Do you DATY with strippers?

When it comes to "who was there before me," I simply cannot think about that when I enter a VIP with a stripper. I just play niave.

I also have a hard time going to VIP with a dancer after I've seen her come out with someone else before I head in. That's not a rule, but more of a guideline - and enough bourbons will make you eliminate all your rules/guidelines!

Is straight bourbon an antiseptic for DATY?

I'd want something stronger, like Everclear.

I'd hate to kill a great bourbon like Pappy Van Winkle just to find out so no I wouldn't stick my younger there.

I used to enjoy DATY back in the day but haven't done it in some time. Maybe it's the ego boost knowing you're pleasuring the woman that appealed to me. Never done it on a sex worker, though. Considering it. Other than the cringe-worthy thought that someone might have just cum where you're putting your mouth, is there a risk of STD from DATY?

Shadow - I agree with everything you said. Except being too old to worry about STD's :-)

Until about two years ago, I had never done DATY with a stripper. In fact, the thought horrified me. However . . . since then I have given cunnilingus once to each of three strippers who gave me fellatio either afterward or simultaneously, plus I have eaten my ATF's sweet little pussy a couple dozen times, usually during 69.

In the club, it has to be her first VIP of the day. OTC it's immediately after we've both showered. In two years I've gone to rejecting DATY out of hand to enjoying it immensely with a select few strippers. In fact, 69 with my ATF is my single favorite sexual activity.

I enjoy DATY b/c I enjoy pretty-much anything about a woman - but it's not a must-have for me and it's never really on my mind when I go to a SC.

I SC a lot but on most-visits I don't go w/ extras on my mind - extras for me happen on some-visits kinda on the spur of the moment - in my 15+ year SC career I've probably gone down on strippers a handful of times; fear of STD is what keeps me from doing it more other than it's not a must-have for me - suppossedly DATY has the posbility of causing throat-cancer and that may be worse than an STD.

I have rarely done OTC (not my thing) but I imagine if I did I may be tempted to do DATY in that scenario, but w.r.t. DATY would only be sorta comfortable w/ it in a monogamous relationship.

w.r.t. other custies having done extras prior to me, I don't cringe at the thought but if I see it w/ my own eyes I'd probably have a bit of a negative reaction to it but probably not enough to stop me from getting what I need.

Yes I have done daty on strippers, I guess I like to because there are some reactions to it that can't be faked. If she looks clean (no needle tracks etc) and it looks and smells good then yes I will. I have found the girls that insist on coverage for bj and fs seem to have little resistance to you going down on then bare and I believe, maybe wrongly, that they are less likely to give me a disease.

-->"Do you go down on strippers? Why? You are the one paying. So why should you do something to please her? Does Daty actually do Anything for you?"

I love DATY, when I'm insanely attracted to the woman and she drives me crazy sexually. That applies to both civilians and strippers: It doesn't matter that I'm the one paying (for dinner and a movie, or for the hotel room and her fee), I love it, I enjoy it ... if she drives me crazy enough. And since I don't tend to OTC with strippers until they're my CF -- in which case, she I AM insanely attracted to her and she DOES drive me crazy sexually -- I totally want to DATY my OTCs/CFs/ATFs.

Nevertheless, I DO NOT. For me, it's strictly about disease risk -- and there IS a risk that varies from medium-to-high risk of transmission (e.g., herpes, HPV) to low (HIV). So it's verboten. Over the years I've had a small number of exceptions, but as a general rule, it's not something I do with strippers.

Do I go down on strippers? Yes, sometimes. Very rarely ITC. With a small subset of girls OTC, but when with those girls its frequent.

Why? I enjoy it. Some girls we've moved from a strictly P4P type thing and we're fucking because we want to, so if I know she likes it I'll do it.

Am I concerned about STD's, yea, a bit. Obviously not enough to completely stop, but there are certainly cases where I'd otherwise want to but decide against it because I don't feel its worth the risk.

What %? That's hard. Low, lower than 35% for sure. Maybe 5%. But, like I said, I do enjoy it, so I rather strongly tend to prefer the girls I do it with over those I won't.

Some other comments, I'm usually a first customer of a the day kinda guy myself too. I've come in later in the afternoon and done ITC before, but if I see her coming out of the back I don't take her back there myself. It's probably a silly hangup, but that's how I usually react.

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Used to, but stopped with strippers. Always, with responsible college girls. Worry most about HPV throat cancer.

Do I DATY stippers? Hell yes, every chance I get.

But I have to qualify that for me its been far more often in AMPs than SC's, because our SC's are tightly controlled. But I still let the girls know that I would want to.

As far as hygiene concerns, the girls clean themselves up. And also, as our clubs are very low mileage, that is meaningless. In our AMPs, they are still lower median mileage, compared to SF.

Now as far as why, first of all, the girls always like it. In some AMPs the girls will want to shift to FS before going over the top, but other times no, as they are really liking it and really getting into it. Some are surprised that I'll let them go all the way over the top. But then it goes to BJ, and then FS. I am good with them, and they cum easier and easier each time.

But why pleasure them when I am paying? Well usually the man is paying, one way or another. And it really is women who get more physical pleasure out of sex anyway, if it is well done.

And sex is mutual. Mostly what it is is getting the woman to let down her defenses, and let you pleasure her. Because pleasuring her is how you get a claim on her, move towards getting her belonging to you.

In some tantric schools the man is not to cum at all, as that way he can go very long and do lots of women. Either they don't come, or they just come on a portion of the rounds.

If you let her make you ejaculate, then you are telling her that are not proximally interested in fucking her. Even if you can do multiple rounds, that ejaculation is still one round less. If you really want her, you focus on FS loads because that has a much greater psychological effect on her, saving BJ 'till completion for some later times when you have a long time interval with her, and like when she is PMs.

DATY and FIV are capacity multipliers. BJ and HJ 'till completion are wasted capacity.

Also, you learn how to use your thumb with DATY, most of the time they explode right away, and the thumb gives their muscles something to clamp down on. Do that with her, and you've already got a claim on her because that experience blows her mind.

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And if you don't like her enough to do all these things with her, along with lots of DFKing, then why not just hold onto your money and go home?

Also I have found that when talking dirty with strippers, if you talk about FS, that often will piss them off. But if you talk about DATY, they usually love that kind of talk and you can really get her going, and then you can go to talking about FS too.

Girls like a guy who is clearly into DATY.

And you can get them going with massaging front side, back side, and all around the hips, abdominal, and lower back. And you can talk about this even in places where you can't do it. And you can talk about getting her juices flowing and give these juices a kind of greater than life significance, and talk about face sitting and not letting any of her juices get wasted.

Sometime it is easier to build this kind of stuff up when it is in no touching environments, and hence just talk, than it is to actually deliver. But it certainly gets the girl primed for everything.

And then when you can do it, the girls really love it.

The main negative about DATY is just the over all choreography. Doesn't seem to matter with highly experienced girls, just with the less experienced. They don't want their juices going back into their mouths.

So you have to wait until the time is right, and then suspend DFKing to DATY her. And then after it goes to BBBJ, and you have to wait a while before resuming DFKing.

SJG

Done it many times. It's always in addition to a BJ and FS.

Like Shailynn said, it's difficult to put it out if your mind if you see a particular girl go into VIP with someone else.

So I try to get to the club early, and pick a girl who hasn't done any VIP that day yet...

I would on OTC. I really enjoy it. I think most of the time I get it right and they do too. I never think about STD's. I've gone down on 99% of strippers and escorts.

Yes, 'cause I like it

I love to do it so if the opportunity presents itself...

I haven't done it since Monday and it was fun. Really don't care where sex workers have been because we're swingers and in any event I am impervious to all bad things.

Nope. It's a chore and I don't get anything out of it, to be honest I only do it with civvies because I basically have too.

Doing the maximum allowable with the girl ITC, gets you much closer to OTC, and to Toda La Noche with her.

And this is where The System (tm) can have a weakness. Passing up dry humping, HJ, and BJ ITC are fine. But you don't want to pass up chances of ITC DFKing, FIV, DATY, or FS. This stuff has a psychological effect on a girl. And if you don't like her enough to want to make it go that way, better to just go home.

SJG

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I have done DATY with a few strippers. Never ITC always OTC. If I'm going to get down and dirty like that its going to be in a private setting., like my bedroom!

I love skibum's answer, especially: "I haven't done it since Monday and it was fun." as well as: ". . . I am impervious to all bad things."

In the past couple of years I've come to the conclusion that life is too short to not lick the occasional stripper's pussy.

A woman fell into a coma. After a month, a nurse noticed that her brain monitor made a jump when the nurse sponged the woman's genitals. The nurse told the doctor, who called in the woman's husband.

The doctor said, "From what the nurse tells me, I think oral sex would bring your wife out of the coma. Be sure to make it last long enough to bring her back into consciousness."

The doctor closes the curtains around the woman's bed, and leaves the husband and wife alone in the room.

After an hour the doctor returns and calls out to the man, "Do you see any change in your wife?

The husband replies, "Yes. I think she choked to death."

I did DATY on a stripper once and it was heaven. Our oldest will be 21 this year PS: I still do her and when I'm lucky she brings a girlfriend home with her for both of us to enjoy

and yes we are married

!!!!!!

SJG

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Wow, I didn't know she could get pregnant that way, or did you have some guy's cum in your mouth when you went down on her?

I did DATY with all three dream strippers. Every time unless they were having their period. They all had frequent orgasms most of the times that we were together through a combination of DATY, fucking, and sex toys.

I find performing DATY extremely erotic. But I only do it with my most special strippers.

My fav DATY was when I first tongue fucked the DS in an extraordinarily deep and aggressive attack. She levitated. At least theee orgasms. I'm pretty sure that I posted the story shortly after it happened.

Yes, but pretty rare ITC, only two girls. In both cases I knew I was their first VIP of the day. Also no one mentioned, but I bet the rest of you are making a finger sniff check before going down. While no guarantee against STDs smelling and tasting fresh are 100% required. In both my ITC daty sessions the girls stood on the couch to give me easy and full access. One came so hard her legs crumpled and almost broke my nose. She was too sensitive to do anything for a 10 minute period but then it was my turn.

I find it extremely enjoyable and in college I had a reputation amongst some of the coeds who would come to my dorm room for a "massage". Someone mentioned the sweetness, and I can still remember the taste of many of the beautiful girls...literally sweet to the taste.

I'm usually able to provide multiple orgasms without getting tired. My technique varies so that it isn't straight tounge to the clit as traditional porn shows. The nicest compliment I ever received was when my dancer friends said " you eat pussy like a girl"... "Most guys get everything too wet, try to shove their tounge too early/often or try to suck the clit off my body." I'm not into any kind of porn, but if you watch women directed girl on girl it is pretty interesting and instructional.... So yes, if you can't tell, I love it.

Thanks for the topic and the opportunity to go down memory lane.

@Smith wrote: "I did DATY with all three dream strippers. They all had frequent orgasms..."

How can we forget the early stages of @Smith's midlife crisis, when he would write an erotic novel each time he paid one of his teenage prostitutes for sex?

These are prostitutes @Smith -- what a goofball

SJG - licking a pillow off your mom's couch in her basement DOES NOT COUNT AS DATY ON A STRIPPER!!!!!!!

@RandomLogic, so answer Shadow's question now that you've got your pot shot at JS69 out of the way....

Already did

I've done it once ITC, won't do it again ITC, but OTC is another story.

Almost always when OTC. Like Mr. Deuce said, I love 69 and 90% of my OTC has been with my ATF and she has always been clean, smelling & tasting. Once years ago she stood me up & I was pissed and went to my favorite club where I knew the bartender. I told her about being stood up and she pouted at the stage where a slim blonde new dancer was on stage. The bartender told me to take her to VIP and I'd forget being stood up. We did a one hour Champagne Room and we fucked and sucked and she begged me to eat her. She came over and over and then we finished with a BBBJCIM. That was the only time I enjoyed DATY with an unknown stripper who may very well have been with someone else earlier. My tongue hasn't fallen off yet.

Well, if gawker would do it, it can't be that bad...

@RandomLogic, so answer Shadow's question now that you've got your pot shot at JS69 out of the way....

Since you're so intent on sucking @Smith's cock @bubba, I'll give you a more complete answer. Did you see my post above, maybe 15 down?

In a more reckless time, I did DATY in strip clubs. In one long-past thread, I posted about one time, in particular, when a dancer stuck her crotch in my face, on stage, in a nude club. I went for it one stage, and we finished with BBFS in one of the semi-private rooms. Eventually went OTC with this dancer, and eventually got chlamydia. That was the end of the reckless stage for me. Now it's only with responsible college girl. As I pointed out above, DATY in a strip club is not without risk. You should worry about HPV throat cancer. Look it up if you're not familiar.

@Smith's period of writing erotic novels about his teenage hookers is one of TUSCL's most comical.

Yes. I like the power it gives me over them. I'm very sensitive to the pheromones a woman produces when she's turned on and when she cums. It flips a switch in me that helps me reach climax. Once a girl knows I'm good at it, I can usually get something for it.

The FBSM place I use counts DATY as one of their upgrades. When I find a girl I like, I'll get the full upgrade package one time, which also includes a CBJ. I'll do a spectacular job on the DATY so she'll want me to do it again. When I see her again, she'll ask if I'm getting the upgrade, and I say "no, the CBJ doesn't do it for me", but if you still want me to lick your pussy and make you cum 3 times, then stick it on up here. We end up in 69 position, and many times I'll start getting BBBJ as a thank you for the excellent DATY.

I've only done it ITC with 2 dancers, one each in my two favorite clubs, and only when I do 1 hr in VIP instead of 30 mins.

I always found it odd that girls who insist on condoms are eager to have their pussy licked. If you want me to lick yours, you should be willing to lick mine.

I have been with a woman who is like the old Tootsie Pop commercial "How many licks does it take?" One, two, three, pop!

no cooties for me. will not be passing the weed to you degenerates

I've done ITC DATY on a few occasions, and during every OTC session. Never had an OTC partner refuse it. I enjoy the intimacy of DATY, particularly when its reciprocated with a BBBJ.

I like bubba267's comment about the finger sniff test. Sick and tired of funky pussies. Will start a thread about a recent experience.

I've done 3 ITC thru the years that i can recall and the last 1 was several years ago. First 1 was in a private lap dance area, second 2 were just quick licks when they flashed their pussies while on the main floor. I did it because i knew they were dancers with good hygiene and i was their first customer of the night and they tasted fresh with no odors.

I've been tested for STDs a dozen times since the last time and always test good so i survived with no ill effects. With the drop in dancer quality since those times i no longer have the desire to lick their slits.

I also did 1 OTC who again i knew was clean and i licked her pussy for 20 minutes, it was great!

daty is the optional fall back postion... although i usually enjoy a bj first... then 69... then fs...

@randommember, missed your first post, sorry. Agree with the risk presented by specific strain of HPV and link to throat cancer. BTW you and Dougster seem to have a consistent fascination with gayness and sucking dicks, but it's not my style. However I recognize your personal dislike of JS69. I'm more of a live and let live kind of guy, but to each his own.I was having fun with you with RandomLogic. You seemed to like it last time.

I used to do it all the time at one of my former favorite clubs. I even did a threesome where I did it with both and they did it with each other. I would love to find another girl to do regular DATY with, but it just isn't happening.

LOL! So you do have a sense of humor @Bubba. That's nice.

Of all the monikers I've had on TUSCL (@RandomLoser, @RandumMurmur, @RandomAsshole, @DumDum, @RandomTroll), I would say @RandomLogic is one of the more creative. Good job!!!

I can assure you that I don't dislike @Smith; in fact I've done everything possible to help him. I've been on his ignore list for almost 2 years, and that's just so, so, unfair!

He's definitely one of the more entertaining guys on the board: Powerful $600K lawyer who's in the grip of an epic midlife crisis. Some teenage girl sucked his dick the first night, but he fell in love with her, divorced his wife, and turned his hooker into an extremely well-paid sugar baby. He smokes weed just like a rebellious teen (to be fair, I did too at age 14). His feature-length erotic novels about his paid sex sessions with teenage prostitutes were pure TUSCL gold -- 8 orgasms every time!!

Guess it's just a case of jealousy. My prostitutes take my money and count every second until I get off of them...

I also would like to be in a position to smoke weed like @JohnSmith69. Unfortunately, I'm not a lawyer so if the wrong kind of shady went down, it would really cut into my clubbing funds.

Libertarians are Republicans like JohnSmith69 who have decided that they want to smoke weed and get laid.

SJG

Only OTC with a select few I know well and trust and if only she cleans herself first. It is a good thing to do after a BJ so I can have a little time to recover.

I enjoy DATY, but with strippers / sex workers the disease risk is too high. To each their own.