Comments by Propsi

I declined one dancer at XTC when I found my atf who was straight up with me. This dancer kept trying to proposition me from the other by licking her lips and sticking out her tongue.

I think Papi hit it on the head. Like any jobby, ups and downs and even burnouts. Heck, I have escorts I like but I still hit the clubs.

She was a slightly older dancer,mid 30s or so. Black with a nice ass and high mileage in vip. She stood out from the other dancers not just in hc, but in my travels as well.

Had one not too long ago. First time ever. It was a fantasy turned reality.

Thanks, MrDeuce. Your review was one of the many I saw recently and had me considering XTC.

^This. First impressions are also lasting impressions. Some dancers are snobbish, but not all of them (obviously). It's playing the odds. Some dancers are terrible as far as actual pole dance moves, but have really down to earth personalities that make you want to do business with them. Hobbies are usually fun things that give us joy, not ulcers or a bottle of zanax.

I feel for you, RTP. I think some (if not, most) of us have been there at some point or another. I had an arrangement where I was getting nudes from a hot dancer in my area (paid her well, no club involvement), and never seemed to seal the deal on OTC despite me being good for the money. You have to chalk it to experience, a transaction based relationship as impala put it, and move forward with the next fave or even switch up things. I'm thinking more along the lines of the E word since it's more straightforward. I enjoy strippers on a lot of levels, and they are out to first and foremost profit (no question there) but the least some could do to narrow the field is be honest about the hustle, even when it comes to OTC.

Well, some of the talent will be scattered throughout the area and Baltimore could pick up some of the willing talent. It's sad since those clubs served a purpose, but the county wants things its way. Well, more money for every other county and city then.

I was like that until late last year. Told my family, and they understand (if anything, I think they were glad since I was such a homebody for so long). I go to the clubs by myself because I can enjoy it a little better compared to having a lot of people with me.

^I double that with chessmaster. I learned being the same way inside and outside the club works better mentally because you can keep a clear head above all else.

I've had those in spots, but that's where you scout talent to make up in case one of your ATF disappears or leaves for the night. It takes time to find alternatives, especially in the same club and learning the rotations and all.

Nice way to sell coffee...Very nice!

I understand. Best advice ever, Papi-Chulo. Thanks. Some of you guys have been helpful (even fierce in your help in someways, but appreciated). I'll have updates either way it goes down.

Lol! I appreciate the thought, Rech. As for everyone else, I hear you (hope if that's a movie it earns an Oscar). Believe me, I have looked at myself. I realize life is too short. I lost someone really dear to me to cancer, and it made me look at myself hard in the mirror. I messed up in spots in traditional dating where I was foolish, got way too involved with the wrong girls, and put myself out there for disappointment, embarrassment, and heartbreak. One girl was so insanely in love with me (despite saying the feeling wasn't mutual) she branded my name in her arm and it scared the living hell out of me. I let a lot of that get to me and put me in a cycle for a long time. Just stayed focus on earning money and climbing ladders of success. I figured that maybe something would've happened in my 20s, but that hasn't been the case. At this point with so much on my plate in mid-stride of the success and challenges, I can't deal with the rigors of a real relationship, especially now.

Ouch, Shailynn. It was my choice more than anything else to keep it. Thought things would work out like they normally do in the movies (fall in love, get frisky, that kind of thing). Waited, waited...and nothing. Instead of getting laid, I ran into all kinds of crazy in my life. But now things are settling down and I want to do it.

Thanks, Bavarian. I'll try. Well, Rech, my birthday is in December. The average in in my area is $300. The hotel room is booked and at a low price in a nice area.

Wow! I'm actually taking all of this in. Very good stuff, everyone. I'm learning a lot in a short time. I think I'll have to start a new thread regarding advice for something.

I have met a few who are either in the middle of degree programs and those who need the extra money. Not too many for the fun, but at least three of them in my short travels have stated it was a life choice more than anything else.

Subraman has a good point. I've never tried that method myself (usually cause a party on a budget). Normally, I buy my dancers drinks and flirt for a while before doing VIP.

I just fell into it after going to a few places and yearning to seek recommendations on the best spots. Since then, I've been doing reviews and having tons of fun.

One of my favorite dancers was a girl named Storm. When I asked her, she said: Storm: Yep. Me: Storm? Storm: Uh Huh. Me: Storm as in...Storm from the X-Men? Storm: ^_^ I couldn't make it up even if I tried.

The strangest name I've heard for a stripper was Cinnamon. Yes, her name was Cinnamon.

Well, I've been lucky so far. Been dealing her a bit and a few others and no problems. Get myself check before and after each meeting.

Yes and no. It's when a girl turns around and wiggles it in your face and you just dive it, shaking your head back and forth. No actual sucking. Pretty much a face wash.