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9 years ago
It all depends where and with whom. Actually know a place where you can get FS and it's not really rushed (within reason, of course). Place is more of a whole in the wall go go bar with a back room, but fun place.
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9 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
just_the_nuts, thought about that but me was horny, not hungry
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9 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
I know. When she wasn't there by 9 I should have cut my losses and went back out. As hot as she was and open about her take out menu, most likely someone else got to enjoy her. I probably should have stayed at the club till her shift was over but I didn't.
Oh, and I've had it happen numerous time also, usually it's about only half the time they actually show, and I know it's better if you can go to their place, but she let me know it wasn't going to happen there (I think she had kids or something).
Oh well, live and learn.
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9 years ago
Sounds like to me he might have been a regular of hers. And although they didn't do a private dance, there may have been something set up for later.
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9 years ago
It all really depends. The biggest thing to remember is that it is a transaction based relationship, especially to her. Remember that even if she may feel a connection to you, to her you are a financial asset, first and foremost, and if a bigger fish should come along she would have no problem cutting you loose to spend time with him. To you, if she no longer is making you happy or if someone else should come along, you need to do what will make you the happiest. That being said, don't burn any bridges with her, for if down the road other things don't work out, it's always great to have a fall back.
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9 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
Southern girls like to party
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9 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
Meursault, freak means in this case pull my hair, smack my ass, choke me, put in my ass, cum on my face, etc., get the point, she was a freak in the sack.
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9 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
Platinum membership doesn't hurt, especially if your nice to them (most high frequency members are a-holes to the staff).
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9 years ago
Very nice, very nice! One of these days I've got to see you dance.
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9 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
Take out is available here lately, but not quality. Maybe it's just I'm getting older and pickier (when I was younger I wasn't all that picky), or maybe it's just the political climate up here making it hard on clubs and dancers (only about a third of the places there were about 10 years ago, and the ones that there are watch just about everything going on now), but just doesn't seem to be as much fun anymore.
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9 years ago
I've dated strippers before, and as we all know, some are fun and some are f'n nuts. The crazy ones are great in the sack, but IMO not worth the baggage. The normal ones want to date regular guys because they many times are looking for some stability in their lives.
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9 years ago
I hate going to a club, especially when I am kinda short on time, and the dancers are just sitting around. I'm here, cash in hand, wanting some company and entertainment. I'm sure that that guy who is always in there that never spends any money (the one they always bitch about) or whoever is on the other end of your phone will be there later when we are done. I especially hate it when I decide to leave (either because I need to leave due to time or just boredom) and now they want to come over and spend some time with me. Was recently at a little go go bar and sat there for almost an hour before any of them decided to even get up and dance, they just sat in the corner texting on their phones, even though there was maybe a dozen guys sitting at the bar. When I finally got to talk to one (as I was getting ready to leave) she was complaining that she had only made $6 so far and was thinking of going to a different club to work. I said to her that I had been sitting there for over an hour and would have loved to spent some time (and of coarse money) with her, but she never came over, and if she spent more time working and less on her phone she might do better. Didn't go over well.
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9 years ago
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san_jose_guymoney was invented for handing to women, but buying dances is a chump's game
Been there, done that, got the t-shirt, she took the t-shirt. Was once asked if I would get married again, my response is "Nope, made that mistake once, don't need to repeat it".
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9 years ago
Made the mistake a few years back of seeing just one backpage hooker instead of the regular variety I was use to doing. Did get intimate, to intimate, and that is not necessarily a good thing when dealing with a transaction based relationship.
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9 years ago
I grew up in northern PA along the New York State border in a semi-rural area. When I was a younger man, most of the "clubs" I would visit were road houses with go go dancers, not high class places, just nice little road houses. They were the kind of place that a young, pretty dancer would many times not be afraid to take a young man to a back room or a closet and show them a really good time for not a lot of money. It was all between consenting adults and no body really cared. Problem is, today, these places just don't hardly exist anymore, and more important, local social perception of such places have made them really expensive and very hard to get anything extra (everyone is afraid of getting busted). Clubs today where I live are either dirty nasty dives with nastier dancers, or high end places that you almost need to take out a second mortgage to visit. But when I do find a nice go go bar with girls with "low morals" and high mileage, those are the places I like to visit.
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9 years ago
I rarely buy them a drink, especially if it's my first time to a club (if I'm at one of my reg haunts it's different, but I offer first and have known most of them for years anyways). It's a quick way for a dancer to tell if it's going to be easy to bleed your wallet quickly. IME, usually a drink tells them that you will pay and pay and pay for little in return. I've usually gotten further by just tipping a little better (dollar dance or stage, give them 2 or three, $5 lappers (very popular in Akron), give $10 if she's good. You see the point, they then know why your spending your money and what for.
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9 years ago
I've been out of circulation for a while, what happened to Diva and is she in jail?
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9 years ago
Think with the big head and not the little one.
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9 years ago
Shaved
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9 years ago
In my face or on my dick
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9 years ago
A previous ATF (God rest her soul) for a couple of years made well over 6 figures (one year she had figured was about 300K), almost all in cash. She not only danced but also was a pretty popular and in demand escort. I knew her from in the early days and took pretty good care of her back then, and she always took care of me even when she was really making the bucks. Problem was most of it either went up her nose or was gambled away. from what I've seen, most (most, not all, but most) of these girls the more they make, the crazier (or stupider) they get in their spending. I think most of them don't ever think the good time will end, but when it does it does hard.
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9 years ago
Meth crash, too much X, list goes on and on. One of my college room mates had been in the Army and he learned to sleep standing up at attention with his eyes open (was actually really freaky).
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9 years ago
It's all about perception. Some want to make you think that they have no money and get free stuff from you, others want to bleed you dry and if they know you know they have some money your less likely just to throw money at them. When it comes down to it, it's how most do buisness, and as the old statement says "buyer beware".
Hate to say it, for I have fell before to the ploys of a stripper, but remember, they are not you girlfriend, they are not really even your friend, they are there to make money and most will do whatever it takes to do that (of coarse there are exceptions, but for the most part).
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9 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
metaldude, that's what they want us to think. LEO wasted hours and resources on the internet just so they know what's going on, they don't always act on it but don't let them kid you, they check
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9 years ago
Shadow, found out later my buddies had put her up to it. They knew how niave I was. Oh, by the way, never got the $40 bucks back.