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10 years ago
Ibbaicni, please don't give SJG any ideas.
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10 years ago
I think she's barking up the wrong tree.
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10 years ago
Aravas, what area of the country are you looking at and what are you looking to spend?
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10 years ago
Gawker, like others have said, you've gone above and beyond for her; you shouldn't have any regrets for trying to be as humane as possible. I'm sure that her mother and her friend also greatly appreciate your efforts. But you can only do so much; your ATF has to learn to pick herself up; she has to learn how to dust herself off and walk on her own. Let's hope that your efforts and those of others in her life have sown those seeds so she can do just that.
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10 years ago
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EastCoasterI strongly prefer women of color. Every color.
Something about the abbreviation for Alcohol Law Enforcement being "ALE" just strikes me as a little humorous.
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10 years ago
No offense, man, but if you're posting that sort of question here, it sounds like you not only have doubts on the proposed scenario but you're also looking for some validation.
If you're looking for the wife's approval, I wouldn't expect an honest seal of approval either. I have yet to meet a woman who will give a direct and honest answer like most men; what I've seen have been more along the lines of "tests" and, no matter what you do, no matter what answer she gives you, you'll have lost.
You might also want to consider walking in her shoes in this situation: How would you feel if your wife said she needed to step out?
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10 years ago
The thing with online sites like Priceline, Hotwire, and others is that you have to pay up front. If you need to cancel, well, you're stuck with the cost (unless there's some major extenuating circumstances, then they might work with you). If you can reserve a room directly with the hotel, either by phone or online, you should be able to cancel by their deadline (usually either 4 or 6pm) and not incur any penalty fees.
Also, if you want to do some online scouting of hotels, I'd suggest checking out TripAdvisor to get ideas on hotels and how good they might be.
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10 years ago
It sounds like that should be "Mr. Smith," not "Mr. Thomas" ; P
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10 years ago
Shark, are you talking about the Ashley Madison site?
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10 years ago
Naw, I got to work all night. Typical weekend for me. *sigh*
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10 years ago
mjx01, nope, not yet. I'll have to PM Founder tonight after work.
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10 years ago
John, maybe you should try to set up some side-by-side comparisons for those kisses.
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10 years ago
The closest I came to any of that was last year when a dancer I had met for the first time asked me to give her a ride home. She said that I didn't give her a "creepy old perv" vibe.
*sigh*
I'm going to have to work on that vibe.
And, no, I didn't get anything. Well, not unless you count a lot of little pecks on the mouth.
Yeah. I'm really going to have to work on that vibe.
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10 years ago
"5. For OTC..." I usually mention that I wish we could do more.
"8. Ask her about her shoes." Seriously? Are we supposed to talk to her about "Sex and the City" next? Or maybe ask her where we can get some serious stripper shoes in size 12?
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10 years ago
I don't know what sort of place you work at, but do you have access to a fridge of some sort at work? Maybe you could pull out, say, $20 a couple times a week (have to spend some money on lunch) and then actually brown bag it?
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10 years ago
I've never been married and never will be, but I've known a couple of married guys who went to the strip clubs and their wives didn't mind; they didn't seem to mind where those guys drove their cars just as long as they parked in the right garages. Another old friend didn't mind her husband going out to the clubs with me either; her sister was up in arms about it (nuts, she just about locked us out of her apartment) but the wife had nothing but trust in her husband.
Course, all of this was twenty-some-odd years ago, too, when the clubs were far more pay-per-view than pay-for-play. What the wives would feel today, I have no idea.
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10 years ago
John, I thought sure at one time you mentioned she had brought up other drugs. And, yes, it can be addictive. It's rare, but it does happen.
http://www.drugabuse.gov/publications/research-reports/marijuana/marijuana-addictive
http://www.ask.com/wiki/Cannabis_dependence?lang=en
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10 years ago
6. All of the above.
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10 years ago
John, how many drugs has your DS introduced to you or tried to introduce to you? Seriously -- you really think she ISN'T an addict?
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10 years ago
I've always preferred how "The Boondocks" did Christmas.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjxGvyPAY5A
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FLLVm51WfTA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YxobEshdvcI
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10 years ago
If nothing else, John, maybe he'll introduce you to a masseuse who'll wash your car for you. Good luck.
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10 years ago
Ouch. Shit. Reminds me a lot of "The World According to Garp" with Robin Williams.
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10 years ago
Shit, neither one of them are in the least bit attractive. And you can't tell me that the American woman doesn't get some sort of high going under the knife; she has a serious addiction to surgery, as well as some major body image problems. Course, at least she's trying to look like some form of human being. There's a woman in New York who's rumored to have spent about $4 million in plastic surgery -- so she could look more like a cat!
http://www.ask.com/wiki/Jocelyn_Wildenstein?lang=en
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10 years ago
I paid for my membership, too. Considering I only get to club two or three times a year, getting reviews out on any regular basis is problematic.
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10 years ago
And if he did ass enlargements?
Ass-o, Kardashian-o!