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8 years ago
A favorite dander at the moment has a BF. I have her number which is good, but have some strict guidelines on how I text her. She has me in her phone as a girls name who she tells her BF is a fellow dancer. When I text, I'm asking when she is working and that sort of thing, but that's basically it.
She has dropped some hints about getting an office job. My next visit to see her at the club, I want to try and throw out to her if she does in fact get out of the game and get into a mainstream job, would she be willing to see me once every 1-2 months on the side OTC for some extra cash (haven't actually seen her OTC before). I visit from out of state so between that and getting to know me pretty good ITC, I'm hoping she would be up for it.
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8 years ago
IMO it's in the eye of the beholder.
Have a dancer right now to who me is a 10. She has the look and body to me that basically doesn't get any better. Her personality is good too. To someone else she might be an 8.
Along the same lines, there are dancers I see that to me aren't very good looking....and you see a guy all smitten walk up to the stage and tip her. And they are obviously making enough money to be dancing.
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8 years ago
Have run into this in a couple of instances - don't mind a little leg stubble (by little I mean maybe in a spot or two; or just the slightest of feeling when rubbing against the grain), but am talking about a feeling of some hair on her lower back or butt. The girls have been pretty (obviously since I chose to do VIP with them), and am sure there is a genetic aspect to it and one really can't shave their lower backs or butts - but have found it to be a bit of a turnoff. Just ran into a girl like this at Flight Club this past Saturday night. She was able to make up for it in other areas. :)
Wonder if the solution is some sort of professional waxing - not sure.
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8 years ago
Not a fund per say, but do have budgeted my strip club funds for the rest of the year.
Own a house, drive a nice car, contributing heavily to my 401K and another small savings account....but spending virtually everything else on my strip club hoppy, which I guess includes a trip to MGM whenever in Detroit. :-)
Have only been in the hobby for about 3 years. It is kind of funny to think what else I would be spending my money on.
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8 years ago
My numbers are in regards to Detroit clubs like Penthouse and Flight Club and what can be done there.
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8 years ago
When first visiting and had no idea what I was doing....think around $1,200.
Now when I visit can have all the fun I can handle for $400-$600ish - including drinks, tips, ect.
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8 years ago
^^meant holding out for one and passing on others who are almost just as hot risks missing out on them all if the club is really busy and they are all in high demand.
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8 years ago
We all probably have different experiences, but I've never really encountered strip club drama. If a dancer I meet carries on about drama (club or real life) I'm pretty much turned off and they are dismissed fairly quickly. The drama I encounter sometimes is seeing multiple hotties in a club and trying to decide which ones to go after. And sometimes holding for one and passing on others almost just as hot risks missing out on them all. :-)
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8 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
"There's a stripper I love who is 43 and still very attractive."
Probably a rare exception, and not the rule.
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8 years ago
If the "clunk" is what makes the gunshot like sound, then yeah, not a fan.
There is this one dancer at Penthouse (who is hot btw) who does this thing on stage where when she first gets onstage she hits the dander pole with her hips/ass that makes this loud bang and rattle noise. Because she's hot....it's hot....but is the only dancer I have ever seen do this before.
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8 years ago
Had been to a couple of clubs with buddies....but then about 3 years ago was in Detroit for work and decided to visit Penthouse Club. Was blown away by the visit, and would consider myself in the strip club game ever since. Have a couple more strips planned up to Detroit before the end of the year - perhaps as early as next weekend before college football gets started.
As Hungry says above, the game can get expensive so would highly recommend people having financial discipline. Really can't imagine being able to enjoy the game knowing it was somehow draining my finances in a detrimental way; either in the present or in the future.
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8 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I quoted those prices because that's what I've experienced. :-)
I visited Penthouse, Flight Club, and Coliseum. Expect for Coli during the day drinks at a minimum are going to run $10 with tip. Most expensive drink I've ever had someone order I think was $19+ so it was $21 with tip.
Yeah, a $40-$50 drink....shame on me. :-)
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8 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Agree Subraman with your last post on controlling prices. Makes sense.
Have hung out with some dancers for hours at the club. The most they've ever ordered is 3 drinks total.
Have never had an instance of a girl ordering a mega expensive drink sticking around for more. I've determined I don't like her enough while visiting to do VIP and send her on her way, ect.
That said, I do have a favorite at the moment who before our last visit to VIP wanted to order a drink to take with her. Now I know she was going to be drinking most of this with someone else, but she only drinking $10 stuff so it's no biggie. And maybe she needs it for a "chaser" after our VIP sessions - if you know what I mean. :-)
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8 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
"What I do is pretty simple. I tell her what we're ordering -- I'll give her a little choice (like which choice of alcohol) so that she feels a bit empowered, but that's it."
lol.
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8 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
"Anyway, to answer the question: if I let the stripper order her own drink, and I don't even know the price, I'm pissed at myself, not at her."
The clubs I visit, the drink range is $10-$20. So a girl orders a $20 drink. Why would I be "pissed at myself"? It's an extra $10. I'm in a strip club.
Luckily, I've never liked a dancer long enough who is drinking expensive stuff to have bought them multiple drinks.
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8 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Great points wallanon. Buying a dancer a drink - regardless of cost with the range being $10-20 in my experiences - is a small investment for 10-20-30 minutes of their time to get to know them better and determine if I want to spend more $$ on them.
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8 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
In regards to my last sentence above, I think dancers know when they are ordering modestly priced drinks, and when they are splurging.
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8 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
This is a funny question.
It's always a mystery to me until the server brings the drink and says how much I owe.
If it's something that comes in a bottle I know it's going to be $10 including tip (think Detroit drink prices).
If it's a drink in a glass....that's when the mystery starts. :-) Some of those drinks only run $10 including tip so that's cool. Sometimes though the server will say something like $15+ and I kind of roll my eyes to myself thinking 'dang girl, what did you order?' I always pay and don't never say anything.
If it's a dancer I end up liking, I don't really care what they order. Even when hanging with a dancer for a long time the most they ever really order is 2-3 drinks. In my experience the dancers I've come to like and hang out with on return visits to the club, the drinks they order are in the $10 range.
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8 years ago
timothyjames55-
The answers to your questions for me are no, no concern, and yes only concerned about that.
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8 years ago
Yeah, the problem I see with big tipping is you set a precedent on what is expected. Make a trip to VIP and be a cool dude to hang with/buy her drinks and it's not that hard to become a dancer's favorite when making future visits.
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8 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Ch3II-
That's what's pretty awesome about Detroit. Top notch strip clubs where anything goes, and casinos! Definitely adds some variety to my stays, and by wild luck I'm easily > 50% on winning when I hit MGM. Have had multiple visits to Detroit where my MGM winnings have paid for my whole visit.
Only bad thing I guess is it takes me about 20-30 minutes to get from my hotel in one of the burbs to everywhere, but no big deal.
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8 years ago
Rap or house music is nice!
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8 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
No. Luckily I live within a few hours of Detroit. Close enough to buzz up whenever for 2-3 days.
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8 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Papi - a streetwalker? Say it ain't so....
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8 years ago
Whoa Papi. That's pretty awesome.
I have yet to pull off a 3 pop sc visit, let alone 4, but now know it can be done. :-)