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6 years ago
to add: I actually don't want to see strippers kissing middle-aged guys in the front room either. So I'm fine with clubs having policies against it
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6 years ago
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IceyI put your ATF on a winning team
It's Pretendpimpmageddon!
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6 years ago
vu, this thread was about FRONT ROOM makeout sessions. In clubs with private rooms, kissing is not all that hard to get. Much more common in clubs where the action is looser, but even at relatively higher end, non-extras clubs, I find light kissing happens sometimes, especially with girls I see often. I'll leave discussion about whether or not it's gross to kiss an extras girl to the reader.
You're probably also right that strippers don't like it... I wouldn't want to kiss a 50 year old woman if I were 22. Nevertheless, they do it, just not in the front room, where club policies get them in trouble.
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6 years ago
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IceyI put your ATF on a winning team
There's so many pimps up in here right now, I had to get a payday loan just to post on this thread
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6 years ago
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ei8ht_BallStill don't know what I'm doing here . . .
Well ya, I'd take experience daddy over bf or husband any day :) But, they're all an evolution from stripper/PL
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6 years ago
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flagoonerEverything written by this member is a fact.
Shoulda told her not to talk with her mouth full
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6 years ago
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IceyI put your ATF on a winning team
lol ... a fake troll persona out pimpin'!!!
More seriously though, every story of a PL here getting a stripper FWB, started out a customer of the stripper. Every FWB I've made, not that there were many, she was my ATF prior.
The whole focus on "dating and managing" strippers is somewhat retarded though. Exactly how many guys here are dumb or naive enough to want to do so?
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6 years ago
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ei8ht_BallStill don't know what I'm doing here . . .
-->"My relationship with my ATF has evolved into something beyond the “normal” stripper/PL pairing"
Same. I'd like to say we're FWB now, but more honestly, probably her "experience daddy"
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6 years ago
Shadow, how many of the girls are right handed and how many left handed? Asking for science
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6 years ago
I can't imagine having the time to see her even once a week, much less more than that. Plus, I prefer quality of quantity when it comes to OTC -- with 5-hour to overnight OTCs, we've pretty much seen each other enough for a little while. It's "too much" if I haven't had enough time since our last OTC, to be crazy for her when it's time for our next OTC.
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6 years ago
Yes, I noticed that when you were taking everyone to school about rap and thug life, TrapB^H^H^H^H^H Papi
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6 years ago
Papi, always kickin' a man with a back brace when he's down
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6 years ago
Bastard!! lol ...
Admit nothing
Deny everything
Make counter-accusations
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6 years ago
-->"I agree with DC on that too. "
Says the poster behind half? more? of the new trolls here :)
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6 years ago
Ya, I agree with your last sentence -- he's a regular guy, the alternate persona of someone here. That person read a pimp article, or saw Pimps Up Ho's Down or something, and thought it would be fun to write a pimp persona -- it's just coming out painfully contrived. But sometimes he just slips into "regular guy" mode, which is the actual tuscler coming through ... although that seems to be happening less and less, so whoever is behind it is definitely committing to it lol
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6 years ago
Is that it, just 4? Feels like double that! lol ... DC, you read Phatboy's cringe-worthy pimp act, and you're not sure whether it's a troll account? And it's plausible that a real pimp who "manages" strippers would face so much disrespect by so many members here, but still keep posting on an internet forum??
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6 years ago
Weird that we have like 5 or 6 pretend thugs / pimps right now. Everyone got that idea at the same time?
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6 years ago
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ei8ht_BallStill don't know what I'm doing here . . .
My ATATF: 6 years and counting... she is out of the industry. But I learned from SA that my relationship with my various ATFs has always been PPM arrangement-ish. I think that's what boosts them up in my mind from just being a run-of-the-mill CF
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6 years ago
Trolls, weirdos, pretend pimps, and alternate personas. Great time to be alive!
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6 years ago
Pink, Is that really the reason guys don't approach strippers? If I had to guess, it would be:
One is that for many guys, the fantasy of being pursued is exactly what they're paying for -- one that can't happen if he has to pursue girls EVEN IN A STRIP CLUB. That can be pretty tough on someone already socially awkward or fragile. Most old cynical PLs are too busy pursuing our own agendas to be bothered by such thoughts, but many customers have that mindset at some point or other. It's the most-often cited reason when I read discussions in forums.
Second, while we know that "no one is going to reject your money if you offer it", there is a JUSTIFIED perception that a girl on her phone looking annoyed or disinterested, and too consumed to even bother doing her job, is not going to give the best dances.
If I want a girl who hasn't come by, I usually just catch her on stage.
I do think if you're ignored often as a customer, you need to look at yourself. Anyone can have a weird day at the strip club, but a customer who is constantly getting ignored, across many trips and strip clubs, is sending out the wrong signals.
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6 years ago
If you'd told me 20 years ago that someday I'd be answering "yes" to this question! My ATATF has ... we've known each other a long time. I graciously declined
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6 years ago
This is about fapping, or some other less interesting topic?
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6 years ago
It takes very little to turn the bouncer from worst case (enemy/nuisance) or usual case (furniture) to helpful. In the ancillary clubs that I visit once in a while, I don't particularly bother. But at clubs I go to regularly, I just treat the bouncer like a regular guy -- quick mention of the fights or game yesterday, for example. Some bouncers stay in hardguy mode, so that's that, but many of them are more than happy to talk. If they hang out, we'll offer them a shot. I've had slow days where the bouncer hung out at our table for 15 minutes at a time, shooting the shit.
There's almost no effort needed for this, and frankly, I sometimes enjoy being able to take a few minutes out to have a more testosterone-driven conversation. And the upside is, as I've reported many times: at my regular club, the bouncer comes through the VIP room at least twice per VIP, sometimes as much as once per song. The number of times a bouncer has walked through the VIP when I'm in it, in the past 4 years: exactly zero. Never, not once. The bouncers give me decently accurate stripper info also -- with the realization that a bouncer will talk up whichever dancer is tipping him the most, the fact is, they rarely steer me wrong.
If I had some social anxiety, it might not be worth it. But guy talk is pretty effortless for me, and well worth doing it with the bouncer
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6 years ago
I like rap and hip hop, and have since the early 90s, so that's a lot of years of listening to it.
I am, nevertheless, very supportive of the policies of my fave club policies, to not play rap at all, or limit it only to approved happy rap
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6 years ago
AGree... trpterp, if you're going to worry about anything in this scenario, it's whether the PL is dumb enough to let a stripper swipe his card. No reason to worry about the club -- they will have someone counting dances, and if they don't, that's 100% on them (and the scenario doesn't change whether it's credit or cash)