Strippers with your number continually texting?
anon4231In the VIP
I gave my number to a stripper expecting minimal contact (maybe once or twice, right before I said I'd MAYBE be back in a month,) but she's texted me at least 5 times since I was last in the club a week ago. I know she's definitely interested in the bulge in the back of my pants rather than the bulge in front of my pants - she's giving me the typical SS like saying she misses me, thinks of me, etc., but suggestions for OTC activities garner a reply of "I'll wait." I'm not quite enough of a PL to think otherwise.
Just a question for the more experienced clubbers around here. Your thoughts? Is this something I should expect when I pass out a number, or is this girl just really working for her money?
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last commentYou just need to block her number. Then you need to have a burn phone or Google voice number. That way you don't have to give her your regular number.
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It's not harrassing (and let's be honest, the dance -was- better than any I've had around here so far) - it's just somewhat unexpected and I was wondering if it's par for the course. That said, I -have- gotten a GVoice number for future distribution.
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Depends on the girl, but I think she probably sees you as an easy target. Glad to see you saw thru the SS.
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She'll eventually get the hint, I'm sure. "Sorry, but I keep a tight leash on my finances... student loans, etc."
... as I buy filet mignon for dinner tonight. No money for the club though! :V
Of course, I do want to continue the business relationship - just on my own terms, not as a nice smelling ATM. :P
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Def par of the course just as many other “oddities” in dealing w/ these exotic beasts – IMO never see-it as anything more than SS unless proven o/w which does not happen 99% of the time IMO – personally; the best you can hope for IMO is a good worthwhile P4P relationship w/ not too many headaches of her asking/begging for money all the time – but w/ her blowing-up your ph I'd look at her with a raised eyebrow when dealing with her (especially w/ her non-committal to OTC although she “likes you so much”).
Look at this way junior :) - haven't you ever had to deal w/ an aggressive salesperson – there you go.
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It happens more often than most think.
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I always text back to them "I'm out of town and will not be back for 3 weeks.".
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Never happened to me before. But it should be easy to just block her number. and like rh48hr said, you must have a burn phone ap. only DS II has my real number, the rest I text thru an ap.
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I'm with Corvus. If it's your regular number she's texting you on you need to block it or make it clear she replies to YOUR texts.
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I'd be leery of giving any new stripper my real phone number. It's way to easy to find out everything about the number's owner these days.
If it's not inconvenient, give her your GV number and tell her it's your new one. Then block her on the old number, and change to a new one. Carriers will do that for a slight fee, or sometimes free if you lie and claim harassing phone calls.
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Her's my take. I have given out my real number to a select few, 4 to be exact. I've never been "harassed" by any of them.
So, I think if you give out a number indiscriminately and don't wish to follow up with contacts, you get what you deserve. YOU made the choice of giving her the number.
If you give it out with the intent of follow up, then I've not seen a problem.
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@Clubber: Agreed. I've given my real number to one girl. I've given my GV number to more than I can count. GV makes ignoring calls ludicrously simple.
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@JS69- the DS2 got your real number, but not the DS?
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one more reason not to give out your "real" number - I've received mass texts from more than one stripper with the typical stripper shit. Its not so much the one text from the stripper that gets annoying, its the fact that now there's another 10 people texting back and forth with group texts about all sorts of shit. And the other 20 people on there not getting involved also have your number and presume you're associated with those asshats.
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You have a bulge in the back of your pants? Does it smell because it sounds like a buildup of poop.
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@anon4231 CLASSIC. That'll stick it right in her craw.
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Well, money at strip clubs DOES tend to get a kind of funny smell...
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I'd say she wanting you to come in on those nights cause it was dead or too slow
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Oh, I don't doubt that - like I said, it's pretty clear she's in it for the money. It's almost amusing to me how she won't admit it outright though.
I appreciate the insights in this thread - it's answered my initial question and given quite a bit of interesting information besides.
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I don't give out my number. I take theirs. Big difference. That, and I only get it after seen her more than a few times and get the sense she won't annoy me afterwards.
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No big deal you can delete or ignore. U only pay attention to the ones I want to. So many dancers have my number I can't remember half of them
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I'd never give my number to a stripper. They are interchangeable imo.
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