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8 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
Maybe 6 months. An expensive 6 months. My first extras experience pretty much coincided with my discovering this forum. Everything got significantly better (i.e. extras) and significantly cheaper (i.e. knowing how to negotiate) after that point.
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8 years ago
Guess there are lies - like saying you would met someone for OTC then not showing, then lies about what they tell you about their personal life.
Couldn't care less about the latter, but the former would be annoying.
In addition to a dancer having to be hot I'm actually into a good personality too, so too many instances of detecting lies about their personal life and I'd probably lose interest.
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8 years ago
I'd be willing to bet most guys here lie too when in the club, so I do chuckle when I read guys getting bent out of shape over a stripper lying to them about something.
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8 years ago
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Jascoimr.wonderful to single moms and college age girls...
About 3 years. Between that and my readings here would consider myself a vet. That said, I still haven't pulled off OTC yet. Do have a candidate from a club in my home city and just got her number last week, but am just very green on bringing up the topic and closing the deal.
So guess I'm a vet at some things, and not so much at other things. :-)
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8 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
lol....just saw the no honorable mention declaimer. Sorry, Ashley.
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8 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Jessica Alba
Minka Kelly
Alexandria DeBerry
Honorable mention: Ashley Greene
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8 years ago
A little over 3 years into the hobby and would have to put the number around $15-20K. What skews the number a bit is I almost always incorporate a casino visit when in Detroit - spending $300 - $400 a trip. Just dumb luck, but have done well ($600-$1,200) probably 5-6 times meaning I return from a 2-3 days of clubbing in Detroit still with a chunk of cash.
If anything, the SC hobby has caused me to analyze my budget elsewhere and double check I'm in a good place in regards to 401K and other savings. This makes is easier for me to be alright dumping money towards the hobby. :)
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8 years ago
To each their own....but I would laugh. That's some funny shit.
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8 years ago
"Afterwards when we are sitting in the dance area, she casually mentions do you want to tip me."
Instant turnoff for me. Would literally never hang with this dancer again.
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8 years ago
I've asked 2 so far....and both said Trump.
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8 years ago
For me it's not as much the cup size of boobs but rather the nipples. Large areolas to me are hot; especially in relation to the size of the boobs.
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8 years ago
^^^As mentioned this is when I was just starting out in the game. All the hands on attention obviously added to my confusion. ^^^ No longer have these issues and know the routine of negotiating before heading back to VIP (Detroit clubs at least) but still funny to look back and laugh.
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8 years ago
Not proud to admit this....but my first couple of times ever in a hands on club like those in Detroit....did VIP with a dancer for 22-24 songs. At $25 per song, well, you can do the math. haha. This was with the same dancer and think my first night may have done 2 trips to VIP with her. Something like 24 songs first visit - 18 songs 2nd visit - so guess I'd put the # at 42 lap dances in one night.
That said, I'm pretty sure she was over counting songs. :-)
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8 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
No
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8 years ago
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ItsmytimeI’ve had enough and I can’t take it any more
When I meet one of my favorite dancers at the moment she told me she only did dances. She was so hot to me that I have fine with doing 3-4. My next visit was able to get her to doing extras, and we have been ever since.
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8 years ago
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Most of the times after hanging out with a girl in the club I don't have to stage tip her again next time I'm in. She either knows I'm going to be in that night (text) and will stop over, or if it's a dancer who's number I don't have they'll see me and will stop over. If we haven't texted and I think she may not see me and/or I know she is popular and will have other guys tipping her on stage I will tip her on my repeat visits.
But yeah, the only time I stage tip is if I'm potentially interest in VIP.
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8 years ago
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ItsmytimeI’ve had enough and I can’t take it any more
I totally understand and respect a dancers who say they only do clean dances / no extras in VIP. Likewise, they should totally understand and respect my decision when I say I'm going to pass on a trip to VIP and just continue to hang out for a while.
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8 years ago
What I'm finding lately is I meet a knockout dancer to me who becomes an instant fav - get her number and everything - only to find after seeing her a 2nd or 3rd time in the club I'm no longer interested. Think this phenomena may be happening for a few reasons: something about her personality turns me off, the VIP experience gets boring, or I see other girls at the club I want to sample.
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8 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
I've mentioned review sites a few times to girls when it comes to clubs in general - i.e what the clubs are like, ect, but bringing up review sites and telling a girl I've read about her on them seems like a weird convo. Could totally see how the girl would find that weird too and/or be turned off by it.
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8 years ago
See plenty of guys at one of the main clubs I visit that wear suits and/or dress pants with jacket.
I personally do not - just dress pants with a dress shirt the great majority of the time.
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8 years ago
Think it's "normal" for guys to like strip club.
What may be deemed "not normal" is the frequency we visit.
For me in the past few years it's become a hobby in which I visit a handful of times a year (maybe 4-8 times per year) and think that has my friends who know about my hobby thinking I'm a bit odd. haha.
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8 years ago
For me it's not so much about a size preference. It's the look of the girl and the boobs. Big, medium, or small - a deal breaker for me is they must be natural.
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8 years ago
As a customer, I could have easily told Trixie I was "waiting for someone" - which is a very common line in a strip club - if I was truly into Jenna but just had to wait 10-15 minutes for her to get back from her stage set.