I gave up on S/A
THE CHAINDOG
Massachusetts
I signed up 4 times, once only once did I get my full month. 3 times I got suspended for no reason. 89 .99 x 3 is just about 300 bucks for nothing. I did meet 3 girls, 2 were fun, one robbed me. Live and learn.
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OP... where are you located?
On the other hand I think you need to approach SA the way women do about dancing at the club.....yes you can hit a bd night or nights but it only takes one guy who is willing to spend ( or in this case a SB willing to meet up and be what you are looking for) to make it worth your time and money.
Don't get me wrong, you'll find few places easier than Boston to hit the bars and find a piece of ass for the night, but in their minds they are only whores if they are paid for it. I have no doubt that these inconsistencies in thought processes make SA in MA a confusing place to operate. Knowing the culture the way I do, you likely need to bend over backwards to show the girls that you don't think of them as whores, even though they ultimately take money and fuck.
I've been doing it for 2 months, I've interviewed 6 girls, "auditioned" 4, 2 of whom I've continued to see. The sex in each instance has been far better than any other commercial sexual experience I've had. The most obvious reason for this is that the girls I've met all have another source of income, so they can afford to be lower-volume than all but the most expensive pros. As a result, they still respond to getting fucked like normal women, not in the detached, shell-shocked manner of an equivalently priced ($300-500) escort.
Also, in the best cases SA allows a more natural male-female dynamic than is usually possible in other parts of the sex industry, by facilitating a narrative that women find sexy rather than disgusting. "I have an arrangement with a successful, generous man," is a much sexier story line for a woman than, "I'm a prostitute/escort/stripper who allows losers who have to pay for sex to use my body," even if, in reality, both are describing the same thing (man & woman meet, he fucks her in a hotel room, she goes home with a few hundred more dollars than she had before). Because "successful" for them is like "hot" for us. When it works (which is admittedly infrequent, I sent initial messages to ~200 girls to get 2 regulars I really like) SA relationships can break the cycle of mutual contempt epitomized by the worst of SW v. TUSCL.
SA won't tell you why you were suspended. Somebody reported him for some reason or other, and/or whatever fraud protection software they're using keeps getting triggered.
I *do* discuss sex and money via the SA messaging system -- although since FOSTA have admittedly gotten more subtle about it and like you have increasingly been moving it to text instead -- and I've been suspended 0 times. If I'd been suspended multiple times, I'd be really closely looking at my behavior.
Ouch! Sorry about that! I have to admit I'm surprised a tuscler could get rinsed like that. I understand a regular shmo getting taken for a ride, but most tusclers are battle-hardened through stripper skirmishes -- hell, most of the guys here refuse to pay $20 in advance for a lapdance, much less thousands in advance...
Second I am looking to set a meeting, nothing more, nothing less from an initial site contact. You'll see a lot of women complain about guys wanting to waste time going back and forth.....from my own experience it is the other way around.
I've never been suspended in the five plus years I have been on ( off and on)
As for getting fleeced. I've been dinged once but it was an odd set of circumstances and the amount was in the hundreds, not the thousands.
Haha, yeah I was skeptical, too, but then I tried it and I'm really glad that I did. Hat tip to RandomMember for finally convincing me.
Read justaguy79's comments above, they are exactly accurate. Once you try it a few times you'll see what he means. I don't know about the rest of you guys, but I have about as much luck getting a stripper wet and turned on as I would building a rocket to go to the fucking moon. But SA girls actually *enjoy* this stuff. They cum buckets. Some of them even squirt. And several of them are already offering to fuck me for free, basically on demand. It's been a while since my membership expired and I'm *still* getting texts from girls I've all but forgotten about. Seriously, just try it once. All you have to lose is $90. Better than a stripper AND better than a girlfriend. (But don't be too explicit in your messages or else your account will be banned, like the OP. I know a few girls who've been banned for explicit language, too.)
Took me 9 months and 4 tries to find right SR, but it's been worth it. Going strong almost a year. I'm more open to different body types than most of the guys here, so I found someone who is happy with me and my body type, so she's not just having sex with me for the money. She likes women, too, so I still get the occasional variety when we go to SCs, invite a 3rd to join us, or go to a swingers club.
So, set your expectations appropriately, and you might be surprised with what you are able to "arrange".
The only reason she was on the site had to do with student loans. She moved otherwise it would have gone on longer.
Second girl was a young red head from a nearby college. Also her last semester in school. ( it took her an extra half year to finish school so she needed money) Agan I couldn't ask for a better match. Her sex drive was incredible. Not once with either of these two did they ever ask for extra money or have a timer/clock. It was a flat rate for as long as I wanted to stay.
After the first two I was sold on the concept and have been using the site ever since.
This is the case with any girl working at a strip club you will always get better service if you treat them like what they are, regular women willing to have sex to have money to make ends meet or regular women who are greedy/matierialistic because theyve never had anything before.
I once had a girl have sex for a jacket from Macy's, her WHOLE 24 life she had only ever shopped at Foreman mills and other stores like that. It was only $90, If you can start attaching the money to items women get emotional because no one has EVER bought them anything like that before *some women, not all*
Check out one of the shakedown sites like Home wreckers or whatever that BS site calls itself . Half the women they have listed on there are ones they found on SA.