Comments by LeeH (page 7)

Every ATF I've ever had was smart enough to know that she would get the lion's share of my attention and my money. They all would occasionally pimp out another dancer for a LD or two if she (the other dancer) was having a slow night. I only had one that even *played* at being jealous, but I wasn't able to get more than 5 words out to calm her supposed jealousy before she cracked up and told me she was kidding. I don't think I could have an ATF that was petty enough to get jealous.

Hell, there aren't that many rules in a MARRIAGE. I'm sure not going to patronize a SC that ran that way.

I agree with most of what pabloantonio said, except for the implication of #6 that an escort wouldn't ever care about you. I've only seen one escort (for a few times) and then when I was attached for a while, we still got together every now and then, just for dinner or something. Granted, she and I are both in our 40s -- a 20-something escort isn't going to cook you dinner.

Like a lot of people, jamesday's reading comprehension is shit. A whole bunch of people say "yes, escorts are cheaper, but here are the 8 million reasons that dancers can be better", so his reply is "but escorts are cheaper".

Besides the fact that everything on this site is fiction (wink, wink), you need to keep in mind that anyone's opinion is just that -- opinion. Anyone who's tells you differently ("no one like this" or "everyone likes that") is full of shit. Hell, I'd call shenanigans on any proclamation that purports an issue of taste that goes any further than the writer himself. The school girl look doesn't work for every dancer, but can be awesome for some. I don't even think that you can quantify what attributes the dancer has to have to pull it off (e.g. one commenter here said that you have to look like you really could still be in school -- I totally disagree). If the look is working for you, keep going with it and don't worry what some random idiot here says.

One club - maybe 4 hours. But I'll do a club crawl as a birthday present to myself sometimes. Biggest time was 4 clubs in about 10 hours. Probably dropped about $700. A good time was had by all.

Only experienced it with one dancer in several years. She was a very interesting character, so I'd chalk up ANY differences in action to how different she was as a person. It was everything from light kisses to DFK, depending on her mood, I guess. But most of the kissing occurred during lap dances or in the "afterglow" of a VIP -- never in the heat of the moment. The oddest time was right in the middle of the main floor. She was giving me a fairly tame (for her) LD, but leaned in at one point and gave me the most severe hickey I've ever had. Ran into Bram Stoker on the way out of the club and he said, "Dude, WTF happened to you?"

The soul patch on that guy should be XXX in and of itself

Another article says: "Supporters ... contend that strip clubs should shoulder some of the costs of rape investigations because the establishments can cultivate unhealthy attitudes toward women ..." So it's all Dougster's fault.

All the males in this story are idiots.

farmerart: "Hell, no! It is about the only hair left on my body that isn't tinged with grey or that hasn't turned pure white." Saw Craig Ferguson doing stand-up. He said he started going gray on his head first. Then chest and stomach. "You know what's next. And I don't need to look distinguished down there."

Dammit, Ohio, what's the point of my having Dougie on my iggy list if you're gonna quote his ass? ;-)

Look up "misogyny" in the dictionary. You'll see his picture. Dude makes Eminem look like Gloria Steinem.

Most club owners would rather have your $10 cover tonight rather than several Benjamins tomorrow night.

It's a total crap shoot. Some clubs lie through their teeth. Some are honest. And some are just stucking fupid. If you can get the number of the dressing room, instead of the main number for the club, I have found that house mom's tend to be more honest. Now if your girl isn't there, she may try to sell you on seeing someone else, but at least she's honest.

OhioVoyeur: "does NOT seem like the PTP type" She doesn't use BitTorrent? (What's PTP?)

500 opinions already given, so I'll give mine, too. First of all, no one can say what it means. They can only give their experiences. (Plus, any guy that can say what any action taken by a woman "means" is an idiot.) Over the course of about 3 years of clubbing, I've probably gotten about 20 numbers. All of the ones that I bothered trying (at least 8-10) were legit for at least 6 months -- some remain so 2.5 years later. The time I get numbers most often is when I'm interested in a dancer and I ask what her usual schedule is (many times, if in a mood to go to a club, it's to see someone in particular, at least for a bit, rather than seeing random naked titties). Usually it's "my usual sched is XYZ, but my number is ABC -- text me earlier in the day to be sure that I'm going to be here that night." I've only had one dancer abuse my number (that she got when I texted to her) with lots of "come see me" messages. I just ignored those. I've had two others that used it sparingly (maybe once or twice) in that kind of unsolicited manner. Those I don't mind -- hell, usually I thought, "hey, now that's a good idea -- there's nothing on TV anyway." I've had three that I've used just for general communication (beyond "you gonna be at the club tonight?"). For instance, one fave got preggers. She waitressed from the time she showed til a couple weeks before giving birth, then was out til the child was about a month old. Over those 6 weeks, I kept up with her to see how she (and eventually, the baby) were doing. Another fave quit dancing, but we continued to keep up over texting for several months after she "retired". BTW, I only use a Google Voice number. And it's rarely forwarded to my real phone anyway. The only downside to this was that one dancer wanted to send me pix at random times, mostly just to fuck with my head (sitting in meeting at work, phone vibrates, look down, there's a pussy pic) but GV doesn't allow MMS. :(

I second Che's request

Did I miss it or did no one point out that the asshat's *nom de plume* is I. C. Wiener?

Hey, what if you made it rain with about $100 -- IN PENNIES !!!!

What was that country song? "How Can I Miss You When You Won't Go Away?"

Refusal to do BBFS isn't exactly an issue of "modesty", DoctorDarby. ;-)

"We are there to make money not for your free visual entertainment." My "free" entertainment includes a $10 - $20 cover charge and a $5 charge (not counting tip) for 13 cents worth of flat Coca-Cola (assuming I only have one). My heart bleeds that you don't see any of that, but you really need to look up the definition of words before you use them. Especially those really obscure ones like "free". As to the kind of clubs I frequent, two of the three dancers that I dated worked in relatively upscale clubs. It's just that I don't treat others like shit and jump to insane conclusions about them. When a customer who's regularly complimented on his gentlemanly ways thinks that your demands are way over-the-top, maybe it's time to consider a career change.

In most clubs, the lighting already sucks. I'm not a fan of adding to my vision problems.

@Ghosty -- stop it with the "hate" crap. Just because someone says something ridiculous and someone else points it out doesn't mean they "hate" them.