Comments by canny (page 20)

The owners, definitely the owners.

I agree with everyone else. Talk to them and ask.

I've been out in public with dancers several times. I live in a big enough area that I've never been seen by anyone I know and they don't want to be seen by anyone they know either so we stay anonymous.

While I won't suck on a dancer's nipples. I've seen how many men go straight from the men's room to a dance where they feel a dancer's chest without washing their hands first and I don't really want my mouth anywhere near that!

The key word there is sensual, meaning soft.

For a lap dance, I won't get one if I can't touch her on her chest. For anything more than a lap dance I expect her to "grind" on me gently and allow me to touch her chest and butt. I also expect her to be nude, but I don't touch between the legs. Anything more than that I consider extra and more than what I went in for.

Strippers are independent contractors and they only do what they want to do. I know a few strippers who won't do dances with black men or men who are too overweight.

Strippers are people, just like we are. Many of them enjoy sex and if they decide that they want to have sex with you, there you go.

At what point are the companies involved legally entitled to reimbursement from the town for lost revenue because the town is unlawfully denying them permission to open a legal business that the courts ordered the town to let them open?

True, but trusting them 100% is a mistake. That stripper needs to get slapped down hard.

And, condoms leak. They're only about 85% effective. They're promoted as being "up to...." effective but the truth is they aren' always that effective.

You mean meeting them for lunch and visiting them at their house? Or running into them at random? I've done the first more times than I can count, but I've never run into one at random. I have run into someone who is currently stripping who I knew from work at the club where she strips and that was awkward to say the least.

Why FS without a condom is a bad, bad idea. Especially with a stripper or prostitute. I thought that most of them were smart enough to insist on condoms though.

I'm a solid 5. I won't go anywhere where 2 way contact isn't available and I'm not going for extras, although they have been offered a few times.

Why? For $50 the bouncers will turn off the camera in your room and they are also there for our protection. There are no fights there and the club serves free alcohol.

There is a club where I live with doors, video cameras, and aggressive bouncers. I've seen the bouncers take someone out of that club and I will never cause problems there. FD, safety is what counts, not open doorways. That club is a lot safer than other clubs in the area with a single bouncer and curtains instead of doors.

What about doors and cameras with bouncers monitoring the cameras?

I prefer as much privacy as possible, including for a basic lap dance.

There are a lot of dancers who don't do extras and they all complain about how hard it is to compete with the dancers who do extras. How can a stripper who won't do extras compete with a different stripper who needs the money so badly that she gives every customer a hand job for an extra $20?

@JayJaydancer you just hit on why I don't ask for "extras". I don't have a STD and I don't feel the need to go out and get one either. I'm kind of attached to being healthy. If the economy stays in the toilets expect to see more girls offering extras and more club managers looking the other way and pretending that they don't want extras happening in their clubs. I've been told by a couple of dancers that customers aren't spending as much as we used to and some dancers are making up for that by offering extras.

Ohio's laws are strict, but I've gotten more liberal dances there than in other states with looser laws.

If she asks you to smack her, choke her, or pull her hair do whatever you enjoy doing. If you don't like to inflict pain, don't do it. The stripper who asked me to spank her says, "harder" every time I spank her because she likes to get spanked harder than I like to spank her. I'm not into hurting people, and I especially don't want to hit her hard enough to leave bruises which is what she wants.

It's in the burgh, and the owner officially discourages extras there. Needless to say, they happen everywhere including at the clubs which have cameras.

I had a dancer who is a friend of mine outside of the club tell me that the only way to make it stripping is to offer extras. She doesn't and her income has gone down so much that she's thinking about finding something else to do for a living. She said that she can't compete with the girls who offer extras and the club she works at has cameras everywhere and the owner tries to keep extras from happening.

Strippers work when they can earn money. When they can't earn money, they won't go in to work. That's why the number of strippers in a club goes up the later it gets, they earn their money after midnight, not at 7 PM. The same goes for which nights they work, they earn more money on Friday and Saturday than any other nights.