Shades of S&M

11/14/2011 11:19:25 AM

First of all, I am not a dom or a sub. And some of you guys might be. So those of you who are might have to recuse yourselves from this thread. But for everybody else, have you ever had a girl ask to be smacked, spanked, choked, hit, restrained, etc., in the club and it was uncomfortably more than just a flirty, play-acting, innocent gesture of S&M? Did you go ahead and whack them anyway? What if it genuinely hurt and they actually liked it--did you cut it off right there? I don't like to inflict pain and I don't like to get manipulated or maneuvered into even pretending that I am. So I just play along a little bit and then quickly bail out of it. Does this happen often to you? Is it happening more now?

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bang69

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13 years ago

I had one dancer ask me to smack her ass.But she was my gf at the time. Does that count

canny

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13 years ago

If she asks you to smack her, choke her, or pull her hair do whatever you enjoy doing. If you don't like to inflict pain, don't do it. The stripper who asked me to spank her says, "harder" every time I spank her because she likes to get spanked harder than I like to spank her. I'm not into hurting people, and I especially don't want to hit her hard enough to leave bruises which is what she wants.

shadowcat

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13 years ago

No thanks.

georgmicrodong

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13 years ago

Consider me recused. :)

mikeya02

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13 years ago

A dancer I just met, after two dances, gave me her number for otc. She said she likes her hair pulled, choking, gagging, and being fucked in the ass while being tied up. I never did for a couple of reasons. I found out later she is on the internet as a porn actress.