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14 years ago
I haven't been to Dancers... that's one of the few in the Indy area that I have NOT been to. I'd heard that the girls are prettier at Dancers than Brad's, but that mileage was less. Maybe I was misinformed?! I think next time in Indy, I will look up Dancers! So many places to go... so little time!
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14 years ago
My sexpeditions usually start very early in the morning, and am usually expected back at work the following morning. My pattern lately has been OTC with my curr fav during the day, then hit the club(s) for the night shift (haven't got my night shift girl converted over to OTC exclusively, yet). I will probably close the club (3am), then will go back to the hotel for a two hour nap before showering and hitting the road. A few times, I've gone to a local pancake house with my curr night shift girl and another dancer and the door guy. (makes for interesting conversation, but damn that drive to work is a killer!!)
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14 years ago
Also shave the crack, too... One of my OTC girls was into rimming, and she refused if there was hair down there. If you haven't received that... you don't know what you are missing (it was WELL worth the effort to shave that area clean, believe me - I maintain it, in case another girl is so inclined!)
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14 years ago
I shave "the boys", and trim around "The Associate". I appreciate when a girl doesn't have a wild bush (prefer clean shaven), so it's only polite to reciprocate, right?
The downside... I am a runner, and for those of you that don't run, there is a LOT of friction going on down there, when you run. Soo... if I don't keep up with the manscaping and let stubble form, it's like running with sandpaper in my shorts. (leads to a scream or two when the shower water hits that area after my long run... seriously, OUCH!)
As for my SO.. I started manscaping about the time when I started adding miles to my long run a few years back. I told her that I'm not shaving, that it's just worn off from running. (she hasn't questioned it, and it's SOMEWHAT believable, I guess)
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14 years ago
I grew up going down to Indianapolis every year for the time trials (and race every few years). It was a real "education" for me, as I was probably about 12 years old on the first visit. There was ALWAYS something going on. Seems every year, some enterprising girl would stand up on top of a van in the infield, and guys would be taking up a collection. As soon as she had enough money, she'd "perform"... either taking her top off, stripping, or some other sexual act. One year, there were two girls with a double dong that got quite a lot of attention!
I'd go home with circles around my eyes from looking through the binoculars all day!
Maybe THAT'S where I was corrupted!
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14 years ago
Founder... ditto... thanks - MUCH appreciated!
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14 years ago
That new pic is great! I especially like the blonde on the fair right. Even her attitude appears hot. She's the type that could empty my wallet errr... and other things. [wink]
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14 years ago
It's not the clothes that get me going.. it's mostly the hair that catches my eye... long, silky hair...
The only actual item of clothing that I can think of, which I don't see too often is a collar / choker. Don't know why that is, 'cept maybe in high school, girls that wore chokers were usually covering up hickies, which meant they were a fun date! Of course the collar kind'a implies submissiveness, so maybe that is it...
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14 years ago
The nice "crispies" also tend to easily stick together, so one has to be more careful!!
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14 years ago
Most of my favs, curr and past, as well as my ATF shared kisses with me. In fact, my ATF (whom I almost left my wife for, if you've read my other posts) gave me THE hottest kiss of my entire life... it was our first kiss, and damn, I was in love at that moment. That ship sailed a few years ago.
As for my curr fav.. we've only brushed lips a few times, even though we've met OTC 3 times, now, and she claims we are "dating". (uhhh... not unless THAT changes SOON!) My #2 girl just started allowing the kissing, including a very hot three-way DFK with her best friend.
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14 years ago
Like several others said, I don't hold on to singles, nor do I arrive at a SC with them. Just like the others, I will start out my visit with breaking a $20 for the cover charge (if there is one), then my first drink. From those transactions, I will have around 10 ones.
I don't worry about being short of singles. If I run out at any time, it's a good excuse for not tipping the "hi, wanna tip me for my dance?" BS. Also, if I go up to the stage for tipping, I will usually tip $5 or $10 when she's one of "my girls", or if it's a girl I want to lure back to my table, she will probably get a $20 as incentive.
As for keeping the money away from the SO. I keep a separate bank account - unknown to her, at another bank. Any "extra" income goes in there, such as office pool winnings, fantasy sports winnings, bonus checks from work, etc. If my "fund" gets low, I also pull $10 or $20 out of my wallet and stash it into my account, every few days.
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14 years ago
Yeah, for the first time this morning, I saw the attempted download. Don't like that one bit!
I understand Founders need for income, and believe me whatever he can get is fine. Without this site, I would definitely miss it, so I'll put up with advertising, if I must.
Give me banner adds all day, though... and NOT the instrusive types of advertising - like the attempted downloads, etc.
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14 years ago
Cable... My preference would be nipple gnoshing to getting hit by a bus!
GatorFan.. Done that far too many times to be worried about it. Not much you can do, short of using a "dental dam", and neither I nor the girl would enjoy that! (everytime, I get paranoid afterward, and every little tingle / twinge I feel on my lips or tongue, increases my anxiety. So far, no harm done, thankfully.
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14 years ago
BaddJack... maybe it's for the weather.. it's been a "great" winter [sarcasm].
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14 years ago
Yeah... definitely an ugly thought that is always in the back of one's mind. This, and other potential biological deposits from previous customers that I don't want any part of sharing, is one of the key reasons that I like to catch my girls at the beginning of their shift (preferably being the first guy of the night). I also strive to monopolize her time while I'm at the club, to limit these exposures, of course even when I have her exclusively, I cannot do anything about what happens when she is on stage, etc.
OTCing is another good way to combat, but you never know what she was doing before you meet!
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14 years ago
I don't have any Valentines Day plans (I have a class on Monday's), but I DO have an all day OTC for Tues, the day after, and will probably end up at the club for the night shift, if I can't coax more time out my OTC girl.
I'm considering potheads idea for Tues... even though it's a day late. I think the temp tat in the card was the icing on the cake, and the key to making it work as well as it did (besides his obvious "stud" status). I will see if I can't find a box of them with the tats on Tues... heck, they should be 50% off, making the idea even better!!!!
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14 years ago
First, I think PrimO had a primo idea! (just kidding, GV, do NOT share her information!)
GV.. for whatEVER her reasoning is, she has left the door open for you.. proceed inside, without knocking! Go for it by asking her out... no need to get to know her further, etc. BUT, as several stated, be careful. You never know if there is an ambush lurking. SHE will give you signs as to how far she wants (or is willing) to go... follow them, and have a good time.
You sound like a nice guy and with your comments such as "getting a different impression" from her, etc. That sounds like something that I'D say about some of the girls I've OTCed with. Be careful with your perception of them. As was stated, 95% (or more) are just dangling SS in front of you in order to get more money. It's nearly impossible to determine how much is SS and how much - if any - is truthful. Most of these girls have YEARS of practice with HUNDREDS of guys and have the art of deceipt and seduction down to a science. Add in a mixture of wishful thinking on the guys part, and you have the making for a con. (beleive me, I've been there)
Proceed with EYES WIDE OPEN! and good luck!
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14 years ago
As JoesParty stated, the rules for cruises are different (though that might have changed as it's been about 5 years since my last cruise). Previously, all you needed to show was proof of identity, BC/WL and a boarding pass. (of course the thought there is that the cruise line has already done the screening prior to your embarking on the voyage)
It's for all of our safety, but it's too bad things had to change. Now, I can't venture into TJ without there being far too many records and traces... no TJ for me!
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14 years ago
Dudester... I'm guessing your standing isn't the only thing that she'd be raising!
I would agree with pothead, though... it wouldn't be comforting knowing that there is a video out there that could cause you a whole lot of grief depending on when and by whom it is seen.
I WOULD do it if my face were obscured, though. I've seen quite a few videos (mostly the COHF variety) where the guy is actually wearing a mask.. as long as you don't have any identifying marks or tats, that would work!
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14 years ago
GMD / Clubber...
"Thanks"... now I'm going to be paranoid...
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14 years ago
Clubber:
Only if they drink out of it BEFORE it's washed!
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14 years ago
10In...
I don't get to clubs too often where that is on the menu, but I still come prepared (err... no pun intended [wink]).
I carry a handkerchief, the same color as my pants (black), and if that activity is going down (uhh.. sorry), I can pull out my hanky and open it up across my lap pretty inconspicuously. Once it has served its purpose, I can wad it up and shove it in my pocket.
Another approach is to grab a few napkins at the bar on the way back to the lap dance area. Although this isn't as handy and is much more obvious, it will do in a pinch.
The best option is to convince her to go along with the CIM - she doesn't have to swallow - she can always spit it out behind your chair, on the floor, in a glass (I'll sacrifice my beer ANY day for that!!). Lastly, if you are lucky enough to get to the CIM option, make sure you've been drinking your pineapple juice. (makes your cum taste better - or so I've read (never received any complaints!)
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14 years ago
GMD... sorry, I know that must be tough!
The relationship with my ATF ended after about three years. It was NOT my choosing. She ended it, the way she did it was not great. She basically just disappeared off the face of the earth. She had gotten a divorce, and I was heading for one (to be with her) and I think she ultimately couldn't handle the guilt of my marriage failing because of her.
Things were complicated because of the distance between us (about 3 hours). I knew she was moving, and looking for a new place. Had I been closer and able to spend more time together, I don't think she could'a slipped away so easily.
I probably COULD have gone down and tracked her, but she obviously didn't want that, and deep down, I knew it was probably for the best - it would have been a struggle to change my life to that extreme. I still entertain the thought that I will one day be able to re-kindle things. It's been almost three years now.
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14 years ago
I don't consider running errands or doing favors for my fav girls being pathetic or becoming a PL. I have don't it quite a few times. To me, it's just be nice - and I DO consider myself a nice guy. Admittedly, sometimes I'm too nice for my own good, but you have to do what makes you feel good, right?
If I enjoy making my favs happy, then we BOTH benefit - and usually I am well rewarded.
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14 years ago
I would never pay for a dancer to sit with me... that seems to border on pathetic. If there's a girl that I want to get to know, I will ask her to sit down and buy her a drink. If she won't do that, then I will ask her to come back when I'm ready for a dance. However, if she's not interested enough to sit with me for a free drink, than I am certainly looking elsewhere for my entertainment.
I WILL make an arrangement with a girl to spend the rest of her shift with me, which is KINDA like what you are asking, but the amount then is for ALL of her time (less when she must go on stage, or take a "potty break" - which in some cases is probably a "weed break") and unlimited dances. Usually, my favs will do this for $250 - $300, which sounds like a lot, but if I have 30-40 dances throughout the shift, it's a bargain. Its also a plus for her 'cause she no longer has to hustle to make money and can relax and enjoy the company of a nice guy (moi).