Newbie questions: touching conundrum. (dancers opinions welcomed)
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(Skip to the TLDR at the bottom if you don't feel like reading)
In my short time going to strip clubs I've learnt through conversation that dancers don't like to be randomly touched and groped, fair enough. To be honest I had enough common sense and too little cojones to go grabbing and touching strippers as they walked by.
So I sit and watch the dances and as they walk by I smile put a tip where ever it would fit smile and they would go on their way. that was me, there were a lot of guys just like me so at least I knew I wasn't doing anything out of the normal.
But then there were these other guys, and what I saw was dancers on the dollar train being touched by these guys. In general here's what happened; They walk up to a customer and ask to be tipped for their stage dance. The customer would then ask to see them shake a little or whatever, while they did that he's cop a feel, grope, tap, slap, and then give the dancer the tip.
...fucking diabolical... why didn't I think of that, curse my tiny cojones!
the only thing that made me feel better was the look on the faces of these dancers which was basically "all that shit for just a dollar"
The other thing I noticed was the "improvement" of that guy. He would do the same thing but in between all the grabbing and groping he would keep tipping. The dancer walked away with a few dollars more without the strange look on her face.
This is the guy I would like to emulate, but more importantly I don't want to be a creep or weirdo.
(TLDR:) So is tipping a few dollars more after their stage dances enough for a little extra caressing and touching.
What say you guys?
And What say you dancers?
Thanks!
In my short time going to strip clubs I've learnt through conversation that dancers don't like to be randomly touched and groped, fair enough. To be honest I had enough common sense and too little cojones to go grabbing and touching strippers as they walked by.
So I sit and watch the dances and as they walk by I smile put a tip where ever it would fit smile and they would go on their way. that was me, there were a lot of guys just like me so at least I knew I wasn't doing anything out of the normal.
But then there were these other guys, and what I saw was dancers on the dollar train being touched by these guys. In general here's what happened; They walk up to a customer and ask to be tipped for their stage dance. The customer would then ask to see them shake a little or whatever, while they did that he's cop a feel, grope, tap, slap, and then give the dancer the tip.
...fucking diabolical... why didn't I think of that, curse my tiny cojones!
the only thing that made me feel better was the look on the faces of these dancers which was basically "all that shit for just a dollar"
The other thing I noticed was the "improvement" of that guy. He would do the same thing but in between all the grabbing and groping he would keep tipping. The dancer walked away with a few dollars more without the strange look on her face.
This is the guy I would like to emulate, but more importantly I don't want to be a creep or weirdo.
(TLDR:) So is tipping a few dollars more after their stage dances enough for a little extra caressing and touching.
What say you guys?
And What say you dancers?
Thanks!
15 comments
sounds like a pretty nice hobby
Don't concentrate on the boobus maximus - concentrate on the whole woman including her brain. Invest without taking and see what's happening during your 3rd or 4th visit. That means of course that you'll have to socialize - talk to them because they are human beings and almost all like to be able to relate in some way to their customers. The few that don't aren't worth your time.
Try it and let us know in a month how you are doing
It worked out great for me I had an awesome time, but I'm worried I came off creepy.
I'm not really trying to get a connection with these women, I'm super polite and understand that they are people and all that.
but if this way of conducting a strip club visit is off putting to the dancers I'll just go back to giving the girls on the dollar train a buck and a smile and picking one girl to get lap dances from.
What's the hurry? Instead of cheapie buck tips, continue your 4 to 5 $$$ and pick out one who seems nice and responsive.
Bring her to your table. Ask her if she'd like a drink. Start a conversation. After a while, MORE THAN 10 Mins, ask her about geting a dance from her. Ask her what she thinks is important or provocative to do for her customers during a dance and what she likes her customers to do. If her answers tell you directly or indirectly that she could satisfy what you want, bingo!
Touching the conundrum costs extra.
"How do you feel about a creepy old pervert groping your tender bits while you sit on his lap?"
I find that those types of questions of questions tend to be moderately well received if I don't try anything before asking.