Dancers lie?
K
New Jersey
I am confused by how many guys are surprised and upset that dancers lie. It seems that once or twice a week there is a post by someone complaining about a dancer's lies. On another site for one of the clubs near me, some one goes off almost daily warning everyone that these women lie.
I expect all service providers to lie. In a restaurant the waiter always seems to have had the dish I ask about earlier and highly recommends it. Pick a business and they probably lie about their product or service. Why would a dancer be different?
I want dancers to lie. It is what I go for. I don't want the 19 year old bouncing on my lap to tell me I am older than her grandmother and she can't wait to go home and down a few shots and smoke some weed with her broke boyfriend because old men fondling her breasts makes her sick. i want her to whisper in my ear how hot older men are and she wishes she could suck my dick and swallow my cum. I've said it before, I believe most everything they say while we are in the club. I believe nothing as soon as I walk out.
For those that are upset by their lies, why do you expect the truth? Isn't the fantasy better than the truth?
I expect all service providers to lie. In a restaurant the waiter always seems to have had the dish I ask about earlier and highly recommends it. Pick a business and they probably lie about their product or service. Why would a dancer be different?
I want dancers to lie. It is what I go for. I don't want the 19 year old bouncing on my lap to tell me I am older than her grandmother and she can't wait to go home and down a few shots and smoke some weed with her broke boyfriend because old men fondling her breasts makes her sick. i want her to whisper in my ear how hot older men are and she wishes she could suck my dick and swallow my cum. I've said it before, I believe most everything they say while we are in the club. I believe nothing as soon as I walk out.
For those that are upset by their lies, why do you expect the truth? Isn't the fantasy better than the truth?
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These are the guys I don't understand. As a teenager I realized to not believe dancers.I cannot grasp how an adult would be surprised a dancer lies. I would not be hurt if I fell for her lies. I'd be embarrassed.
The only thing that I don't believe her about inside the club is the upsell about what she will do in VIP unless she gives me physical proof or I know that it is common place at the club.
SJG
Same with strippers - stringing along a guy all night saying they'll do this in VIP or they'll probably do OTC even though even a veteran PL would know it's a lie, they still willingly will get strung along.
The thing that shocks me is why they lie about things they don't need to. I was meeting this girl for 2 years (2 YEARS!!!!!) for OTC romps and she had always said she was an only child, parents deceased, etc. etc. One time she's 2 hours late for our appointment and said "sorry I'm late, my sister held me up." I didn't even ask her to clarify. ugh!
My outlook is everyone lies for their own reasons. It doesn't have to make sense to me, but in some way it does for them. That does not mean they get away with it, it means I see it for what it is.
I think any sane guy knows that the strip club experience is built on a lie -- hell, we're PAYING THEM to lie to us. Of course, as jester said, there's lies and then there are lies.
Lies I expect to hear, and in fact, feel like I'm paying for it: "I love your eyes!" "Your dick is so big" "I'm about to cuuuummmm!" (love that last one -- half the guys on tuscl don't think the girls are possibly good enough actors to be lying about it and think they're making dancers cum left and right. LOL!)
Lies I find unacceptable and will often give a girl her walking papers for -- when she's actually saying it as a lie, no problem when it's the truth: "Sure, I'll go OTC with you" (if it's a girl who won't go OTC and is just lying to keeping me interested), purposeful attempts to manipulate my feelings, etc.
Couldn't care less about the latter, but the former would be annoying.
In addition to a dancer having to be hot I'm actually into a good personality too, so too many instances of detecting lies about their personal life and I'd probably lose interest.
I am not surprised that the girls dancing for me are less than truthful.
Really, if they told the truth, they would lose business.
I have learned to keep my emotions out of the clubs.
We like to believe we are somehow special and then are shocked when we learn we are just their
meal ticket.
Falling Down (1993) Michael Douglas and Robert Duvall.
http://youtu.be/iBy4X2rjF-k
SJG
Sarah Palin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RQSv1PZS…
:)
a) "wow your dick is so big" (lie I can live with)
b) do 2-dances and dancer says "yeah that was 5" (lie I can't live with)