sex session /OTC/fun night @ strip club =@ a least $100-150 a night. -1002 (for twice a month)= $200.00 200.00 12(twelve months)= at least $2,000.00
..but notice i was being frugal in my calculations, so 2k is the bare minimum IF I AM correct. well i guess when you have graduated from college, 2,000 honestly isn't TOO much to spend for leisure once a yr lol.
Well, 200 * 12 months = $2400. And $100 is not going to get you much. I would suggest $500 X 2 = $1000/mth X 12 = $12000 a year. And twice a month is not enough. Lets go with 4 times a month. $500 X 4 X 12 = $24000 a year.
How are you guys not broke? Who says we're not?
Discretionary income comes last and I do account for what I am going to spend be it in the club or outside of it.
I don't rob Paul to pay Peter....(seems better to say it in reverse order in this case)
Except for joc13 since he makes $350k
i plan to make around 100k when i am done with school. i am not assuming you guys are poor bc i dont think y'all are...but idk it sounds like a lot to spend on "girls" , that is all. but considering such expenditures are analogous to what others spend on other forms of leisure such as vacationing, etc..it doesn't seem like a big deal to me anymore. lol. just a little bit interesting but not too much :p
Most of us are trust fund brats.
If a guy is not spending that much on you, he probably does not love you.
Twenty percent of American households earn over $100,000. Ten percent earn over $150,000. Five percent earn over $200,000.
So, there are 5M-10M men in America who earn serious money. That, right there, is every stripper’s target demographic.
...i know that very well @mark, in the same way i know so many other things abt this industry. but this does not take away from the fact that there are men who earn nowhere near that salary, dont even make 6 figures (make 60-70 k) ..who spend a similar amt of money. i am speaking to that demographic..i am sure there are one or two of y'all in the latter demographic of this comment.
^We got rid of those broke asshats a long time ago. ;)
If there are guys who make $60,000 per year ( before tax) but spend $20,000 on strippers, etc., they can’t do that for long. Months, but not years. It’s a financial impossibility.
More likely, these are young guys who make a big show of spending money in the club ( making it rain with singles ) but seldom have a $300 night.
Or, these are guys who have 1 or 2 big nights, then disappear from the club scene for long periods of time.
It's terrible how much I spend at strip clubs, about $300 whenever I go out. I'd rather go out to dinner and get a room.
$350k club, the median income of all TUSCL members. JS69 and Juice always fuck up the median though, but things could change with Juices poker gains.
The trick is to develop relationships with your favs and turn them into GFs. Then you pay her with her money.
You are actually hitting on a motivation to work hard. I am enjoying life a LOT more now than I did 10 years ago. Why ? I make a lot more money now. The people that say that money doesn't buy happiness have never had any. This is an expensive habit.
You know it doesn’t really matter. I know guys who drive brand new Mercedes, live in $500,000 houses but are “broke” because they are stretched so thin. I call that “one missed paycheck from chaos.” Then you read about some librarian who never even owned a car leaving a 20 millions dollars trust.
Look at LecherousMonk, he lives at home and spends on his income on strippers. Strippers probably think he’s a baller. I bet he doesn’t tell them he’s paying them with his lawn mowing money.
Majority of these hardcore patrons are old and/or retired. They've done everything except flirt with women half their age. When you're house is paid for I guess.
TwentyFive has Plenty of Disposable. It says so on his car's license plates.
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For the past nine years I’ve been spending an average of $25 to $30k per year on strippers. I overspent for a few years and got in credit card trouble but have resolved 90% of that through more frugal spending and having my ATF move in with me. I hit her up for $250 the other day after she had seen a “customer” who had paid her $400 for 30 minutes. She shook her head and said “ You’re the only customer who I pay”.
It's not about how much you spend, it's about how much you save. Somebody making 250k but d/t 900k home, multiple cars, travelling, child support, etc could have disposable income equal to someone making 60k living with roommates, bikes/buses around etc with a same disposable amount.
I only spend money I earn from selling my blood.
i’m retired and on check to check now after having experienced las vegas in a BIG way... wiped out my savings and my ex takes my pension check... so silly...
@rick are still able to get hot tail with the portable iv drip?
Gawker has now reached the ultimate goal. He's become a stripper's boyfriend.
gotta be the oldest stripper boyfriend ever. (i’m jealous.)
Someone made a comment about a $500,000 house, like that was a lot of money. I take it you must not live in California, in Los Angeles the median price of a house is nearly $550k, I line in a $650k house and it's pretty average.
The more I work, the less time I have to actually go clubbing. So it seems like I might only go once a month, sometimes twice but that's rare. So I just spend more money on that one visit and have a really good blow out couple hours.
Masturbation saves me a ton of money.
It’s really easy to overspend on vices, whether its sex, gambling, drugs or alcohol. Undisciplined spending on other stuff can be a problem too.
It’s good to understand what you really want from sex workers and spend moderately and consistently to get it. The best value I’ve experienced is with a time-generous SB, on a economical monthly stipend.
If you follow Mary Jane’s vibrator idea, it could save you a bunch of money at strip clubs.
"I spent half my money on gambling, alcohol and wild women. The other half I wasted."
Well said Woodstock! Remove the gambling - and that’s my view.
My money tree is in full bloom !
500 K is not a lot of house in LA, SF, or SJ ( California) but it doesn't go all that far in NYC or DC either.
Many of us older guys bought homes years ago when property was more reasonable --I had my mortgage burning party last year. My home is easily worth 3 times what the original purchase price was back in the late 80's.
I'm lucky enough that my budget is well above $2K a year. Both my wife and I have a "hobby" line in our joint budget, but that doesn't fully cover my hobby expenses. So I supplement it with a portion of my annual bonus, and I trickle $250 per paycheck into an account only I have access to. And somebody earlier said it's about saving, I couldn't agree more. We max out 401K's, and our budget always has 20% savings of our net income as baseline. But I've spent enough that I sometimes wonder if it's worth it - especially considering over the last 5 years, I could have bought a nice RV by now, or a cheap used Ferrari - but I tell myself not to think about it that way. Hobbies cost money, this one as we all know is an expensive one.
I got money for days. I a rich mofo drivi g a shit truck and no you can't have half
I know Nicole is jealous. She wants half the shit truck
“how are u[sic] guys not broke lol”
Because we’re not stupid and we understand how money works maybe?
lol
I think we aren’t broke because most of us are older. Many of us have been in careers for a long time - and we’ve seen the benefits of forced savings accumulate (along with dollar cost averaging, reinvestment of dividends, and several market up cycles).
I’ve spent over $35,000 on strippers in certain years. Those years were high business volume years - when my bank carried a great debt rating - and interest rates were advantageous to certain investments.
The markets changed a bit after the mess involving bank bailouts. Lending is strong - but there were other changes that influenced how we leverage our assets - so it’s a bit more competitive now - and some bonuses aren’t as big as they once were.
Just started mongering last year and plan to spend about $3,000 a year on it, which covers two annual trips to Tijuana (air, hotel, food, pussy), which is about the extent of my mongering, until I can access my retirement funds in six years. At that time, my house will be paid off, I will pay off my kids' college loans in full and won't have any debt, while hopefully continuing to work full-time. I anticipate my savings will be in seven figures and I might not even need to dip into it to monger if I continue working full-time. That's when I'll increase the mongering budget to at least 10k, maybe twice that. Couple trips to TJ, an annual FKK excursion to Germany.Might even get into SA on a limited basis. I want to enjoy life again after 10 years of absolute hell due to my break-up. But I'm also going to be smart about it. My main priority in life is to leave a huge inheritance to my kids, so they know how much their dad loved them. And then I can die happy and in peace.
Responding to the subject question:
@nicole1994 posted: "sex session /OTC/fun night ... i know that very well @mark ... but this does not take away from the fact that there are men who earn nowhere near that salary, dont even make 6 figures (make 60-70 k) ..who spend a similar amt of money. i am speaking to that demographic..i am sure there are one or two of y'all in the latter demographic of this comment."
I'm one of those guys right in that range, closer to 60 than 70. Sole breadwinner. Like a lot of guys like myself, we make it work by going not very often (once or twice a year) or my sticking to modest budgets, like under $100 visit. At that budget, no, we aren't buying sex. But we're OK with that. Really we are OK with it. Usually the guys getting something on the side either see escorts or just fuck someone from the workplace for free.
Nicole1994 - they have something you are unfamiliar with. It's called a JOB.
LOL
Either a JOB or they WORKED in their adult lives and can live off their retirement benefits instead of being a jobless bum who has only completed 2 semesters of college by age 23 but still refuses to get a job like you. Lol.
Aw, my little shadow txttyfag. Always following me around making me feel important. :)
For the record, while I'm pro-choice I personally never want to get an abortion and never have. Yay for safe sex.
Damn....Nina I think my heart just skipped a beat..........but yeah.....started working when I was 15 ( one year before it was technically allowed back in the days of the caveman) and went to school.
46 freaking years!
I hope it paid off and you get to club to your heart's desire. :)
@Warrenboy75 posted: "Many of us older guys bought homes years ago when property was more reasonable. My home is easily worth 3 times what the original purchase price was back in the late 80's."
Wait, your home prices went UP?!? Based on recent sales my home is down 40% of the original purchase priced from mid '00s, lol!
we all make $350k/year and up