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6 years ago
Oh? Which studio?
Asking for a friend.
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6 years ago
He is very familiar with ball sac
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6 years ago
^^^ I usually come in an put a good 8 or 9 inches of singles on my table. Some of the girls claim it's closer to 3 inches, but I'm pretty sure they're under-estimating
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6 years ago
What I continue to not understand: considering how poorly written every single pretend pimp is, how are so many guys still completely fooled? There's at least 3 or 4 real contributors who think PhatBoy is real and totally credible. Or, then again, maybe I'm the one who is completely fooled, those 3 or 4 real contributors are themselves trolls written by the true mastermind (Juice, obvi). I just blew my own mind.
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6 years ago
Like I said, we have so many pretend pimps (and now hos) in here, I have to get a payday loan just to post here
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6 years ago
PD, are you not interested in either OTC, or an arrangement (SD/SB)? Seems like you're putting in a lot of effort, towards a goal that might not be achievable (a unicorn club where she can just work a couple of hours then leave, whenever she wants), for a girl who really might be making the best choice for herself by leaving the biz. Either OTC or an arrangement could get you that interaction with her you want, in an environment that's healthier for her, and very fun (in a different way than the club)
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6 years ago
SirL: while the dynamics you describe might be a bit much for me (her wiggling on your dick while you all talk), I am completely open to socializing with other PLs if it happens organically. I have a few stories of just sort of getting in conversations with other PLs and we just end up hanging out
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6 years ago
-->"Unless it’s a birthday, bachelor party, or coworker outing, I think most in general prefer 1-1."
Ironically, I think that is specifically what most of us hate worst. SCing with amateurs on their "it's our one Boys Night Out per year Wooooo!!!!!!!" crowd. In a way it doesn't even count as a "real" SC trip in my mind, the experience is completely different from SCing with PLs (or alone).
I have a (much younger) buddy getting married soon, so I'll be treated to one of these trips soon. Extra points, it might happen in Vegas, sigh.
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6 years ago
SirL: hmmm, so you're saying that in your small club, even though you're there alone, everyone around you interacts with each other? I've experienced this occasionally when I'm sitting at the bar with a stripper, with other regulars at the bar also -- sometimes my stripper will know the stripper of the regular next to me, and that kind of facilities a bit of an interaction. I don't mind that... beyond that, I do like less-crowded clubs mostly because it puts less pressure on my ATF to stick around with me.
Maybe another spin on this: even if I'm by myself, I love when the club is slow, and not just my ATF but a few of her stripper friends are at my table, and we're slamming shots, etc.
Maybe what I'm saying is: I don't mind if the rest of the club is dead, in fact I often prefer it; but I do like a party at my table, whether it's because I'm there with my buddies, or alone but with multiple strippers
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6 years ago
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IceyI put your ATF on a winning team
-->"Ok. I get it. I’m interested to hear how it went when you saw her next. This is an interesting idea. It’s something I always expected to be very difficult to change."
Cash, pretty much every story of dating or FWB'ing a stripper in tuscl (minus fictional stories by pretend pimps), the relationship started as stripper/customer or ATF/regular. My small number of FWBs all went that way. Might not happen often, but pretty much the only stories (from credible posters) we've seen here.
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6 years ago
Ya, drinking with the stripper is a non-negotiable part of the experience I'm going for in a strip club. I mean, I totally agree, it's her body, she doesn't have to drink if she doesn't want to. And it's my money, and I don't have to spend $ on girls who aren't going to give me the experience I want. I don't have any malice towards girls who don't drink, just a mismatch between services offered and services expected. I do have a problem with girls who would dump a drink out (although I don't see how that could happen if we're doing our shots right in front of each other) or using the code to order water shots -- I don't like my money being wasted, even if it's just $5.
And completely agree -- unless we're talking about $20 "dancer drinks", even if I didn't love drinking with the girls, if she's thirsty, $5 is chump change compared to what I'll be spending on her
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6 years ago
This question is just kind of a subset of the "do you SC alone or in groups" discussion we just had, no? In any case, I think the important thing to point out is: if you're in a group, it's always easy to have 1-on-1 time with the stripper, whereas if you're alone, you're stuck with 1-on-1 the entire time.
In a group, I find it's pretty easy to just turn towards my stripper, she turns towards me, and we just talk to each other while the table's social dynamics are going on around us. This is basically the norm. There are a couple of guys who sometimes like extra privacy, and once in a while I'll look up and see that for a little while, they've moved with their stripper to the table adjacent to us, or the bar. In short, even in a group, I can get all the one-on-one time I want.
But, as someone who loves partying and SCing with his buddies, I also get all the great social dynamics. When we turn back towards the table, there's a lot of laughing, ball-busting, untoward sexual talk, etc. I also get all the other advantages of group SCing that I discussed in the other thread.
All of this, of course, assumes SCing with other PLs, or well-coached newbies. SCing with amateurs and boys-night-out-wooooo guys just tends to be annoying
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6 years ago
-->"Buying any girl a drink is a rookie mistake. Usually the less attractive ones come over first and you don't want to be preoccupied with her banter when our fav walks by. I can see this as a gentemanly thing to do"
Okay, I was funnin', but worth a serious response. Buying a stripper a drink is the 2nd-best deal in the club; best deal is buying her food. For a $5 drink (during happy hour), my CF will sit with me for quite a while of flirtin' and gropin'; when we're done, hey, another $5 drink. Plus, I just love drinking with strippers, they are fun girls to party with (I realize not everyone will share my enthusiasm for this).
If there's a mistake to be made, it's violating rule #2 -- don't be a little bitch. If you're buying drinks for the fuglies just because they came by first, or are so confused you think "gentlemanly" applies here, you might be violating rule #2. As Dominic said, it's your money, take control. Here's what I do:
- Typically, before the waitress even gets to us, I've given my stripper a very constrained choice ("We're doing shots today... vodka, tequila, or whisky?"). If she declines or wants to order some high-$ drink, I decline -- drinking is an important part of the experience for me, so teetotalers immediately get the boot, and if I can't talk the expensive-drink-girl into ordering one of the options I gave her, so does she.
- But if we HAVEN'T had this conversation before the waitress got to us, I'll send the waitress away to have it, or have it right in front of the waitress. In any case, I'll constrain her choices and let her pick something that is acceptable to me. If you feel some imaginary pressure because the waitress is there, to just give in to whatever the stripper wants to order, you may be violating rule #2.
- Then, I order for both of us. "Two shots of tequila". No reason for my stripper to talk to the waitress, except to specify what she wants for a back.
The local clubs don't have special dancer drinks, so I don't have to deal with that; sympathies for those of you who do. Could you just go up to the bar and order two shots, without the bartender knowing who it's for? The one gotcha in the clubs I go to -- like ALL alcohol clubs, there's a code the girl can say that indicates to the waitress or bartender "pour me a water shot". It will be something that is not completely out of place, but just a tiny bit off, e.g., "put two marischino cherries in that" (then she'll turn to you and tell you she loves cherries in her vodka -- but THAT is the code for water shot). I know what the codes are at my fave clubs, and occasionally have to shut the girl down.
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6 years ago
Drinks you all say, then? check!
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6 years ago
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ei8ht_BallStill don't know what I'm doing here . . .
Dude, I can feel your hardon through your sweatpants and ... ew... is there a moist spot?
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6 years ago
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0% chance I would steal from a stripper. Hell, I don't steal from anyone, but feels particularly egregious to steal from someone who likely needs the $ pretty badly and definitely earned it "the hard way"
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6 years ago
Amma try that
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6 years ago
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IceyI put your ATF on a winning team
Plus I can offer them being with an actual person, instead of a troll persona some tuscl guy who once read an article on how pimps act, just created a little while ago... and who keeps slipping back into "regular tuscl guy" mode when he forgets to call people tricks and hoes. There's that :)
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6 years ago
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Okay, my bet for the plot: there will be a few days of ups and downs, maybe a little heavier on the downs. Just as we start to worry that this experiment is going bad, he'll hook one, with lines somehow even MORE cringey than "I don't tip, I pay bills"... lines like that will help him become her favorite trick, and then, *bam* he makes the transition during the last couple of days.
Prediction #2: Cashman will believe every word :) :) (ha ha! Just giving you some shit cashmeng!)
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6 years ago
^^^ Ya, agreed. I'm perfectly fine kissing girls at non-extras clubs. Only happens in the back room.
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6 years ago
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I'm not sure what type two_bits wears specifically, but I'm visualizing: https://i.pinimg.com/236x/4c/7d/86/4c7d8606f45569c10c3946133a4e98c1--oral-hygiene-vintage-medical.jpg
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6 years ago
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Actually, I thought of a better ending to this fictional story! Our her is JUST ABOUT to transition from trick to pimp, the stripper is developing feelings and wanting to be his bitch, but then!!!
A dashing elderly man in a back brace and headgear swoops in to steals her away! To be his FWB (not P4P)
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6 years ago
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IceyI put your ATF on a winning team
why not just post all the parts of whatever story you've written all at once, so we can binge on it, netflix style? We already know the hero is going to be getting the girl, trick turned pimp, stripper turned ho
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6 years ago
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Someone give nicespice her Break Yo'self! t-shirt for this. Queen Pimp!
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6 years ago
-->"And we know that local regulars are only a small portion of the market."
Completely off topic, but dayshift in SF clubs is pretty local-regular heavy. Become a regular at any club, you'll start to see a lot of the same faces. Gold Club doesn't follow that trend for obvious reasons, but -- to take DV out of this -- you go to CH dayshift enough times, you'll start recognizing faces
Nightshift is a whole 'nother beast.
Given what seems to be a big difference in demographics, always wondered if changes in the business model (other than marginal reductions in entry fee and drink prices) would make sense.