Comments by DandyDan (page 6)

I have had an on-again off-again fuck buddy relationship with a female former coworker of mine for a year now. One time, I wanted to get together, but she had a medical issue come up. She did set me up with her friend, who was basically an older version of her.

That was something one of the clubs I used to visit regularly had in their VIP rooms. They had a TV with a DVD player and a small selection of pornos you could pop into the DVD player. This was similar to how they had a TV playing porn in the main room. I don't recall it actually being used, though. Eventually, they just did away with it, long before they closed up.

I was in back my last visit, over a month ago, and yes, they do enforce the no contact rule.

If you go with a friend, and you pick a dancer they disapprove of, you will hear about it forever

I had a recent encounter with a dancer from one of the clubs in my area at the casino in my area. I was playing one of the slots when she comes to the one next to mine. At the casino, I have nights where I just run into people I know, so we start talking and she sounded oddly familiar, so I ask if I have seen her elsewhere previously. That's when she mentions her strip club dancing and that she still dances. Not long after that, her friend (or perhaps her girlfriend, she is bi) comes along and that was it.

There was one club (more like a bar with strippers, really) I was familiar with that had a front and back entrance, so I could see how muddy's original story could happen if a club had a similar setup.

Count me in as a Claudia fan, too

I remember one once at Big Earl's in Des Moines, Iowa once after they had remodeled. I think it was just a plot to get you to buy a champagne room. I suspect they still do this, but that's the one club there I never go to anymore.

At one club I used to regularly visit (since closed), it was often the owner you paid your cover to to get in. He never seemed like a bad guy to me, but you have a conversation with him and he could be critical of some of the girls. A different owner I knew, also for a closed down club, seemed like the biggest horse's ass I ever met, which may account for why his club fell off a cliff and possibly why he died. (I always assumed he committed suicide, but I don't know and lost contact with all the dancers I knew there who would know.)

If they were a favorite, I certainly remember them whether they were the most beautiful or not.

Players have always been doing those type of antics as long as I've followed baseball. I'm sure Babe Ruth did it.

I don't know if it's beauty or desirability you mean. Just looking at the women I currently work with, I find one of them who is 50-something to be beautiful, but not someone I really desire. OTOH, there's a lady who's 20-something I work around frequently who isn't any sort of conventional beauty, but I would absolutely take her to bed.

It happened a lot when I was a newbie because every club had a communal private dance room. Even if my girl was doing a great job, I'd still check out the other ones. Hell, most of the girls are checking out the other girls, too.

I have heard Allstar by Smashmouth in a strip club, FWIW. I used to have a favorite who would play that song for her first stage appearance.

This is the strip club all my nights in Des Moines end at. I am surprised you said 4 of the 7 dancers were white because every time I go there, it's at least 75% AA. I should probably make another trip.

It depends on where I go. At one club I have visited in the past, sometimes just seeing eye candy, or at least friendly girls, is enough. Other clubs would be disappointing if no extras happened.

My closest strip club option has occasionally been closed on weekends due to no dancers. I would have thought COVID-19 would have killed it for sure, but it's a low cost operation in a small town. I suspect when the owner goes, the strip club goes.

I used to be a regular at a club which had a good subset of both high mileage and low mileage girls. The low mileage girls were generally better looking than the high mileage girls. Mathematically, if you could quantify looks and mileage and graph it, it would be some variation of the y =1/x chart.

My memories of El Paso are of the U.S. Army checking out the Mexican talent. One particular odd one I remember is the club I went to in Sioux City, Iowa where Latinos were checking out the black girls.

There's a few in some obviously rural locations which have nearly all white customers, but a disproportionate number of black dancers. I always find that a surprise, but I suppose the dancers know where all the clubs are.

I do have to give a shoutout to Wyndham Clark for winning. This was my best sports bet ever, in terms of odds (+8500 before the tournament began).

Some clubs do post who's going to be there and it's mostly reliable, but for the most part, you either have to have contact on social media with your favorites or else you are just going to have to show up. Way back when, I had a couple favorites who would print up business cards with their schedule, but I doubt anyone does that anymore.

I can say that the one definitive lesbian I work with (she talks about her wife constantly) looks like a man except for the part about her boobs being huge. Which begs the question does she look like a man?

Hell if I know. I've known two who were in their 60's. They both swallowed. One of them went far beyond just swallowing. The 20-something burnouts weren't even worth their offers of a lapdance. Not that it typically works like that.

Generally anymore, it's once a month, twice at the most. I generally bring $200 with me to the club, but often spend far less. The one club I visit has cheap lap dances, so a little goes a long way there. The other I less frequently visit only has 3 or 4 dancers a night at the most, so I usually pick one and she gets all the money I spend.