Clean-Living Dancers
AnonymousJim
Scanning the room from the back
But here's an interesting one: What percentage of the dancers you run across do you think are "clean-living" girls? Ones who somehow avoid the drugs, the vice, the issues and all of that?
My CF right now seems to be that type. She says she's a vegetarian, doesn't drink and doesn't do drugs. So far, I've never seen her take a drink at the club (always orders bottled water) and we've had legit conversations about self-help books she hasn't been giving me great grinds. She's in excellent shape (why I'm a fan) and doesn't seem rattled by the biz too badly. While she hasn't been OTC-friendly, we exchanged E-mails and she drops me a note and a pic when she's going to be working. She doesn't hide who she is on social media and she seems to be what she claims to be. Used to be a pretty good track runner in high school. Only "flaw" seems to be she likes Justin Bieber [shrug].
What percentage of the girls in the industry do you think is like this girl, i.e. not messed-up and actually kind of has its act together? And do you think there are certain types of club where this is more common?
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This is over 3 times what my gut feeling is telling. However those 133 were all favorites of mine and gave good dances and except for a few their fucked up lives didn't interfere with their dancing too often. There were at least 3 times as many dancers over the years who never became favorites of mine, because they were way too messed up. So that 18 percent becomes 4.5 percent, which is in line with my less than 5 percent.
Considering there are a lot more dancers I don't remember, and most of those were fairly messed up.
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I'd guess the % may be higher for upscale no-touch clubs – i.e. IMO if they are fucking and sucking they can't be too well grounded.
"...ones who are really going to college..."
I thought that was all of them?
The last time I went to see my CF, she said she had switched to days for a while because she just needed a break from the kind of customer that comes in at night. It's a more upscale club with no extras (they just don't exist in my part of the world) and she has to drive an hour or so to get there. I get the impression she may be thinking about making it a two-hour trip to go to the much bigger city that's even further away.
But yeah, through her E-mail, I was able to find her social media stuff and she does seem to practice what she says she preaches. I mean, I think it's possible -- I drink, yes, but not in excess, I've never done drugs myself. I don't eat as healthy as I should, but I try and workout. Really, women are my one real vice. I can't help but think it's possible there are dancers out there who are kind of in the same boat.
That's actually the kind of stripper I'm attracted to most, and I try to avoid the obviously fucked up ones, and work further to
I'm under no illusion that I've always been successful in separating out all the chaff, but I think I've does a pretty good job.
When I worked at a sports bar there was a waitress there who was 100% vegan - not just vegetarian. She couldn't even eat the 'vegetarian' food from our menu, that's how vegan she was. I have no idea if she's straight edge (meaning no alcohol or drugs of any kind), but I did see her dancing a couple yrs later when I was working. We worked together several times, although I can't remember if she drank.
No disrespect to NinaBambina! I know she's talked about drugs and I think they're a bad idea. I'm not going to preach against them or judge people, unless they do something dangerous like get high and drive. But I personally don't consider them clean living under any circumstances. Just a vice that ranges from a little harmful (like marijuana) to very harmful (heroin or prescription pain killer abuse). For the really harmful cases I just don't want to be near it, but that's my personal decision.
Some of this is because of California's excellent clean indoor air protections. These have contributed to our having the second lowest smoking rate in the country, after Utah and followed by Idaho.
The stripper smoking rate is higher than the general population, I think because of age and other lifestyle issues. But as the clean indoor air protections do most certainly apply in strip clubs, the stripper rate continues to drop.
And then in AMPs, 20 years ago it was a problem. But now smoking is just about totally absent in AMP girls.
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My guess is that we remember what we want about dancers, and the cool ones that seem to have their life in order may be more attractive to some of us, including me. So, I would say that some seem to have their lives in order, and the ones that are a complete mess, (even if hot), may not be what we are looking for on a regular basis.
When I lived in Dallas in the 1990s, there were several dancers that made great money with decent two way contact dances and no extras. Many of these girls were students or just out of school and had a plan to dance for a year or less. I found many to have their lives in order. As the dance price rates have stayed at the same level, and the contact levels have gone up, the dancers that are hot and together seem to be memories of my past. The dancers are by and large less attractive and more likely to give high milage. So, I would tend to agree with the lower percentage of "together" dancers in today's world.
Lately the club percentages seem to be 5 percent 9's and 10's, 10% 8's, 30% 6 and 7's and 55% 5's and below. In the 90's a typical club had about 10 percent 9's and 10's, 30% 80's, 50% 6's and 7's, 10 percent 5 and below.
Attitudes of the dancers have also gotten worse. In the 90's, I expected a lot of the 9's and 10's to have a bad attitude with a lot of rip off artists among them. It was a crap shoot whether an 8 was a good dancer or not.
The attitude and high mileage to looks sweet spot was around a 7. Any dancers with an 8 in the looks and attitude category who was also high mileage was a keeper.
Strangely it seems that now that if I do see a 9 or 10 in the club, I am are more likely to have a decent time, and is less likely to be a ROB. Athough I expect to tip very high for good mileage Unfortunately, many of the 8's are ROB's now, and I often consider myself lucky if I find at 7 with a great attitude who gives a very high mileage lap dance.