problem is that SDs that _are_ in long term SRs aren't on SA very much (like me), so the prevailing behavior that gets seen is the "I've saved up $500 let's see if I can get an all night fuck date" (aka "The Juicebox Technique") guys. But, even for the "legit" SDs, ppm has become the prevalent way to at least _start_ a SR, since there are so many reports of scammers and rinsers on the SB side.
• Subraman

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  6 years ago

  Tony, to confirm what joc said -- ppm is just how often you pay (per meet, vs weekly, vs monthly). Arrangement vs escort-like is how you interact. You can mix and match, and exactly as joc said, nearly everyone starts an arrangement as pay-per-meet... after they're sure they know they want to make the arrangement longer-term, then sometimes it goes to weekly or monthly instead, sometimes not. But overall, pay-per-meet is the overwhelmingly most-common payment model, regardless of whether it's an arrangement or an escort on SA. The tip-offs for me on SA-escorts is that she's in a hurry to meet (usually "tonight") with little or no messaging first, she doesn't necessarily want to meet for drinks first to even see who it is she's meeting, etc.
• SteveSutton

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  6 years ago

  I added some detailed comments to another SA thread. Mixed bag so far. But better than escorts where I'm 0/4 with none matching pics. At least for my SA girls, 7/8 matched the pics and description. If I can't find a nice local SA girl soon, I'm giving up on this and going back to strippers OTC which has never been an issue, and is cheaper.