Strip Club Loner
IronFox22
Ohio
Just curious: Are there many of you that keep your strip club habits completely to yourselves? I'm not talking about the rare bachelor party that crops up every once in awhile in which you and all your friends go and have a rather tame time.
I'm talking about the stuff that gets discussed here--high mileage dances, grindage, the opportunity for extras.
No one else in my life--family members, close friends, coworkers--knows that I even go to the clubs. It's something that I've kept entirely and completely to myself, and I'm very happy that I have. Anyone else here like this?
I'm talking about the stuff that gets discussed here--high mileage dances, grindage, the opportunity for extras.
No one else in my life--family members, close friends, coworkers--knows that I even go to the clubs. It's something that I've kept entirely and completely to myself, and I'm very happy that I have. Anyone else here like this?
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But it's not like I've gone out of my way to purposefully keep it from them either---it's just not the type of thing that comes up in conversations
My family loves hearing my LDK and VHM stories.
I am lucky enough that I've always had a crew of guys who enjoy the strip club the same way I do (although one of my buddies is recruiter-in-chief and always finding new guys), and for me at least, SCing with fellow PLs blows away SCing alone -- in fact, I'm quite convinced almost everyone who prefers SCing alone would prefer to do it in a group IF they had the right group... at least based on my experience, there's been a ton of guys rotated through our crew, and once they SC with us, that tends to be the way they do it from now on. Just too many advantages... I hear "I never knew SCing could be like this" or similar sentiments all the time.
One of the surprising things is how many middle aged men just hop aboard -- guys I would NEVER have pegged as SC guys. I'll mention going to the SC, making it a little joke, and if they super perk up while trying not to appear too interested, that's when I know it's safe to invite them.
BUT! If you're married, you have to pick guys who aren't going to blab (even by accident), preferably aren't socializing with you and your wife all the time, etc.
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To me the people I go with are there to do what they would do normally only we divide and conquer.
With one we went out clubbing together after his divorce and have talked about going again and just never set it up. His daughter was a door girl at one of the sc's here in the Phoenix area and he was fine with that but didn't want her dancing. He's as big a horn dog as all of us here. I've mentioned doing otc with a dancer to him and he asks for details.
Another is one of my best friends from college we hit sc's together with our frat brothers and I've mentioned some of my exploits to him because I know he won't blab it around.
There was a guy I worked with who also loved going to sc's and we would hit the clubs after work. He moved to Iowa and when business took me to his city we hooked up and went clubbing there as well.
I don't however talk about it with family. They would not be too happy about it.
A couple of years ago while she was cutting my hair, I was talking about another upcoming business trip to Atlanta, and she just paused the conversation for a minute. She said, "I don't know if you're into such things, but you know Atlanta is famous for its strip clubs."
She talked about visiting a couple clubs there once, and some around here, and all the while I was biting my tongue. Finally I said to her, "I'm going to tell you something I have never shared with anyone else." And, because I know this woman quite well and trust her completely, I told her that in the last 15 years I have been to more than 100 strip clubs all across the US, in Canada, and in Tijuana. All my clubbing is confined to when I travel out of town, and whenever I see her (which is about once every five weeks), she asks for a complete report.
She is totally into women (as well as men), and she has had some pretty explicit exploits in clubs around the local area. At first it was kind of weird for me to be sharing my travel stories with anyone outside of TUSCL, but it's kind of liberating in a way. It's also fun that she's so into it. I don't club locally (too risky being seen by anyone who knows me or would tell my wife), but sometimes when my wife is out of town, I'll travel an hour away to visit clubs, and I've been begging Ginger to come with me. She has a boyfriend, and so far, because of that, she has said no, but I'm still hoping that someday we'll be able to do that. I really prefer to go clubbing alone, but I would go with her in a heartbeat.
The topic of SCs comes up every now and then w/ male acquaintances in the context of “what I like to do for fun” – but I really never meet anyone else who has the zeal for SCs that I do or the ability to do it as I do either due to their family obligations or their financial situation.
I’m not good at multi-tasking; so trying to socialize w/ others and getting my SC freak-on at the same time does not work well for me – I got do either one to fully enjoy either one fully – also; I go to $5/dance small black clubs and often times I’m getting dances 75% of the total time I’m there; so not the best set-up for socializing – in a club w/ $25 LDs; I of course get lots of less dances and can see myself shooting the bull a bit more.
Actually – IME often times the hustlers (dancers) like to hit the big-groups – either b/c of the more potential targets and $$$; or they figure these guys are here to have fun and spend.
1. First and foremost, having someone to share with. If you don't SC with friends with whom you have full disclosure ... it makes the SCing experience much more fun, and practically therapeutic. Keeping an important part of your life bottled up takes a toll on everyone, period. Also, guys to hang out with on the commute to and from the strip clubs. The commute home, with storytime sharing, is always awesome. We get things like:
Buddy1: I took Porsche in the back but she barely let me touch anywhere?
Buddy2: That sucks... Jade let me touch her pussy
Buddy3: I stuck my tongue in Jade's asshole
All of us: Ohhhh! (said in an Italian-American voice like in The Soprano's)
Anyway, the stories home are as good as the trip itself.
2. Always a fun party at the table. We just drift in and out of conversation. I'll be talking with just my girl for 20 minutes, then a round of shots will show up for the table and we'll all whoop it up and do the shots together, then maybe the whole table will be bantering together, then back to just me & my girl, then maybe we'll riposte with the couple next to us .... I don't know where guys get this notion that it would be distracting, you focus on your girl as much as you want ... and de-focus on her when it's fun to do so.
3. Loads of other little advantages... if a guy gets a great or terrible dance in the back, he'll tell the rest of us. We'll often send one girl off to grab other girls we want to our table, and seem to have a huge edge in getting the in-demand girls at our table because of it. I tend to get along with the bouncers, and they'll come by and have drinks with us and give my whole table extra leeway in the back. My one buddy got in good with a bartender and she would often give us free rounds, or top-shelf rounds at bottom-shelf prices, etc. And extra benefit: not all strip clubs are in nice neighborhoods, just feel safer to be rolling 4 heads deep
Oddly enough - years ago I would hit the clubs with my brother in law. The last buddy who knew - was a previous boss - who had a similar addiction. Back then - we were both married. He's still married now - and I'm not. It wasn't the clubbing that caused my problems - but it didn't help them either.
My oldest daughter figured out that I go pretty often, but I don't think she's cottoned to the fucking part. If she has, she hasn't told either me or my wife.
A couple of friends and coworkers know I go, but I sure as fuck hope they never find out about the sex. There are some holier than thou motherfuckers working there, and I would almost certainly lose my job.
My bother used to do the same thing, but as far as I can tell, he doesn't have a clue about the extent of my activity. If he did, he'd have mentioned it.
I used to have a couple guys from work I'd go with. But now, I go alone.
I prefer to go alone also. I can leave when I want or stay as long as I want that way. I like the freedom.
Also, if OTC ever comes up, I'm able to do that after a dancer's shift on short notice.
Just makes it easier to go alone and keep it to myself.
But i was introduced through a group and we would go together for celebrations then i would go for my own celebrations
I often have to bite my tongue on the rare times that the topic comes up in mixed company - usually the females are bagging on the clubs, dancers, and the patrons and they expect me to agree with them. Lol - If they only knew!
Also, I have always preferred to club alone so that I can stay/leave at my choosing.
SJG
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I don't talk to my friends about this shit.
In my home town, solo clubbing is as bad as solo dining. Dancers ignore solo custies. If I had a wingman, both of use would get much more out of the visit. One SC near me has a policy solo clubbers stand in the line outside for 20 minutes, groups of 2 or more skip the line. Traveling, I've had much better results solo clubbing.
I keep to myself in my daily life.
My friends and family would be stunned of my love for showclubs.
I have learned a lot about myself. I have my routine down and know
when to walk away from bad clubs. I like to watch and keep to myself
most days. But, I feel free in a showclub. I get to visit with hot women
who I could never visit with in the real world. Showclubs are the perfect anti depressant for me.
S.F. Crazy Horse is guys going alone cause it is a jack shack.
Myself, I always go alone, cause whatever the rules of engagement are, I want to connect with the women.
SJG
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