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@vm: BTW, why you mentioned Asia in a response to me? I didn't get the idea... Also, if you read others' responses to my topic, or other topics (e.g., last topic, which is about dinner proposal from a stripper), you can find that I'm not alone here: there are others who take their ATF to restaurants as well, and some of them are quite experienced/advanced member here, say, shawdowcat. I respect his relationship with gridget very much, and would like to develop something similar with my ATF. Then why you think only I am the PL here? Just because most others are elder than me thus their same behaviors as mine must be better thought of than mine? Or alternatively, maybe you think all of us who take ATF to restaurants are PLs (but happened to just nominate me), or more straightforward, all of us who have developed emotional attachments to strippers are PLs, then I'd love to be. The idea is: different people have different aims to SCs, and to me the emotional satisfaction is definitely better appreciated than sexual satisfaction. To me, since preference is a personal issue that should not be judged by others, people going to SCs hoping to get emotional satisfaction (which could be better met by meeting her socially, that's why I would go) are at most as pathetic as those hoping to get laid, if not less.

I know who Asia is. I really cannot enjoy her dance... and her face does not appeal to me at all. She seems to be everything to the other end of my preference: she's Asian, short, fat with big boobs, and I like tall slim with A-cup Caucasian girl...

@georg, I just assume that other regulars may also take her to restaurants. So I don't want to look cheap (cheaper). A general idea of all you guy's choices help me to get a general sense of the average level! Actually I studied social psychology before, and comparison group was one of my research interests, so maybe I am performing the theory, but that's how my brain works...

@Clubber, Thanks for your idea (and also all others') that I should set the bar not very high in order to save upscale options for special occasions like V-day. BTW, you mean, she quit stripping??

@Steve229 I intended to say in my original post that Hooters should not be an option! It's so easily to be detracted by other girls (and I think it's even unlikely to develop anything with Hooters girls than with you ATF), which is bad.