Do you and your ATF kiss?

Yes everytime with tongue too it seems it has become part of the dance now. It can be fun

Also most escorts kiss, i think that is just an old myth by people who haven't been to one

I've had both kissable and unkissable favorites. Those who don't kiss may fear herpes or other contagions.

ATF 1 & 3-yes. ATF 2-no.

In my experience most of them kiss. I've encountered a couple who won't, but they're rare

I've had some girls who will let me do just about anything but kiss, I've had other girls who will kiss but won't even let me put my finger on top of the g string... one girl kissed my half way through the first song with tongue and forceful... every girl has their own thing

Since I know for a fact that all of my current favorites suck dick, and I'm not arrogant enough to believe that I'm the only for whom they do that, and I'm not foolish enough to believe that all of them use rubbers, not "no", but "fuck no!"

One of my earlier discussion topics was about why one shouldn't kiss a stripper. Have fun reading that, and then decide if you still want to kiss her.

nengneng, my experience is the same as yours. I have only a few dancers that would kiss, even when I dropped hundreds of dollars on them. The female brain connects kissing with love, so that is usually the one thing they might save for their boyfriend/husband. Strangely, the female brain does not associate love with HJ, DATY, BJ, FS. While I think kissing is not too common among strippers, most escorts will do it, but a few escorts don't.

Considering HIV is not transmitted through saliva, kissing is actually safe on the list of strip club activities. Both kissers would have to have open cuts in their mouths to transmit HIV.

She can kiss my cock is about all the kissing necessary.

I am reminded of the time that I was in my favorite club with magicrat and theDirk444. I had just received a BBBJ and headed to the mens room to clean up. When I got back to the table, they were laughing their asses off. What's so funny, I asked. When she came out of the back room, she immediately jumped into some guys lap and started kissing him.

vincemichaels: you know of whom I speak. Did you kiss her?

It can go either way. It's definitely a chick thing, just seems so funny to me a girl can show up ready to suck, fuck, take it in the ass (maybe) but "NO KISSING". Huh? The chemistry of the female brain is a mystery that no man has, can nor ever will understand. Last dance I got at a medium (sometimes high but rare) mileage club a cute little Colombian girl who looked like Tila Tequila with less wear and tear started a full on makeout session. For a dick stays in the pants dance it was actually quite nice, a little finger action and full on DFK. It was like I was in high school again. I've had other dancers too that will kiss like that but I've also had some scoff at the notion of kissing, kind of like "what!No way!". At a couple of high mileage clubs I go to near me there's no kissing, go back drop trou and get to work. I wouldn't even consider kissing one of these "ladies".

ATF said kissing happens only in an enduring and committed relationship--then hit me with DFK. Turned out she was faking it.

sinclair: you can get HSV, aka the herp, through kissing. Easily if she has cold sores, harder if not.

I don't see my ATF too often due to working a loooong distance away. But on a visit about a year ago, she backs away a bit during a LD session and says "Look at this!" She proceeded to stick her tongue out, quite far, like about 4 inches beyond her lips. Which caused my eyes to open very wide and jaw to drop. Followed by her inserting her lovely wet appendage into my open mouth for significant pleasure. Unfortunately, in following visits, that hasn't been repeated and I'm not the type to beg. You never know what will happen next with these ladies...

Ah, strippers are now giving up even kissing, one thing they supposedly used to withhold. Their culture is in ruins. These are good days indeed!

Shadow I was there that day at PP. We all about died when she walked out sat down and planted a huge wet one right on the poor guys lips. She might have even tongued him. Knowing where her mouth had been about one minute earlier made it sick. No kissing for me at the club.

Sorry Greg, I got the story right just not the names of the observers. LOL.

After our Valentine's, er, "date," my current fav took my face in her hands and gave me a long, soulful kiss.

I like to think she reserves that for only the nicest guys she meets in the strip club, lol.

Most of my favs, curr and past, as well as my ATF shared kisses with me. In fact, my ATF (whom I almost left my wife for, if you've read my other posts) gave me THE hottest kiss of my entire life... it was our first kiss, and damn, I was in love at that moment. That ship sailed a few years ago.

As for my curr fav.. we've only brushed lips a few times, even though we've met OTC 3 times, now, and she claims we are "dating". (uhhh... not unless THAT changes SOON!) My #2 girl just started allowing the kissing, including a very hot three-way DFK with her best friend.

former ATF did when i first met her. new ATF, only known her for 2 weeks and i havent tried. not to say i dont want to, i definatly do, i just do not push the issue

I always got to kiss ATF's #1 and #3, but never #2 and #4. I have kissed non-ATF favorites as well.

DougS: Since your ATF whom you almost married to was also from BBF, I hope I can push my relationship with my ATF even better than what you got. Kiss is the first step to go!!!

Steve: After last time I gave her chocolate/card for VD 2 weeks ago, I have not got a chance to see her after that. Hopefully my ATF also reserves that for me, as she also thinks I am the nicest...

BTW, I think the concern about kissing after her doing BBBJ really depends on the girl. If she is hard to kiss, I believe it is even harder to get her doing ITC/OTC. So I would take it really an accomplishment and enjoy it without concern if it takes some efforts to get the kiss. (I know this sounds really PL, but my personality is like, I don't care what can be reached easily at all. I only love things/people beyond my reach. Maybe that's why I'm still single...)

Doesn't do anything for me and I usually decline a dancer's proffered upper lips.

Now, for that lovely pair of vertical lips lower on a dancer's body - that's an entirely different matter!

neng said: "If she is hard to kiss, I believe it is even harder to get her doing ITC/OTC."

Maybe, but I've been going to strip clubs and fucking strippers since I was 17, and I can count the number of those who offered to kiss in any way more than a simple peck without taking my shoes off. On the other hand, I don't think I could remember all the blow jobs I've had if my life depended on it.

When I was young and naive, I too wanted to kiss them; done right, it's a very sensual experience, even without taking one's clothes off. Then one day it clicked. My then girlfriend, now wife, kissed me after blowing me, and dropped my own load in my mouth. Since then, on the very rare occasions it's offered, I've politely declined or turned my head.

Nah, nothing like this has ever happended to me. But I haven't been to many strip club's yet and all the one's in my area are pastie which is lame. However, the last lap dance that I received, the girl kissed me on both of my cheeks at the end of the dance.

shadowcat, I can't recall if I was in the club with you guys that day. I remember the story, but I doubt I kissed her. I generally do not kiss dancers for all the reasons mentioned by the other guys. I won't say that I wouldn't kiss certain ones, but as a general rule, no.

I've had many a dancer plant a soft open-mouthed wet one on me before I knew what hit me. My initial physical reaction was to reciprocate, but as gmd mentions, I can only imagine where else that stripper's mouth might have been that day (or hour), so I nip it in the bud pronto.

I try not to think about where her mouth has been. Maybe she is equally stingy with them, too. I have tried several times and she has done the quick peck and keep moving. But in the LD she knows that I'd love to hit those kissable lips, so she teasingly brushes her lips against mine and lightly licks mine. She knows that they will stay just beyond my reach.

Ok, here goes. My ATF, nothing more than a father/daughter type of kiss. Sometimes on the cheek, and sometimes lips to lips, closed. Current favorites, vm knows them, "C" sometimes on the cheek and every once in a while on the lips, closed. "G", full on the lips open mouth, lots of tongue, all the time. She is also excellent at taking out a transmission and shifting it! I just wish I could talk to her a bit.

lopaw,
Nipping the bud sounds fun!

lopaw,

Your reason why you "nip it in the bud"? Disease, the likelihood her lips had been wrapped around a cock before you, or another reason?

Clubber: Those aren't enough? :)

That was intended as a bit of a joke for lo.

Kiss me once
Kiss me twice
C'mon pretty baby
kiss me deadly

I've managed to kiss one stripper before. She was in my lap and we were staring deep into each other eyes. We were about 2 or 3 dances in and the whole time she had been keeping her face very close to mine...maybe just like 1 inch apart. I started by pecking her on the lip a little bit...knowing that this could lead to trouble but I didn't care because I was caught up in the moment and vibe; it just felt right. To my surprise, she actually reciprocated. We then begin to slowly insert just a bit of tounge...not DFK but still VERY erotic and enjoyable to me. At no point did this become a makeout session...which is hot in a way because having to restrain and pent up yourself just makes the little "victories" even more enjoyable. The dance ended and the girl said something about how that made her horny...which was most likely total SS but still felt pretty good to hear!

Clubber -

Just one comment: Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww! o_0

Back in the day when I would freely and eagerly share bodily fluids with dancers, I wouldn't really think too much about where she'd been or who she had been with right before me. But dancers weren't as willing to do extras back then like they are now, which IMO is really a mixed blessing. It's great for obvious reasons, but it carries more risk of cooties coz you know she's been with EVERYBODY.

lopaw,

A perfect case of the "double edged sword"!