Cheap strippers
twentyfive
Living well and enjoying my retirement
Have you guys ever noticed how cheap the dancers as a group tend to be?
I had a weird experience a while ago at a club I used to frequent that illustrates this point. I was sitting at my regular spot at the bar with some guys and girls when I got up to use the facilities I stepped on something that made me stop and check it out. It turned out to be a roll of money wrapped in a garter. there was close to three hundred dollars in small bills I picked it up and stuck it in my other pocket (not where I keep my money because I had no intention of keeping it and I did not want to confuse any issues) went to the bathroom. I then returned to my regular seat and got ahold of the floor manager and told him what I had just found . i did not give it to him to hold, as I felt that I would give it back to the girl who lost it and he might if not steal it outright but slide some of that for his own use. (at that point it was obvious who that person was by her carrying on) Long story short I returned the money to the girl and resumed my normal club activities. The girl seemed happy to get her money back and I didn't think about it for another hour until the same girl who I returned the money to came over to me and thanked me as I was preparing to leave and as I was leaving started to tell me that she was broke, could I buy her a pack of cigarettes. (of course I didn't ) but WTF broke really?
Anyway what do you guys think about this ?
I had a weird experience a while ago at a club I used to frequent that illustrates this point. I was sitting at my regular spot at the bar with some guys and girls when I got up to use the facilities I stepped on something that made me stop and check it out. It turned out to be a roll of money wrapped in a garter. there was close to three hundred dollars in small bills I picked it up and stuck it in my other pocket (not where I keep my money because I had no intention of keeping it and I did not want to confuse any issues) went to the bathroom. I then returned to my regular seat and got ahold of the floor manager and told him what I had just found . i did not give it to him to hold, as I felt that I would give it back to the girl who lost it and he might if not steal it outright but slide some of that for his own use. (at that point it was obvious who that person was by her carrying on) Long story short I returned the money to the girl and resumed my normal club activities. The girl seemed happy to get her money back and I didn't think about it for another hour until the same girl who I returned the money to came over to me and thanked me as I was preparing to leave and as I was leaving started to tell me that she was broke, could I buy her a pack of cigarettes. (of course I didn't ) but WTF broke really?
Anyway what do you guys think about this ?
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I did know one that saved coupons. Whenever we went to dinner we always went to a place when she had a coupon for a discount. Is that cheap or just thrifty?
Hate to say it, for I have fell before to the ploys of a stripper, but remember, they are not you girlfriend, they are not really even your friend, they are there to make money and most will do whatever it takes to do that (of coarse there are exceptions, but for the most part).
PLs are strippers expense budget. You may have to document what you spend on yours, they just have to give BJs on theirs. Fixing a shoe, cigarettes, drinks are all things they need (in their minds) to do their job. I'm sure they think why should they have to pay for those things just like I would be offended if my company asked me to start paying for the gas in their company car they let me use. Sure, I'll pay for it if you give me a raise!?!?
As for the girl that just got back $300 asking for money saying she is "broke," she may have been even though she had money. I've talked to strippers before that would say they had to make "$X" amount of money to break even. In their minds "break even" meant they made enough to cover their fees and maybe to pay their bills and living expenses at home for that week. I don't view my salary that way but most of you probably don't either. Anyway most girls will say they are "broke" until they start making more than what their "$X" is, and then there's the others which will always claim they are broke even after they've made triple over what their "$X" is.
Had similar things happen to me also.
In my town, many of the girls get "drink cards" which the manager hands out at the beginning of a shift as incentive for the girls to show up to their shift on time and be on stage on time. Most times it is for 2 or 3 free drinks that the dancer can give to the bartender and not have to pay for her drinks at the beginning of her shift.
I can't tell you how many times a girl she sat down next to me right after noon (if I'm at the club for lunch) or at 7pm (after shift change) and asked me to buy them a drink. When I know damn well, they have 2 or 3 free drinks coming to them for being on time for review.
Oh, and the the "I don't have enough money for my tip out" routine gets old real quick too.
They are just hustlers and not there to be your friend. They want something from you... Always. As soon as a PL realizes that, the better off they will be with the SC experience.
And as soon as you say no or stop coming in as much, they find a new target to take advantage of.
As far as the silly hustles go, including ye ol' "I'm broke" routine, it is what it is. I'm not going to hate on a girl who has to take her clothes off and potentially more to earn her living, unless of course she doesn't do what she says she will or outright steals money from my pocket. Of course she is trying to squeeze every dollar she can from it - she doesn't know where her next dollar is coming from or when she'll see it. Also, in my experience, shailynn is right in that many of these girls seem to go to work with immediate bills hanging over their heads. who are already playing catchup.
Be a man dude. Rather than complaining about a silly hustle or that she didn't show you sufficient gratitude, maybe you should be thinking about how you can use these dynamics to your advantage.
They "love" being coached Soooo much.
The funny thing is, now that I hang out with these girls as a non-paying friend in civilian bars,etc. I kind of appreciate it. They go through life asking guys for things, and guys give it to them, and that's just the way it is. I can actually see them go into a flirt mode, and there it is. The girl I was with once had her car break down when she stayed over my house, got it towed to the dealer, and -- as I knew she would, if she got a male sales rep -- came home with an amazing quote, and get this: after they fixed her car and she picked it up, he let her also keep her loaner car until that evening, which is fucking unheard of. When the girls go to the clubs, they leave the house with almost no money, and just know they'll get invited to a bottle service table, and from there will get everything they want to eat and drink.
Anyway, it's a hustler mindset, and many of the girls don't ever turn it off. I love watching the girls do their thing, now that they're not doing it to me :)
here is a story that happened to me in vegas. I was at SR with a group of people. We got bottle service and a table. The table next to ours was this guy with a bottle and a dancer. No biggie.... then I saw the guy slap the dancer across the face. I jumped up and lets just say removed the guy not so gentle from the booth and he might have accidently rammed his face into my fist. The bouncers were on the spot and removed me off this guy and the dancer jumped in and told them what happened. The bouncers let me stay as they escorted the other guy out. That dancer invited me to sit with her in the booth and we finished the bottle that other guy paid for together. When the bottle was finished she led me to the VIP area and gave me a very great dance.... for about an hour. Then a bouncer told her she was wanted in another area. I was about to get up and she told me to sit down and she sent in dancer after dancer.... I was in the VIP for over 3 hours. I then got nervous and thought I was going to have an outrageous tab. So I was leaving the VIP when the original dancer stopped me and asked where was I going. I told her I better meet back up with the group I was with. She said OK, gave me her cell number and told me she got off work in about 2 hours... I asked what did I owe for the time in VIP (plus drinks I was having back there) she said nothing it was on her and a thank you for being a stand up guy. Lets just say I called her 2 hours later and she really thanked me.
So some dancers know how to be grateful. In your experience you think she would have given you a table dance or something on the house.
that's an awesome story
1) Don't fall in-love with them
2) Don't believe anything they say
For some; whatever a stripper does is fair game – for others it's different.
I'm kinda in b/w; I don't condone the SS but then again there is nothing one could really do about it except know when and how to control the purse strings – that is really one's only leverage – one will never change a stripper's ways (the way they think or act); all one can do is get them to comply for the short time b/f you have given them any $$$.
It's business - we all know that – but we (including me) sometimes are not on our game – being upset at a stripper hustling you/me is like being upset at a car salesman b/c he gave us a bad deal so he could get a bigger commission.
When dealing w/ strippers – just think car salesman and act accordingly.
Although I often let my Hispanic emotions get the best of me; for me personally I think the best way to deal w/ strippers is to play dumb as if you don't know the deal. I let them do their silly games and either send them on their way or use their SS against them – sorta a “don't get mad get even” thing.
If you're someone of good character (like I like to think of myself) and if I was the stripper and a PL brought back my money, I would probably offer him a drink, a few free lap dances or at least flirt with him for a bit... That's how someone with class and dignity would do it like you and most other people would hope for or maybe even expect.
They only problem is you're in a strip club and 95% of the girls working there only want to drain your wallet with as little effort as possible. I was only trying to show you how she possibly viewed the situation, even though her view is very distorted and wrong.
Btw why don't you go over to strippweb and post this encounter and see how those bitches over there react. Most of them would probably complain to you that you didn't put additional money in the garter before you returned it to her.
Somebody said it recently....when asked for money to purchase________they simply answer, "I'd rather buy dances from you"