Waiting for OTC to show up
impala
The People's Republic of Pennsylvania
How long has anyone waited for someone you set up some OTC action to show up before giving up and realizing there not going to show? Couple of weeks ago I was in a club in the afternoon and had a smokin' hot dancer that I was trying to get something going with, but unfortunately nothing was going to happen in the club (cameras everywhere). Talked to her quite a bit and thought I had talked her into some take out. It was about 4:30 and she said that her shift ended about 6, she needed to go home first and take care of some things, but would be over to my hotel around 8 or so, maybe a little later. 8 came and went, and so did 9 and 10. Tried to text her a couple of times but got no response. Wanted to go back out to anouther club but also hated the thought she might show up and I wouldn't be there. At 11 I decided to call it a loss and headed back out (with no luck that evening).
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Oh, and I've had it happen numerous time also, usually it's about only half the time they actually show, and I know it's better if you can go to their place, but she let me know it wasn't going to happen there (I think she had kids or something).
Oh well, live and learn.
A lot of these girls have complicated lives and often times kids and S.O.s to deal with – she also could have been tired by the time she got home and deiced not to go thru with it.
Dealing w/ strippers is def an inexact science and I've learned to not put all my eggs/hopes in one-basket – i.e. I won't invest too much (time, $$$, emotions) with any-one stripper especially one IDK know very-well or has SSed me in the past.
Some are just late but there should be communication as to an eta.
Except the first time when I was new to strip clubs it was usually a dancer asking me to meet up. I haven't met up with a dancer in years though. They all showed up within 30 minutes or so or I believe. The first meet up with a dancer I was late at least an hour. I was surprised she was still waiting. A storm knocked down a large tree across the only two lane road heading towards the town I needed to visit. The road crew took almost an hour to clear it. I thought maybe a higher power did not want me to meet her.
:)
As to your belief that you should have waited at the club until her shift was over, I suspect that it wouldn't have mattered. Either they are going to show up or not. In my book, even more pathetic than waiting for hours in a hotel room is hanging around a club for hours, like an expectant puppy, just to have a girl slip out the back door and go home.
My longest wait... I had a stripper who had a family birthday party to go to and said she would show up somewhere between 11pm and midnight. She didn't end up showing up until 4am. She would txt me every 30 minutes apologizing and assured me she was still coming. Finally at 1AM I said "just txt me when you're 30 minutes away." This girl had 100% attendance with our OTC meetings (which were over a dozen) but was always a minimum of 1 hour late... Very frustrating!!!
I think most strippers are 1 hour late. Sometimes you get one that owns a watch... Generally I would give someone 3 hours before giving up. Normal people I'd give 90 minutes, for strippers double that time cause they are always late.
My second OTC experience she was on time, got to the place before me. Although this one did somewhat stand me up the night before because she was suppose to hit me up after closing to meet. She did eventually hit me up to cancel, so in this case I waited an hour.
Just this past Wednesday a girl in Pittsburgh told me to text her when I got to town and we would go fuck. When I got to town I texted her and she never answered. I went straight to the club and picked up an amazing young lady with fantastic oral skills and had an excellent night. TWO DAYS LATER the other girl texts and says which Weds are you coming in. I said like 2 days ago where in the hell were you. She said well you didn't call. I said you said text; I texted and you didn't answer so I moved on. She was pissed but tough shit ya snooze ya lose. I deleted her and moved on.
As far as I’m concerned; if they do what they are supposed to do when they are with me; then I enjoy my time w/ them when I’m with them; if they blow me off (in the not good way) then I just take it as “pat of doing biz” and I go about my biz as usual hitting the club and having a good time.
I’ve had dancers not treat me right on a particular visit then blow my world in a subsequent visit – just the unpredictable nature of the beast IMO – if we want chicks that barely know us to fuck-us and blow-us; then these are not usually the “good girls” nor the “responsible girls”; again; that’s the nature of the beast
[not saying there are not dancers that will act accordingly; just saying we should not be surprised that many if not most don’t and IMO better to accept that and deal the hand that’s out there]
@Subraman, I didn't say that it was pure luck either. I'm sure that the increased comfort gained from getting to know you better helps (along with imminent cash needs), as I believe it does with my favorites.
But whether it is next week, next month or next year, a favorite will eventually flake. It may be because she burns out, or her drug addiction consumes her, or some other guy is offering her too much money to pass up, or she gets a boyfriend, or she just doesn't give a fuck that day, or for any other imaginable reason, but sooner or later it will happen. A young girl, who no doubt has a variety of issues to begin with, just doesn't get as "invested" in an old guy as he does in her. There is no customer loyalty program when dealing with a stripper. We are only as good as today's payment to her.