picking up the hot bartender in the club !

I can't say that I've picked up a bartender, but now that you mention it, that should be my next goal. At least bartenders have morals lol.

Hell ya men ! I knew I wasn't the only 1 : )

OhioVoyeur: "does NOT seem like the PTP type"

She doesn't use BitTorrent? (What's PTP?)

PTP is either pay to play or pulp toilet paper.

I say if you can't pick up a bartender, then she's too fat to fuck anyway.

You guys can pickup all the bartenders you wish, but I'll stick with barmaids! :)

LMAO, Clubber, that's not what the bartenders down there tell me.

vm,

You and I only saw barmaids, as I recall. But then, maybe you were looking where I wasn't. :)

That is true, ma friend. I get around. People show me the most amazing things at times. The pics I've seen of you would make most of us blush. LMAO Back to the subject, I haven't tried to pick up a barmaid of late, juice, but long ago, there was this absolutely stunning blonde who came into the restaurant I managed and sat at the bar with her mom. We talked for awhile that night and eventually I made it to the bar where she worked (not a strip club, by the way) While I chit chatted with her, this redhead sitting at the bar started making moves on me. LOL. I ended up dating both of them,and fucked them both. Just be you, that's my advice. I can't say it any better than that. If it's meant to be, it will be.

vm,

I think your last sentence is quite accurate. Seems that is often the way my life as evolved.

I know of some bartenders and waitresses who used to be dancers and still look pretty good. I usually don't flirt that much. I do remember getting friendly with a waitress one time. I wasn't giving her any big tips at all. She was bringing me free drinks to sample. I believe I've had two different bartenders flash me their boobs. They were trying to get me to remember them. I do remember seeing some nice boobs. In one club, I remember I had guys all over the club thanking me for getting the bartender to do that. It wasn't even my idea.

I remember my first ATF became a waitress at one point but she still wanted to dance for me. She would have me sneak off with her and grab a chair and dance for me behind a door. At that point I didn't want to do anything more with her. She told me she was pregnant even though she wasn't showing yet. Her boyfriend left her so I helped her out by continuing to get dances from her for a while.

I have had zero success with bartenders, but some limited success with waitresses (of strip clubs).

I like to sweet talk the waitresses about how good they are a juggling tables and remembering orders. I try to get them to do shots with the dancers and I, and/or buy them drinks. After tipping heavily (25-40%) a couple of visits, I ask them if they dance or would consider switching to the dark side, just for me. Universally this never works because they have mentally separated themselves from "doing what dancers do."

I have gotten two phone numbers (out of like 10-12 "projects"), and went on dates with both. Scored once for free, had to pay OTC rates with the other. Thanks to TUSCL, I have learned how to get that hot stripper love. For some reason I've gotten greedy, and try my hand waitresses and shot girls.

Good luck, it can be done!

Philosopy evolves in time. What I said there was true, as you note, Clubber. Barmaids, waitresses are human. If you are decent enough to them, who knows. There was a waitress at my ATF club, I always had the hots big time for her. We got to know each other somewhat over the years, I wasn't a big tipper, but I let her know how good she and one of the other waitresses were. I was in the restaurant business a long time and knew a good server when I saw them. We never did go out, right before that club closed for extensive renovation, she was just too busy to go out. I finally gave up. But juice, ma man ! Just be you !

vm,

My favorite barmaid (knew her first as a dancer) used to call me when new dancers came into the club that she thought I'd like. That was a big help. When the last club she was working at closed for renovation, she disappeared. I guess I could call her. She's had the same phone for years.