Stage tipping practices
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
In a typical visit to a club where stage tipping is common and you are not sitting at the tip rail, what dancers do you usually tip on stage:
A. your favs or ones you want to be favs
B. the ones that you find attractive
C. the ones you want lap dances from
D. the ones who seem to be working hard to put on a good show
E. all or almost all of them
F. none or almost none of them
I usually do B and/or C
A. your favs or ones you want to be favs
B. the ones that you find attractive
C. the ones you want lap dances from
D. the ones who seem to be working hard to put on a good show
E. all or almost all of them
F. none or almost none of them
I usually do B and/or C
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The answer is A, B, and C. I do D sometimes.
Better dancers/dancers I know and like get more.
B, C, D (but those are not hard and fast conditions for tipping)
I generally tip if I'm enjoying it or appreciating it. I tip for stage sets sometimes because I want to see the woman later, sometimes because I appreciate her pole work, or sometimes just because I like her body. For dances and tableside I tip accordingly if I'm getting VIP level treatment outside of the VIP rooms. I'll also tip for a good conversation. I also like a woman who is confident to say what she wants to say. A pleasant, upbeat attitude matters.
I tip everyone, regardless, if they dance to Rock 'N' Roll. The only time I will tip someone who dances to rap or modern pop is if I end up in a club that only plays those styles of music.
I'll give a good example of D. This smoking hot girl came on stage and I tipped her 4 times asking her to come sit with me. She didn't and when at sat with some fat guy for the next hour watching him eat food. Meanwhile I sat bored out of my mind because I wanted her and her only. A few sets later another girl came along, not my type but cute enough with a great body. I tipped her because she was doing a great stage show and she flashed me (not usual to do that here) and asked to join me. I agreed and she had a great personality, and we went back and I got a very passionate gfe for a good rate. Had I not tipped her, I would have missed out. The girl I wanted ran up to me almost 2 hours later saying she's ready to hang, so there was a little satisfaction blowing her off "hey babe, someone already took care of what I needed, maybe next time."
Most of the times after hanging out with a girl in the club I don't have to stage tip her again next time I'm in. She either knows I'm going to be in that night (text) and will stop over, or if it's a dancer who's number I don't have they'll see me and will stop over. If we haven't texted and I think she may not see me and/or I know she is popular and will have other guys tipping her on stage I will tip her on my repeat visits.
But yeah, the only time I stage tip is if I'm potentially interest in VIP.
Occasionally, particularly in an empty club where the few other customers there aren't sitting sitting at the stage, I start feeling magnanimous and tipping everyone, at least a few dollars. I am guessing/hoping that that's a cheap way to buy some goodwill
There are a couple of other reasons that aren't explicitly covered here - 1) ones that I would like to get a closer look at to see if they might fit in categories a, b or c. 2) a stripper friend/roommate/etc of a CF
So many dancers don't work very hard on stage, so I show appreciation for the ones that do.
I don't tip to show that I want lap dances much anymore, because by the time she's done on stage either of us could have something else going on. Mostly, I tip for the fun of mixing it up with the girl and just getting up off my ass for a bit.
Never D or E.
"ones that I would like to get a closer look at to see if they might fit in categories a, b or c."
And this.
$"2 to any ol' dancer and $5+ if I want to draw her attention."
I used to tip D even if she was someone i wouldn't get dances from, but I started to save my money for lappers.
A: You gotta feed the kitty. You don't them to get hungry and wander off.
C: It's how you show interest and earnesty in a strip club.
D: If you're doing actual pole tricks, and not just floor work or dancing, I'm going to reward you.