Dancer Pricing
jerikson40
New York
In recent threads discussing dance/VIP prices with a dancer who seemed convinced her time was worth $30 to $40 for a lapdance, it got me thinking. What are reasonable lapdance prices?
Well, first thing you want to consider is federal and state minimum wage laws. Right now, minimum wage generally averages around $8 per hour. Some are $7, some are over $9, but let's use $8 for talking.
This means that for generally unskilled labor, with little training or education, you pay them at least $8 for every hour they work. As people become more valuable, by having additional skills or training, their worth goes up and so does their pay. Generally...
So lets' look at strippers. What skills and abilities do they need to possess? Well, the primary criteria for being a stripper are that you look halfway decent, and you are willing to dance in skimpy outfits in front of men. That's about it. No high school diploma, no special skills or abilities, no education or training requirements. Basically as unskilled and untrained as you can get. And as we've seen, you don't even have to know how to dance. But if you're unattractive, you probably won't get a job as a stripper. It's all about looks.
So we can start by assuming stripping is a no-skill job, and at minimum wage rates of $8 per hour, each minute of the strippers time should be worth about 13 cents. Let's say 15 cents per minute just to round it off.
So a 3 minute lap dance should cost about 45 cents, based on an unskilled job at standard minimum wage rates.
However, some people are willing to pay upwards of $40 for those same 3 minutes. That is 90 times the minimum wage. And a 30 minute VIP at, say, $400 is 100 times the minimum wage.
Hmm....interesting. And keep in mind, these are prices that don't necessarily involve what many/most of those men really want, which is some sort of sexual activity.
So where do women get this idea that they have golden pussies which deserve these outrageous wages? Simple. It's because men are stupid, especially when an attractive woman is standing in front of them. Women, who generally consider themselves as princesses, and the holders of the world's precious wonders, can get away with acting like they're possessors of golden pussies because stupid men fall for it.
So guys, next time you pay a dancer 90 times the reasonable rate for a few minutes of a stripper's time, ask yourself if you feel kinda stupid.
Well, first thing you want to consider is federal and state minimum wage laws. Right now, minimum wage generally averages around $8 per hour. Some are $7, some are over $9, but let's use $8 for talking.
This means that for generally unskilled labor, with little training or education, you pay them at least $8 for every hour they work. As people become more valuable, by having additional skills or training, their worth goes up and so does their pay. Generally...
So lets' look at strippers. What skills and abilities do they need to possess? Well, the primary criteria for being a stripper are that you look halfway decent, and you are willing to dance in skimpy outfits in front of men. That's about it. No high school diploma, no special skills or abilities, no education or training requirements. Basically as unskilled and untrained as you can get. And as we've seen, you don't even have to know how to dance. But if you're unattractive, you probably won't get a job as a stripper. It's all about looks.
So we can start by assuming stripping is a no-skill job, and at minimum wage rates of $8 per hour, each minute of the strippers time should be worth about 13 cents. Let's say 15 cents per minute just to round it off.
So a 3 minute lap dance should cost about 45 cents, based on an unskilled job at standard minimum wage rates.
However, some people are willing to pay upwards of $40 for those same 3 minutes. That is 90 times the minimum wage. And a 30 minute VIP at, say, $400 is 100 times the minimum wage.
Hmm....interesting. And keep in mind, these are prices that don't necessarily involve what many/most of those men really want, which is some sort of sexual activity.
So where do women get this idea that they have golden pussies which deserve these outrageous wages? Simple. It's because men are stupid, especially when an attractive woman is standing in front of them. Women, who generally consider themselves as princesses, and the holders of the world's precious wonders, can get away with acting like they're possessors of golden pussies because stupid men fall for it.
So guys, next time you pay a dancer 90 times the reasonable rate for a few minutes of a stripper's time, ask yourself if you feel kinda stupid.
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IMO $20 per is a fair price, and I'd even say $25 per is fair in larger metro areas where cost of living is higher. But 30-40 per should be the death of a club.
Of course no stripper would work for 45 cents a minute when she's not assured of getting her $8 for that hour unless she's constantly doing dances. It's not assured money, and depends upon what customers want. However, I'm talking in a RELATIVE way, and addressing the mindless stupidity of many guys who brag about how much they unload their wallets to some dumb stripper.
Somewhere in between 45 cents and $40 is far more reasonable. $40 is fucking insane for 3 minutes of work. But instead of mindlessly handing over big cash like that solely because the girl looks good is ridiculous. Guys should take control of the situation, and only pay girls a reasonable amount, and only to those who perform. Don't allow dancers to sit on their butts with their cellphones, or spend endless hours in the dressing room, or give them reason to sit on their asses and do nothing while some moron shovels money into their purses solely because he wants their company. Pay for performance.
A hard working dancer who gets $5 for a 3 minute lapdance only has to do two dances in an hour to make minimum wage. No skill, no training, just work 6 minutes out of an hour and you're doing the same as some girl working at McDonalds. Easy money.
And then the club has to get it's cut, so figure that into the equation. Seems to me like somewhere between $5-10 per lap dance is a good way to encourage a little (though not much) hard work while still giving dancers a reasonably lucrative job.
Thanks, Pop.
But there are far too many guys out there who fall for whatever whims the dancers have and are willing to pay huge sums just cuz they're so awestruck that a pretty girl will talk to them. Until the culture of the club customers changes, and we stop frequenting clubs with outrageous lapdance and VIP prices, nothing will change. It's not up to me, it's up to you guys. I already don't frequent clubs with expensive lap dances. How about you?
Ahhh, okay. It's the way things are so play along, right? Good one Mikey.
As for myself I could probably afford to spend more than I do but I don't believe in spoiling them. I have my price limits and I stick to them regardless of when or where I am.
I travel a bit.
Northern states dances are $30-$50.
Southern states - $10-$20
Me thinks $20 is fair price.
Dancers work their butts off. Most deserve about 25 dances or $500 each shift
Of all the gentleman pastimes - golf, NFL, MLB, NBA, Vegas, Formula 1 - visiting a dance club packs the most bang for the buck. Good for heart too.
3 dances per stage times 3 stages. Every couple of hours.
Hot ones giving 10 high energy lap dances an hour.
That's why I stopped givin shoulder rubs to girls who sit on my lap.
They fall asleep.
But I assume that most strippers have, or develop, ways to cope, and put emotional walls between themselves and their customers, so how difficult it really is to them is anyone's guess. But yeah, no fucking way I'd do it.
And I have to disagree about strippers not needing any skills. Sure, some of them don't -- the ones just starting out and those who just refuse to learn -- but the good ones do develop skills and, with that, confidence. They're the ones who can make eye contact with you from the stage and get you to tip them there or get you to buy some lap dances; they're the ones who can sit with the most boring guy and make him feel like the most interesting person she's ever talked to; they're the ones who can (legitimately) own the stage and get most every guy in the place to watch her instead of the dancer sitting with him.
Yes, there are some serious skills needed for dancing; they just can't be learned in a classroom, and not every woman will be able to acquire or build them.
As for their pay versus that of a guy's, intellectually, when a dancer (particularly one I've never met) approaches me for a dance, I stop to think about it: $20 for five minutes or $20 toward gas, groceries, maybe a two-hour movie (with change). Then the libido kicks in and that nano-second of thinking goes to shit.
The fact is that in order to get a job as a stripper they need no skills. Period.
If they DO have some skills, or learn them, that probably can help them do a better job. But a totally skill-less stripper can still be hired and decent money and be successful at her job if she's merely somewhat attractive. The only skill you need on your resume to get a job as a stripper is being somewhat attractive.
jerikson40 dude -- it seems to me there is a simple solution. Offer a stripper exactly what you think her time is worth and not a penny more. See where that gets you.
There are PhD's in literature making shit teaching as adjuncts at 2-year colleges. Highly trained, but trained in a skill few are willing to pay much for. Nobody hands over $40 and says "tell me as much as you can about 'Madam Bovary' in the next three minutes".
It takes no training to wave your tits in a dude's face, but dudes are willing to pay $40 for it. And if you only want to pay $5, well...no boobs for you!
And seriously, stripping is degrading work. It may not be skilled labor, but imagine Juice coming in and wanting to put his sausage fingers up your "asswhole". Imagine doing the calculus of "how much should I charge to let this dude put his sausage fingers in my anus?" Girl should get hazard pay for that shit.
#sausage.fingers
You guys give me a headache
You're a laugh riot jerikson40 dude. Where might I have inferred that you were saying strippers deserve little money because they lack training or education? Oh yes...
"This means that for generally unskilled labor, with little training or education, you pay them at least $8 for every hour they work. As people become more valuable, by having additional skills or training, their worth goes up and so does their pay. Generally..."
But I'm not trying to convince you of my point dude. No, I'm trying to reinforce your resolve to believe that stripper deserve on $0.45 per lap dance. I figure that if I criticize you you'll double down.
What I really want to see is cell phone video of what happens when you pay some stripper $0.55 for a groovy lapper.
(Note that I'm factoring in a 10 cent tip 'cos I know you're not cheap or anything)
Skills/education don't really matter.
You don't pay the doctor $100K for a heart bypass because he went to med school for 8 years, you pay him because you don't want to die.
You pay strippers $20-$40 a dance because there just aren't that many hot young women who want to grind there pussy and ass on some old keeper's cock they just met 5 minutes ago and let them suck on there titties. Education doesn't really matter, but a woman who know when to touch what and how to keep you buying more and more, knowing you'll never get what you want, is hardly inexpirienced.
If you don't want to pay, don't. I really encourage that, and it will drive prices done if everyone does.
While I might be willing to pay $40, I get awful selective. And if the first one isn't great, that's all. If they were $5, I'd be trying out everyone, couple songs each.
My own experience with a table dancing circuit in San Jose's Mexican Bars was that it was for $1 at a time. That amount of time might have been about 20 seconds. So because the dancers could initiate without getting any agreement or permission, it works out to about $180 per hour that they take in.
So if you have fed the dancer some money, you've usually gotten to paw her some, and gotten some tities in the face ( though with her specially selected top still on ). Very reasonable.
But you see, in a looser regulatory environment, that basic type of front room dance might include DFKing and lap sitting and FOV / FIV. Now sure, they might want the money to be bigger, like $5 at a time. But then after some of that, there might be the option of a VIP room visit, for FS.
If the girl is on your lap with you getting into heavy petting, she is worth the VIP room visit.
See, when you are feeding the girl money in small increments, you have more control, and she will likely go further with you to keep the money coming in! Also other people see all this, and that gets everyone going further faster.
I've written that there had been one of these Mexican places where it went all the way to FS, in the front room with very low lighting. Then this group of Latina sisters and cousins started bringing their own mini-van. This is how it can be when you've only got to grease the girl herself. This is how it should be!
But then of course they got busted. And LE was fully complicit, even bringing their own condoms.
And they just busted dancers. In San Francisco they were already calling the cops the Pussy Posse. Just busting dancers would have drawn moral outrage from all quarters. But in South Bay, no.
Actually they did also bust the owner. But they still prosecuted all. In San Francisco they would not have prosecuted dancers.
As it was, they printed the dancer's real names and ages in the news paper. Again, in San Francisco, the cops and the newspaper would have been ridiculed over this.
So after that, they went to per song dances. So it became $5 per song, no touching. See, per song lowers the intensity of the interaction. This is why they make it per song, so the dancer won't feel pressed to go further.
Then, as most of the dancers only stayed on site until they got an OTC, they had to raise the money to make the dancers stay. So they changed it to $20, and they also added raised platforms to keep the girls on, so they could comply with the 6' and 18" height rule.
Again see my point, per song charges and using special apparatus like booths, lower the mileage, lowers the intensity of the interaction, and makes the house get more money.
It also makes it harder for the dancers to get money because they are reduced to verbal approaches, "wanna dance", and they depend on getting an agreement.
Table dancing done right, is a wild affair, with girls doing who knows what, for small increments of money, and they don't even ask permission.
So I have never gone along with per song charges, or with booths. Only reason to partake would be just to flatter a dancer. Better to tip more when she is on stage, or just to press money into her hand to sit and talk.
Again, what it said on blackstripclubs.net, for many many places, is that the girls sit on your lap and get you to start making out with them. Maybe you tip them, maybe you don't. I think if you wanted to make it go on longer to get more time to talk you would tip them. But of course what follows then is FS in the big shared VIP room. One place didn't even have that, they would just retreat to couches in dark corners for FS.
As far as the selection process and preliminary fraternizing, SC's have the most potential. Both sides can stay non-committal. THe women are making something, but it is not too much.
SC's are better than AMPs, AAMPs, Escorts, Lingerie Modeling / Adult Entertainment, in this way. But this is lost with per song charges and booths.
Hey, you don't have to listen to me, listen to Jestrite50 with his 96 reviews covering many states!
https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=3…
The quality of the GFE-FS, more than anything else, depends on the initial courtship rituals. SC's offer a potential which exceeds any other venue. Big mistake to surrender this to booths and per song pricing.
I read in a travel book that in the Mexican clubs, when the see a dancer they like, the first thing they do is kiss her.
SJG
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First my logical skills are the shits. Lots of counter examples presented to my thesis that people should be paid by how much skills, training and education their jobs require. I would have thought for 20 second I should have seen that in the first place.
Second thing that was proven is how my ego is so inflated and how I have shot my mouth off so much in the past that I can't let go once it has been proven how wrong I am. That's just the kind of douche that I am!
#don'tpay900times more
Earlier in the evening I paid another stripper $50 for 3 songs. She was drunk, tipsy, and deaf ( I said I loved her breasts & she wanted a mint cuz she thought l loved her breath). She was dancing nude, climbed onto my head, and rubbed her twat back and forth on my stubble and said it turned her on and if I paid for another dance, she'd cum. I declined. Was it worth the $50? Not really. I won't agree to have a lap dance with her again.
Supply & demand.
LOL
You bring up this sh*t and you get flamed--of course--you bastard.
LOL
Well, unless my math was wrong, it is factually correct. And your problem is....???
"Seems to me like somewhere between $5-10 per lap dance is a good way to encourage a little (though not much) hard work while still giving dancers a reasonably lucrative job."
My present favorite club offers very high mileage lap dances for $10 each, with some decent or hot dancers. To me, that's reasonable, and it works great. Other clubs in the area, as well as many in the country offer similar pricing. Other clubs in the country offer even cheaper laps.
Paying $40 for a lap dance only happens because YOU allow it to. Other clubs have very hot dancers giving much cheaper lap dances for much less money AND high mileage. But if you want to pay $40 for a 3 minute dance, go ahead. But don't get pissed when some club decides "hey these douchebags will pay $40, so why not charge $50 !!".
Apparently some of you feel that "it is what it is, so deal with it". Fine. That's true of anything, but it's ridiculous and irrelevant. If you are incapable of discussing hypotheticals, then fine. And if you don't know what that word means, look it up.
A big part of why dancers earn what they do relates to what they must tolerate in their working environments and who they must provided services to. If doing this job did not present the possibility of earning a significant premium over other jobs available to girls with similar skill sets, then there would probably be far fewer strippers. Same holds true if there were fewer guys willing to pay those prices. Wait a minute, could we be talking about the laws of supply and demand?! LOL.
Jerikson, if the price for LDs is truly too high, then the market will self correct. It always does.
I think it’s against a woman’s nature to feel comfortable w/ a stranger feeling them up, or more – so there has to be a desirable amount of compensation in order to break that barrier.
There are certain jobs that pay well b/c of the nature of the job – i.e. oil rig workers or working in distant (e.g. Alaska) or dangerous areas (e.g. Africa).
Yeah - $40/dance is too steep and why there are few clubs that charge this to the best of my knowledge – and it seems clubs that charge this much do not get many buyers (from some reviews I’ve read).
I think $10 for a 3-minute grind is a good price point It appears to me that $10 clubs seem to be doing pretty well and have a good following – e.g. Follies; Inner Room – to my knowledge; these clubs don’t seem to have a shortage of dancers and dancers seem to be more consistently busy.
All customers dictate what they want, and what they are willing to pay for. If we didn't we would be paying for shit we don't want. In your twisted market analysis, you don't want to allow the customer to have a choice. I, on the other hand, feel it is imperative for customers to make their needs and desires knows so that service can improve. Companies spend untold millions or billions every year for market research to determine what customers want.
If you think that is communism, then you are mistaken. Hugely mistaken.
My point, which you refuse to see, is that we the customers set market prices by being intelligent, knowledgeable, and making our desires known. If you merely pay what the dancer requests, and have no rational basis for deciding what is a reasonable price, you are doing a disservice to the market. And if you are willing to accept dancers who don't perform, and refuse to speak out about it, again you are doing a disservice. And when you call those who would attempt to clarify the market as communists, you are again doing a disservice.
The fact is, $10 lap dances with hot dancers and high mileage do exist in many clubs. It seems to me that the average customer would prefer that to a $40, no-mileage lap dance. Am I wrong? Am I communist for suggesting that we as customers should support clubs who offer the lower priced high mileage laps?
I merely provided a reference point of information so you can see how lap dance prices compare with other labor rates in the US. Why does that get everyone's panties in a bunch? It's a fact, and without those facts customers have no reference point to judge prices, other than the standard "oh, that was worth it" BS that everyone responds with. I'm merely trying to get a common reference point that puts us all on equal footing.
Now I know this will be far too complicated for you, and you'll keep referring to me as a bolshevik or whatever, so fine.
What does everyone here do? They immediately respond with "Dude, you paid way to much. That was unreasonable"
That's exactly what I'm trying to do. Provide some rational thought on what's reasonable, for those who probably never considered it. If you don't agree, then fine. But at least provide some rational reasons that make some sense, instead of the "that's how it is, don't complain" BS that everyone here seems to favor.
You are the one showing a worse than a 6 y/o capacity for reason here, because of how inflated your ego is and how you've dug yourself in to never being wrong when discussing things with all us morons here by shooting your retarded mouth off so many times in the past.
Taking the law and demand example a step further, were two competing clubs offering drastically different LDs and one was much better and cheaper than the other, then you had better believe that market forces would take their natural course.
And in your last $500 VIP example, the reason that everyone would tell him that he paid too much is because he likely paid more than everyone else for the same thing, unless he was in a place like Manhattan. And if he was in an uber expensive location, then so be it. We may avoid a place like that, but none of us are going make an utterly stupid comparison of the rate structure to unskilled labor rates. We also understand that clubs in those locations likely cater to guys who can and do pay those rates, so if we want similar services we need to look elsewhere. Simple.
Remember also that we are all gifted with free will and that we are spending our discretionary dollars in strip clubs. We are all entitled to have buyer's remorse at any time but no naked stripper has ever been wriggling on my lap holding a gun to my head demanding extortionate fees for the lap dances.
And that's why a club down the street only charges $20 for lap dances. Because supply there is higher, and demand is lower. That's why. Yeah, that makes sense.
And that's why the club I frequent charges only $10 for a lap dance. Because they have a lot of dancers, a really big supply, and demand at that club is really low. So they're cheaper.
That's why prices in the clubs in the LA area vary so much, even for clubs nearby. Now I understand. Supply and demand. Thanks guys. Makes perfect sense !!!
First he sets up the dummy by comparing two jobs that are unrelated in pay scale, then tries to push the itemize the attributes of the dances by the skillset of another job.
Most absurb part is when he uses the dummy to swipe every PL in this forum with his grandiose snobbish (ghettoey thrashey) what-a-loser trick.
Rick, okay, now I understand. So the reason why guys will pay $40 for a lapdance is not necessarily supply and demand anymore, now it's competitive advantage. Good point. So what you're saying is if he's paying $40 for a lap dance, then it's because it's a nicer club in a nicer area or something like that. Oh okay. I understand.
I think you're right. Clubs decide how much to charge for lap dances based on a thorough analysis of their competitive advantage. For example, the club I go to has some decent to hot dancers that give crazy mileage, and it's in a nice area, but the club itself is only average. That's why they only charge $10 for lap dances. Average club. No fireplace or fancy decorations, and none of those guys in the restroom who hand you a towel. That shit is and important consideration to guys getting lapdances.
Thanks for clearing it up Rick. It's not about supply and demand, it's competitive advantage. Cool.
They first decide their business model. Will they attract the high end dork who is willing to pay thru the nose for some "perceived value", or will they attract a more average guy. Will they be the "Gucci" type strip club who charges exhorbitant prices because some guys are stupid enough to pay it for whatever reason, or will they go more for the average guy.
Then, they figure out what portion of their revenues will come from what services. Cover charges, lapdance percentages, drinks, etc. It's all part of a business model, a plan that they hope will maximize revenues. Maybe they figure they'll charge low prices for the lapdances, but make up for it with drink prices and volume of customers. Or they'll charge high prices, and rely on a smaller group of dimwits who get an ego boost from dropping big bucks in a strip club.
There's a club not far from my favorite $10 club that actually charges $50 for a standard lap dance. Yes, the girls are generally hotter, but 5 times hotter? No way. But just like "designer" stuff that women pay thru the nose for, some guys PERCEIVE that since it's more expensive it's worth it. And that's what the high end clubs hope will happen.
It's not about supply and demand, or competitive advantage, it's about making an overall business model and figuring out how to maximize profits. And how you'll get guys to pay more and more and more, even though what you're actually providing might not be very different from what they can get down the street for less. They rely on the fact that there is no uniform criteria for pricing lap dances, no union wages, no minimum wage, just what they can get away with and get guys to pay.
My only point is that we customers should be intelligent, and not like some woman who is willing to pay exhorbitant prices for designer shit solely because of an emotional excitement, when in fact what you're paying for is no different from what you can get down the street for much less.
Now it is your prerogative to believe that you are smarter than every customer who visits a high end club, but consider for a minute that at least some of them might be well aware of their other options, yet choose to go where they do because they find value in doing so.
Oh, and by the way boy blunder, the only way that one maximizes profits is to meet some demand, whatever than demand is. It could be convenience of location, or having the hottest girls, or exclusivity, or something else, but there has to be something that keeps money coming on the door or the club will close.
No, Rick. I'm merely suggesting that guys go into a club with a bit of knowledge in their back pockets, and consider they are entering one of the few business on the planet that really has no set wage scale or rules of compensation, so anything that provides a realistic perspective is a good thing.
Someone stops you on the street to sell you a Gucci watch (or whatever the high priced watches are), and quotes you an outrageous price, but since you want a Gucci watch you pay it. You feel good about it, and satisfied.
Then a couple blocks away some guy stops you and says "Hey, that guy was selling fake watches, dude. You have paid $12.50 for the same thing". Do you get pissed at that guy? No, you thank him for providing a realistic perspective one what it's really worth.
Unless you're on TUSCL.....
I club all over LA and the range of dance prices swings to the extreme. I love Bare Elegance, and they charge $51 for single nude dances after 7pm. Most everyone waits for the 2fer1's to soften the hit. But the girls truly are model quality - 8,9 & 10's. That's what I'm paying for. Then the following week I'll hit the COI or clubs like Rio for $10 nudes with 6,7's...maybe a rare 8. It's also demographics and a club knows what clientele base it wants to attract - The Bare caters to white collar business people & tourists, while the COI caters primarily to local blue collar labor. Nothing wrong with either one, of course. In the case of clubs like the Bare, you would never be able to collect enough disgruntled customers to change the pricing there - they've been there for many years and have built a pretty consistent client base who are all willing to pay more for what they interpret as higher quality women. Of course I would love to walk into the Bare one day to discover that dance prices are now $10 a piece - but I know that isn't gonna happen. So I either accept it for what it is (which I do), or I walk away and go elsewhere.
Incidentally, I recently had a stripper locked down for her entire shift and paid $10 per. In the end, she got $400 for her efforts. The only time she wasn't dancing for me was when she had to go on stage and when her or I needed to take a quick bio-break...
So, for an average shift with decent hustle, and no VIP, at $10 per song, a stripper can clear upwards of $400 per shift plus or minus a bit depending on how long she wants to make her shift. If she's a pro and works a reasonable schedule of 5 shifts a week, she can average roughly $2000 a week before payouts and tax. If she manages to work 50 weeks a year at that average, she can clear about $100K a year.
Not bad, but not really that great either considering the reality of having a $400 shift every shift is actually really difficult to do. The reality is that most strippers don't make anywhere near that. On average, most strippers go home with a couple hundred dollars on most days. They have good days, but most days are in the $100-$200 range, which is what drives them to do extras.
Being a stripper doesn't pay nearly as much as think it might.
I would have given my CF more money but I know she will always have bad nights.
Dancing and stripping is the life she chose, I wish she could do better but that's just the way it is.
There will be good nights when she can rake it in. And there will be bad nights, man she's just so upset when times are tight. It just makes me sad seeing her in that shitty situation.
I really wish she would just tell me she's quitting and I would gladly help her get out of the addiction to dance nude in front of men.
And I melt when I go see her in the club and see her with other dancers not getting any money. The DJ starts bitching about tips, frigging DJ starts annoying me.
Money can be easy for these girls, including my CF, but it is not raining money like they want it to.
So, alabegonz, I'm trying to understand the point you're trying to make. So you're saying I'm clueless because I don't understand that strippers have a tough life, so we shouldn't question what we pay and just empty our pockets because you feel bad for your CF and wish she'd stop stripping?
Ummmm.....okay.....
Is that, like, supply and demand or something?
Jerikson40 repeats for the umpteenth time: "No, Rick. I'm merely suggesting that guys go into a club with a bit of knowledge in their back pockets, and consider they are entering one of the few business on the planet that really has no set wage scale or rules of compensation, so anything that provides a realistic perspective is a good thing."
Rick, I realize you are a seasoned veteran of strip clubs, and are someone who shouldn't be questioned due to your vast knowledge and experience regarding all things strip club, but if you're argument has now boiled down to "we know better", after you've tried and failed with all the other pompous BS about supply and demand and competitive edge, then it's hard to really take you seriously.
And check this out - most guys who go to a strip club only do it casually, occasionally and their goal is not to pay hookers for sex, so they might care about things like music and stage shows and features. Each individual knows what's important to him the best and chooses what he is willing to pay based on that. Someone else saying he is getting ripped off, is overstepping the bounds of his knowledge.
Supply and demand.
(I also think RickyBoy may be hinting at an Hayekian type argument of why capitalism is superior to socialism. Guy's mind is totally stuck in the 80s before his failure in the corporate world - the cold war, evil empires, Gordon Gekko, Radio shack, etc.)